Ariane Posted September 8, 2007 Report Share Posted September 8, 2007 We said, this thread won't die !!!! So Mr GDavidian, tell us what's happened, the rest... please !... I'm sure, I know, I'm not the one who wants to know, Anon too... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gdavidyan Posted September 10, 2007 Author Report Share Posted September 10, 2007 I have just been very busy working some things to bring her close to me. I don't care where it is, I just want to be near her, vice versa. I will be temporarily or maybe even permenantly be moving out of the United States to make this happen. I'll leave end of December. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gdavidyan Posted September 10, 2007 Author Report Share Posted September 10, 2007 If what I am doing doesn't work out, I will then move to Armenia to be close with her, until I can figure something out from there, I just hope her brother doesn't kill me until that happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emil Posted September 10, 2007 Report Share Posted September 10, 2007 What if he kills you after? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gdavidyan Posted September 11, 2007 Author Report Share Posted September 11, 2007 I hope I can talk to him so that he understands, but if not, I'm a U.S. Citizen, maybe the Embassy might be able to help me out, and if not, I will be prepared for him every second. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Watermin Posted September 11, 2007 Report Share Posted September 11, 2007 Seriously dude. Get a grip. Get real. There is no way in hell any other person is worth going through all this shit for. You’re putting all your hopes for a happy future into one being. It’s all bogus fantasies your mind’s conjuring up. It’s all in your head! Stop picturing good morning kisses and breakfast in bed…and sex. All this shit fades and at the end you’ll be left with no family, not many friends, and a marriage with many many problems because of the initial situation, and all the discontent surrounding it. ***. Stop being such a weakling. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emil Posted September 11, 2007 Report Share Posted September 11, 2007 I hope I can talk to him so that he understands, but if not, I'm a U.S. Citizen, maybe the Embassy might be able to help me out, and if not, I will be prepared for him every second. You should learn Krav Maga. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymouse Posted September 12, 2007 Report Share Posted September 12, 2007 Seriously dude. Get a grip. Get real. There is no way in hell any other person is worth going through all this shit for. You’re putting all your hopes for a happy future into one being. It’s all bogus fantasies your mind’s conjuring up. It’s all in your head! Stop picturing good morning kisses and breakfast in bed…and sex. All this shit fades and at the end you’ll be left with no family, not many friends, and a marriage with many many problems because of the initial situation, and all the discontent surrounding it. ***. Stop being such a weakling. What is your problem? Have you not been in love!? How dare you criticize a young Armenian guy who has only innocently fallen in love. Don't you think we should encourage this as opposed to seeing our youth go down paths that are morally repugnant, like gangs and fraud and other sort of things? Geez, people coming in here and chiming in with their opinions as if they matter, when they have not tasted the sweet potpourri of love's morning balm! You cannot speak for you are not only not in love, but, it's not with your cousin at that! Can you imagine how much stronger the bond would be? So please, spare us your divulging into rationality and common sense, for as Nietzsche says, whatever happens out of love, is always beyond good and evil. Our duty is but to provide remedies for our young muskateer of love who innocently came upon the internets to ask fellow Armenians about life's woes and tribulations about love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymouse Posted September 12, 2007 Report Share Posted September 12, 2007 I hope I can talk to him so that he understands, but if not, I'm a U.S. Citizen, maybe the Embassy might be able to help me out, and if not, I will be prepared for him every second. That's one thing the U.S. embassy cannot protect you from: a hayastansi Armenian male who happens to be the brother of the girl you're in love with who happens to be your cousin, ergo, he is also your cousin. You could lean Krav Maga as suggested, or, you could start making booby traps around the perimeter of your house and getting some weapons. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ariane Posted September 12, 2007 Report Share Posted September 12, 2007 What if he kills you after? if he kills GDavidian ????( Astvats bayé!!!, merk'é!!! ) The thread will die too... