Ariane

It's so true ! If I remember well,... it really starts when the daughter is 15/16. may be cause she really starts to be a woman, she takes her mother's place, the new generation. At this moment, the mother's got the " power ", she works, she has kids, house, husband, she's not too old, still nice, but... she sees her daughter grow up, and little by little come to take her place... and it's difficult to let someone replace you ! But the daughter is not a poor innocent, she " pushes " her mother, cause she has to take her place too !!! It's difficult for both, cause there's a lot of LOVE between a mother and a daughter ! (it's sweet, I use to love to be kissed by my Mum, and use to love to kiss her, and at the same time, sometimes she makes me wonder !!!) I think the relation is a bit better when the daughter becomes a mother, and lives... a bit away from her mom. ( I say a "bit better", lol )

there's a big risk : do you know " le syndrome de Stockholm " ?

lol

the thread's name is " need help ", right ? So, that's what we've tried to do...

if he kills GDavidian ????( Astvats bayé!!!, merk'é!!! ) The thread will die too...

We said, this thread won't die !!!! So Mr GDavidian, tell us what's happened, the rest... please !... I'm sure, I know, I'm not the one who wants to know, Anon too...

u're welcome, little-boy !!!

Anon, I cry (really !!!) cannot believe, tell me it's not the end, oh no, please, please, please I just wish it's not the end of the thread, it will be sad, we just have to go back to our every day life... We need to devellop a bit more, cause we never know, we can all be one time, in this situation ( difficult, I admit ), and more, more of all I want a happy end !!! G Davidian, don't forget the forum, tell us what will hapen, keep in touch, wish u the best, regards, Ariane

FANTASTIC Anon, youre the best !!!!

Sure, kids change relationship, but only for a while, cause it's a new organisation in the house, someone new is living at home, and he only depends of you, it takes a good year by kid, for parents adapt. Usually, the mother takes care for the baby, it takes time in a day which always has 24hours, it's hard when the woman continues to work. That's why, (I think), it's good, if possible, the woman stops to work. While the father has to understand this moment, to wait and still love his wife. May be it's a compromise... if both wanted kids

No Anoushig, it doesn't bother me if they have their father's name, I have my father's name, it's normal ! But I wanted them to have both names, for to have an armenian name too, that's all ! Here in France, kids can have the 2 names, and when they marry they can choose the one they want, or only have their husband's or wife's name. I'm not sad for that, I just think it's a bit MACHO to refuse the kids to have their mother's name, do u understand wot I mean ?

More, Saturday is the 7th day of the week !!! I like the 7, I'm born this day SEPTember, 7th. in french SEPT means SEVEN. I think it'll be good !!!

they just have their father's name ! I've asked to their father if he was ok for them to have my name after his, he said NO !!! I was OK, cause after all he's the father, even if I think it's really MACHO !!! BUT, now it's possible, if they want, one day, for them to have my name after the one they have, they know I would like it, but the girls will loose it when they'll marry ! SO SAD !!! I've given them an armenian first name in third position, so they have something... so little it is...

I've been married to non-armenian man, at this time, the reason why I wanted to keep my father's name, is my pride, my identity, it shows everyone I'm armenian !!!

I'm OK with Sip, even if, we have been forced to leave our country, we must respect the rules of the country which receive us !!! We have some education, no ? When you are in your neighbour's living-room, before to light a cigare (which smells very particular !!!), you should ask if it's possible or not !!!