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OK - understand all of that...but you really should consider that one of the beautiful things about a realtionship is learning and growing...and I think you can often do this more with somone who is substansially different then you (in whatever ways...)...just a thought...

Ahhh...so now I understand what you were talking about (when you said you needed help...) LOL

Yeah Armat...very nice...and I assume your previous avatars were also your work...great stuff!

Mo Sip - not familiar with this - please do tell! LOL And you being the internet maven - what other fun things might be going on that we are unaware?

I have several close friends who have adopted BTW..one recently "aquirred" a baby form Russia...and what a lucky little boy he is!

An old boss of mine once said - "too bad there isn't such thing as retroactive abortions" LOL...yeah I agree with Stormy's statement - why bring an unloved baby/child into the world...and "Bruin's comment - there are plenty of babies who could be adopted and need loving parents...(though I think Bruin may also be implying that a gal can have a baby and put him/her up for adoption...and yes - this certainly should be an option...but there is already an overabundance of such children in many places...(and its amazing how difficult [and expensive] it can be to adopt... ...obviously there is no simple or right answer to this question. And it obviously shouldn't be used for birth control...and there is certainly a time period where the fetus is viable where it should not be aborted...but I find it funny/sad that mosty of those who are so violently opposed really have no clue concerning the circumstances of most women who find themselves in a situation to make such a decision (and many of these same folks seem to be the same ones who also favor policies to cut benewfits for poor mothers and families, who could care less about nutrition and education etc for the disadvantaged, who do nothing to help those alive in the world who could use such help...so I fiond there over-attention on this issue to be rather disingenuous......and as I have been around gals who have gone through such - having an abortion - (nothing to do directly with me) - I can tell you that it isn't an easy decision at all for anyone. And most who are are in this situation are poor or otherwise unable to really care for such a child. I once dated a gal who would spend the whole day crying on the aniversary of the abortion that she had had prior to meeting me. Sure - it was done for her convience - being a student with no job or much money etc...and it was the result of a lapse...and although the decision tore her heart out and continued to do so - she felt it was the right one...and I'd basically have to agree - she was certainly not "mother" material...and as she had the procedure very early in her pregnancy - I fail to see any real compelling moral issue...

Sorry A4H - Well the previous poster said something about suicide - and here you were asking for help....(and I was just messing with you)...your not considering suicide then? ...hope not... But I should welcome you to the forum eh? Nice to have you with us... So just what kind of help are you in need of?

Please don't jump?

All this is very dependent on your locale. I could only givve you info related to my area (and not easily as its not something i have to deal with...but I can get access to this type of info - for my area...as I sometimes have to (indirectly) hire actors & such and alos outsource parts of my projects...used to more then lately). I assume you have the equipment you need - what about locations for shooting...outside/in studio, actors, lighting folks, director? post=-production - etc etc - really don't know how much you are going yourself and how much relying on others...you perhaps should find someone you trust - locally - who may be able to answer these questions for you...

LOL - and there you go again girl! You go girl! And keep feeling that way (well to an extent...do i need to warn you of the dangers of thinking too much along those lines?) But really - too many people undervalue themselves and get all kinds of complexes because of such (and I understand societal pressures and such...particualrly for women) - so its great to see/hear someone with such positve attitudes about themselves!

Don't worry Azat...in a few seconds (if that) i would be passed you and far down the road anyway...part of my philoshophy...if I lessen my time on the road (by going faster) - I lessen the time that I'm out there for some idiot to turn into me or some such...etc I've actually had very very few accidents in my time (and I've been driving quite a bit and put on at least 20K miles/yr)...(caused by me I mean - I've had plenty of idiots hit me though...)...and all (but 1 I guess) have been very minor. I did once cruise through a stop sign that I didn't see and was hit by another car. I wasn't speeding or anything - just the sign was a bit blocked and I just didn't see it. Still not good - a lapse certainly - but I've never had any problem at speed as it were...