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gdavidyan Posted September 12, 2007 Author Report Share Posted September 12, 2007 I don't care what anyone says about my "dream fantasies." I know there is no perfect marriage, marriage is a lot about compromising, understanding one another and there will be problems. I'm not stupid, I have not lost my senses and I'm not the out of my mind in love person that does not consider anything. I've considered a lot of things, I've weighed my options, I know I'm not taking an easy path. I didn't post this thread to be made fun of, I posted this thread to ask for help from my fellow Armenians, to find out what paths to take to be with her, that's all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Takoush Posted September 12, 2007 Report Share Posted September 12, 2007 (edited) I don't care what anyone says about my "dream fantasies." I know there is no perfect marriage, marriage is a lot about compromising, understanding one another and there will be problems. I'm not stupid, I have not lost my senses and I'm not the out of my mind in love person that does not consider anything. I've considered a lot of things, I've weighed my options, I know I'm not taking an easy path. I didn't post this thread to be made fun of, I posted this thread to ask for help from my fellow Armenians, to find out what paths to take to be with her, that's all. Hi young Davidyan; at first I opposed you; but then when I know how deep love is and can be for me as well; then I reconsidered your feelings and I understood you. When you are in love, you feel so upset when things go bad with you and your loved one and feel so happy when things starts being good between the two of you. You feel like that's it, you don't want to live without your loved one and I truly feel what you feel as love can be so pressing and so wonderful too. I wish you could be united with your one and only my young friend. Edited September 12, 2007 by Anahid Takouhi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anileve Posted September 21, 2007 Report Share Posted September 21, 2007 I don't know why everyone here is freaking out over this. This practice of marrying your first cousin is a very old and in some cultures an institutionalized tradition. You will find marriages of this sort in abundance among Jews and Muslims. That's their way of ensuring a pure bloodline. It was also quite common in Ancient Egypt, where even fathers used to marry their daughters. Although I don't have any cousins, nor have I experience such feelings, it's not uncommon. Many people at a young age develop strange feelings towards their relatives, most grow out of them, others make a potentially dangerous decision. There are some birth defect that have been known to occur, but that's not always the case. This happens more with young and confused people, and the fact that cousins do not see each other for an extended period of time may contribute to their romantic feelings. After all that person is close to you, shares your background, culture and perhaps many of your values. I just think that marrying right away is not always a good decision, perhaps date the person for some time to see if the feelings persist. In many cases, from my observation, those romantic emotions fade with time. Although....this guy can be full of crap of course... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gdavidyan Posted September 27, 2007 Author Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Yeah, I'm full of lots of crap. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Takoush Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Yeah, I'm full of lots of crap. No not at all!!!!! You are an excellent specimen of a good human being Davidyan jan. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Takoush Posted September 27, 2007 Report Share Posted September 27, 2007 Although....this guy can be full of crap of course... NO HE IS NOT!!!!! I thought you were more hospitable than that!!!!! Just because a person is new on this Forum you can't assume the worst! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boghos Posted November 4, 2007 Report Share Posted November 4, 2007 Reading his thread, aside from the most entertaining posts by Moog, I arrive at a simple conclusion: being in love and being a fool are not mutually excludent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anileve Posted November 6, 2007 Report Share Posted November 6, 2007 I thought you were more hospitable than that!!!!! What ever gave you that idea? I am only hospitable in person, online I can be absolutely terrible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted November 6, 2007 Report Share Posted November 6, 2007 What ever gave you that idea? I am only hospitable in person, online I can be absolutely terrible. Eve you're the best Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Takoush Posted November 7, 2007 Report Share Posted November 7, 2007 What ever gave you that idea? I am only hospitable in person, online I can be absolutely terrible. tse...tse..tse... mexk....mexk...mexk.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymouse Posted November 12, 2007 Report Share Posted November 12, 2007 We need to bury this thread alive already, like they did to Joe Pesci in Casino. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gdavidyan Posted November 12, 2007 Author Report Share Posted November 12, 2007 It's very interesting how so many people just want to tell people how to live their lives. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted November 12, 2007 Report Share Posted November 12, 2007 It's very interesting how so many people just want to tell people how to live their lives. Nobody is telling you how to live your life, but you did come here and ask for everyones opinion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ariane Posted November 12, 2007 Report Share Posted November 12, 2007 It's very interesting how so many people just want to tell people how to live their lives. the thread's name is " need help ", right ? So, that's what we've tried to do... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gdavidyan Posted November 15, 2007 Author Report Share Posted November 15, 2007 I was wondering if anyone knew how to bring her over, or if us being cousins is going to cause problems with immigration. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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