THOTH Posted October 21, 2003 Report Share Posted October 21, 2003 i agree w/ skittles- becuase i believe that physical virginity is not a measureof ones personality and characteristics- or ones morals concerning other situations----- Yeah agreed (being serious now)...and this whole virginity thing in general (just another control thing of men over women really)...its all a crock. And its truly meaningless IMO (but if it matters to some individual - well thats there thing - fine...)...but I feel sorry for all the (women primarily) who are subjected to such silly unequal judgements. Hey - sex is fun - it is a good thing. It should be more then just a casual thing - IMO - but not so sacricsanct either. Adults should be able to make up their own minds about these things - and shouldn't be afraid of having some fun (with proper precautions of course)....and lets face it - the idea that you will just be with one person - your whole life - ever - well - its just not reality anymore...nor does it need to be... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheekY Posted October 22, 2003 Report Share Posted October 22, 2003 ...guys in Armenia care about virginity too much but they themselves go to stripclubs(or wherever) and do God knows what even when they have a girlfriend...umm lol yeah it's ok not to be a virgin but i wouldn't date someone who had 1 night stands all the time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nairi Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 I deeply respect the kind of girl who can wait with s-- until marriage. Did you mean SEX? Speaking of SEX, I've been feeling rather frustrated lately. My self-imposed celibacy is seriously beginning to get to me. I've even considered getting in touch with my ex... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gurgen Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 Hahahaha n1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheekY Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 Virgin? Dream of every guy. non-girloholic guys who drool at the sight of boobs...dream of every girl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheekY Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 i already have a guy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armo77 Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 I know in life that nothing is ever perfect. I also know that true love can not be denied weather your partner is Virgin or not.. I myself would not mind marrying a Virgin and I don’t really see anything wrong with that. Image being with someone knowing they have only and always been just YOURS! Or Imagine being intimate with your wife and doing nothing but wondering in the back of your mind how many... uh never mind.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armo77 Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 lol just like that said in Seabiscuit... "Don't throw it away just because its a little banged up". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 imagine yourself comming in a public place and someone comes up to you and says: "You know what I did to your wife before you were in the picture". Sorry but this would give me a reason to kill myself Why not just punch the clown who ran up to you talking like that? At that point she's your wife, protect and honor her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armo77 Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 It would be soo much nicer, pleasant, and easier not to have to worry about stuff like that though.. But like I said.. "Life is never perfect". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheekY Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 yeah sev-mard! lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azat Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 Where do we find these virgin species of women. In Virginia? They sound pretty cool... I personally do not care one way or the other... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armo77 Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 Where do we find these virgin species of women. In Virginia? They sound pretty cool... Yeah everyone is Virgins there.. Its like the Vatican. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormig Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 Image being with someone knowing they have only and always been just YOURS! Or Imagine being intimate with your wife and doing nothing but wondering in the back of your mind how many... uh never mind.. "Yours" sounds too possessive, and "doing nothing but wondering..." suggests neurosis. <_< How would you get far enough to manage to marry someone when you were obsessed with how many people they had been with? And what does "how many?" mean? How many trophies? See, this is one area where we women are entirely cool about how many others our partners have been with. In fact, for some (like myself - within reasonable limits, of course ), it can be a turn-on to think. I also think that these are or can be matters to be discussed and shared between a married couple if they are self-secure enough - it's done in casual relationships, even. Nobody OWES it, but this is supposed to be your significant other for you to share things with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormig Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 imagine yourself comming in a public place and someone comes up to you and says: "You know what I did to your wife before you were in the picture". Sorry but this would give me a reason to kill myself I don't think anyone is as insolent as you are neurotic. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armo77 Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 Enough with the "neurosis" "Neurotic" blah blah... Some people just would prefer a vergin wife.. Don't bash them for it.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armo77 Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 Oh and why does someone "preferring" a virgin (not "wanting", "Preferring") offend you to the poit of calling them "Neurotic"? It's their personal life and personal opinion. <_< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheekY Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 yeah stormy a lot of Armenian guys are like that! possessive...too jealous and VERY creative...create all kinds of images in their head then kick their wife because they believe all that crap is true! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armo77 Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 oh come on now ladies!!!!! Wouldn't you like to know where you husband has been or what he has done.. It's YOUR body he will be entering. Or would you just let your husband do as he pleases. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheekY Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 hmm sure but it's not really nice to demand to be told every detail, is it? unless you don't trust each other... because it's annoying and shows all the person does is sit and worry where he/she went what they did etc...no trust! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armo77 Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 hmm sure but it's not really nice to demand to be told every detail, is it? unless you don't trust each other... because it's annoying and shows all the person does is sit and worry where he/she went what they did etc...no trust! Has nothing to do with "trust" or "Neurosis" or "obsession". Its called curiosity. Especially if you are going to be very intimate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormig Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 Oh and why does someone "preferring" a virgin (not "wanting", "Preferring") offend you to the poit of calling them "Neurotic"? It's their personal life and personal opinion. <_< Armo, I have no problems with people's preferences, but "doing nothing but wondering in the back of your mind how many" - is just pathetic to say the least. You were better off if you hadn't said any of that. Were the below not your own words in your post? Or Imagine being intimate with your wife and doing nothing but wondering in the back of your mind how many... uh never mind.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormig Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 Its called curiosity. Especially if you are going to be very intimate. Hardly a matter of curiosity if you are going to feel better with a Japanese flag your own design. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormig Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 it can be a turn-on to think Well personally for me it`s a huge turn-off!!!!!!!!! let`s be honoust, who wants to imagine his wife with somebody else? I think I would get sick of the idea! Davo, you're a sentimental and frail and fragile one. Why, I can't even think of anyone I know who would want to die if some SOB walked up to one's spouse and was rude. It's just the way you are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheekY Posted January 9, 2004 Report Share Posted January 9, 2004 (edited) so when your wife comes home you you're gonna ask her about her day in detail then be "intimate" with her? well sure you need to know about a person's life before you marry them but because they slept with someone it's a bit too unfair to dump them... say you have a gf and she loses her virginity but then you break up...would you call her a slut?? Edited January 9, 2004 by skittles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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