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Vera, We can debate and talk and have fun too, if we try to respect each other and communicate in a humanly manner. That is a requirement. I should think so.

Vera, I have no problem in a good discussion; but we have to respect each other's wishes not to use a certain language when it is asked of you. Otherwise, we have a lot that we can learn from each other and at the very least have respect towards each other while we are having differences of opinions. This is what this Forum is all about, right?

You have repeatedly called me toots when I asked you not to.

Ashot, I cannot write any posts. Is there any reason?

The only reason why I called you arrogent the last time, it is because I have asked you nicely but firmly to refrain from using the words toots and you said it again by disregarding me. You don't have to be humble, but there is no reason to disregard the requests of the person you are conversing with; just to be polite. That's all I have asked you to be, polite. You don't have to agree with me, but nonetheless we can converse in an amicable fashion with one another without talking down or hurting each other's feelings or standings. It is my understanding that religion reaffirs and wants us to stay in the context of morality, love and caring for one another and devotion too. I choose to believe in God and Jesus, because I simply do. Though my parents were Christians; but it was my choosing to believe in it and follow it. And God is love, and he wants us to love each other amidst our enjoyment of our beautiful universe.

A Dream within a Dream Take this kiss upon thy brow! And, in parting from you now, Thus much let me avow - You are not wrong to deem That my days have been a dream; Yet if hope has flown away In a night, or in a day, In a vision, or in none, Is it therefore the less gone? All that we see or seem Is but a dream within a dream. I stand amid the roar Of a surf-tormented shore, And I hold within my hand Grains of the golden sand - How few! yet how they creep Through my fingers to the deep, While I weep - while I weep! O God! can I not grasp? O God! can I not save One from the pitiless wave? Is all that we see or seem But a dream within a dream? Edgar Allan Poe

Actually Yervant, Zara wasn't implying about anyone on this Forum when she said that some people act in a very crazy way. She was saying that about some people that she came across who acted out in a very crazy way out on the streets.

Actually when she is trying to write the 10 positive and the 10 negative points, she may not come up with 10 positive or 10 negative points. I gave a number but I actually wanted her to sit down and think the good and the bad points from each category. She may come up with more than 10 with one but fall short of ten from the other. That's when she will know which one outweighs the other. Also while she is occupying herself with it, she will find out that some of the negative aspects really bother her.

Aghvor anoun e Nanen. Yev anounit darere mechn en heh?

Ashot jan, toun lav yeghpayr es mezi.

Scent of a Woman - Tango http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dBHhSVJ_S6A...feature=related

Eva, Also, on a piece of paper write down all the 10 positive and the 10 negative things of Choice "A"; then write all of the 10 positive and the 10 negative things of Choice "B". And see which one has the more positive things, then go by that.

I am sorry Eva jan, at the end I was making a light joke. I believe what Maral said is very good. Narrow it down and don't go off on tangents. And also ask for help. Either to a good and a knowledgeable friend or a psychologist perhaps.

I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes I have been in that dilemma and it's hard for the moment. But as some time goes by, things begin to fall in it's place. We worry so much and wonder and wonder what to do? Then things work by themselves most of the time. If in very much of a doubt, flip a coin. Btw; I was also going to say what Maral said above already, ask a good friend.

Maral, Btw; about your dream, there are legit books about interpreting dreams. You can stop at a library and see what the interpretation is about your dream?