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Sasun jan, I'm with you all the way, live and let live.

 

What I cant stand is some people so passionate about beeing virgin and all that bull, you find those same poeple reading "HAZAR U MEK GISHERNER" under there blankets at night! <_<

Edo jan, that's fine, but being passionate about virginity is not automatically offensive to others who are not for virginity. What is the big deal I don't udnerstand? Let them be passionate, it's their life :) If somenoe started to tell that non-virgins are this and that I would understand so many harsh reactions, but that is not the case here. Even though I think it is unfair for a non-virgin guy to require a virgin girl, I still think it is the choice of the guy and the girl, it is not any of our business to criticize him.

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its up to the individual and what he beleives or in some cases doesnt beleive....

It is, as long as they don't put down others with their beliefs. That's what I got from your post: supposedly I have no self-respect even as I follow nature's course, and I have no self-control (that's true unfortunately :)) because I choose to feed my natural desires.

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imagine yourself comming in a public place and someone comes up to you and says: "You know what I did to your wife before you were in the picture". Sorry but this would give me a reason to kill myself :blink:

How do you think your wife would feel if one of your ex lovers says the same thing to her. Would that give you a reason to kill yourself? :rolleyes:

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How do you think your wife would feel if one of your ex lovers says the same thing to her. Would that give you a reason to kill yourself?  :rolleyes:

 

i like the way you think extra!!! ;) very mature!! and in tune with reality, no sense in denying reality and the way people and relationships are today!! it's 2004 not 1704!! :rolleyes:

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I joined this forum, partially because I got so annoyed reading TigranIII's complete NONSENSE at the very, very beginning of this discussion topic (I know, it was over a year ago). I don't think I could possibly disagree with a human being any more. I mean, can you imagine being one of his sisters???? Poor girls can't walk down the street and so much as glance at a guy - their brother has people "watching" for him. ABSURD!!!!!!!!

 

That nonsense is going to completely intimidate most guys, and those girls are destined to marry complete tools (if anyone at all can get past the Tigran screen that is). SUCH a shame that they cannot enjoy their God given right to meet whomever the hell they want, hang out, laugh, have fun, and think for themselves. I mean, so long as they've been raised correctly, shouldn't everything else take care of itself?

 

ABSURD!

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BA GEVO JAN, mek mek srtics ariun a katum yerb vor kartum em ajs himar banner@!

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Awwww, how sad for you Davo jan :cry: . Don't understand why a male could have premarital sex and a female can't... :rolleyes:

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Yeah but this is after marriage,loooooool  :lol:

Your kidding right? :o How could someone get married with the attention of committing adultery.

 

No but seriously this was not about virginity. Don`t you agree with me that an armenian girl shoulkd be virgin befor marriage?

 

Marriage should be based on trust, respect and love; virginity is insignificant.

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:taz: :taz: :thumbup: :thumbup: :clap: :clap: ....you go girl!!! EXTRA JAN!!!...it's this double-standard, uptight armo mentality that makes me wonder if i should even WANT to be with an armenian who will have everyone in his family AND the ever nosey armenian community expressing their 12th century beliefs and getting in everyone's business!! (yeah! i know next time i post i will refer even further back to the B.C. era!! :P )---like i said! you're sharp as a #2 pencil!! EXTRA SHARP!!! :lol: :D :)
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Hyebruin jan, em asatse com davo ye asatse inch vat ban cara anir kez, batsi ko amusnutsun@ aveli kaghtseratsni.

 

Yev what is it that me and davo beleive which makes it from the 12th century... And i say the same for both males and females....

 

ba es barre vordits mer hye asgum, "aighlandak" :( :( :( :( :( :ph34r: :unsure: :o :huh:

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i agree with extrahye on the virginity issue--there you go! that's pretty much very very VERY old fashioned ideology!! what else can i say? :) ; and as far as "getting some" for the husband or the fiance or the b/f...now, that's just WRONG!! DEAD WRONG!! ---i know amongst some of us there's this mentality that you can still "love your wife" (whatever that means!! <_< ) and go ahead and screw someone else and the two do not have to be mutually exclusive!! ---that's b.s.!!---i'm not saying here that the woman should have the same "opportunity"--i'm just saying that CHEATING IS WRONG!!! and once someone says their vows and promises to love and to honour, they should honour their promise and the union!! as i stated somewhere else previously the idea of virginity is very romanticized! and unreal--while everyone has a choice as to whether they want to "keep it" or not, one thing is clear: there are many societal factors that influence one's decision one way or the other!!--if this world was filled with mostly wonderful loving caring men most women would, i would think, choose to wait until marriage----however since that is not the case and these days everyone is looking out for themselves (especially true with men) then why should women fool themselves and hold out and wait for "the one"...which i don't even think exists!!! you can be very compatible with more than one person on earth---i don't know??? but the idea of having a bunch of 30, 40 something year old virigins walking around is just weird!!!---there is a BIG difference between promiscuity and virginity!!---someone can be a virgin but still be a sl*t at heart!! think about it!! lusting after their friends' men or looking at, dersiring and fantasizing about married or emotionally committed men!!---sexuality is not about what's between the legs, rather it's what's between the ears!!
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BOY i think i missed something,, who said sex with other girls after marriage, for a guy, is right???

 

Dang straight its wrong.. lol..

even before marriage it's wrong!! if you're with someone have the respect to not cheat on that person, if you don't want them, break up and see other people! it's that simple!!---but people don't do this!! 'cause they want to keep a spare girl or guy (everyone does this! just being fair!) just in case their wild encounters don't turn out to be so hot after all!!---so they come crawling back to the "girlfriend"/"fiance"/"wife"...whatever!!! ---that's when you know you're with a loser and you kick them out of your life!!!! :box: :box: :clap: :clap:

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