"Bruin - I agree - if you act as you say - you would make a super wife - super ideal (that guys would dream for...)...heck - I would wish to be married to you! LOL (my wife is actually pretty good on these categories for the most part...though I do get my share of [at least somewhat deserved I guess] naging [but still - it is nagging... ] ...and of course no one and nothing is perfect...('cept maybe you dear! LOL) And skittles - yeah I know...I think/thought the same about that one too... Oh - and yeah - I'm a pretty kick-butt husband (and father) BTW ...

Yeah "Bruin - you go girl! (I was going to add something concerning Sip here - and ask you a question...and ...well never mind...don't want to embarras him...and the question would likely be too personal)...LOL Anyway - yeah - go for it...it'd do Sip some good certainly! And yeah - youse a riot girl!

Isn't that we just ask this question enough? We live to find meaning...we create meaning for ourselves...sometimes we just exist...without meaning...but really - in a sense what difference does it make? I really don't think there is any one single answer - if even any real defintive answer at all - to this question...

No - the answer is "me" - I'm the best...LOL...I really think that these questions are much too generalized...best for who? Whisch one - etc...answers are infintiely variable. Perhaps if you tried to categorize - best fathers for children with dyslexia or some such - i don't know...even still not all Armenian males and not all American males are the same - not by a long shot...so - to me - meaningless question...but I will still answer - "me" to it ...LOL

Yeah - you should see what the Norwegians have done...pretty impressive.. But for the avergage homeowner may not be the best option...stilll good thinking there Fadio (as usual....)

Yeah on one level I was into it...though more in general - I didn't particularly care for him as I recall (though didn't dislike him either...). I'm not the jealous type - so I wasn't bothered by it either...and I was getting plenty - so I was always well satisfied/never frustrated... But yeah - she was a real dynamo/insatiable - and I found her "exploits" pretty exciting in general (they did turn me on)...funny - she once said to me that she would fool/screw around more...but that I always left her too wore out...LOL (there were periods of months where we were together every day...and I was young then (and several years younger then her)...and unusually virile (if thats the right word) even for my age...(so I've often been told...)...ad still don't do too badly - if I can say so myslef....LOL

LOL - yeah.. Actually answering this thread has got me thinking/remembering. Once my bi-gal & I went on a double date together...ie we each had our own date! Funny observing the goings on on the other side of the table...(and with the little flirting [is that what you'd call it?] between the two of us...Well my date worked out less well (I saw her home...and it never really got off the ground after...or such) - of course her date got lucky! LOL (and she even saw him a few more times i think...but she still ended up back at my place later that night...!

Yeah - I can imagine you two having all sorts of problems in this regard. You seem very equipped (not refering to...LOL) to handle it though (emotionaly/intellectually)- it seems. I'm impressed really...

No - not at all - if it works for you I say more power to you...sounds fun too! LOL

LOL - sonds like you gusy could have a real fun party! LOL I understaznd now...and you may be right - you just might be more attracted to women - or this particular lady...or maybe your boyfriend is er, a, lacking a bit (and I dont mean [just] physically [not well listed as it were...] - but in knowing how to please you and just in general. (believe me - no lover of mine would abandon guys or even think of it...LOL) It also just might be a phase your in...and "new" things are always more exciting...so it could fade as well..but don't knock it - certainly not...and its great that your b/f is cool about it...so who's complaing eh? (though I can see you are having a dilema about it....sometimes its better to just not think to much - but let it happen/go with it...) I had a long time g/f (many years back)...who was very bisexual...she loved/really got off on other gals (and trhis is very understandable to me....LOL)...and not only were we able to work this in - big time - to both our (mutual & otherwise) fantasy play...but (on occasion) we had get togethers with her various g/fs too - and it was great fun (but sometimes odd certainly - because they weren't always so into me [or guys in general...]....and while being a spectator ain't all bad...its quite nice actually...its better being fully "in" on the action (as it were/pun intended) . She also would sometimes encourage me to pick up other gals to bring home (for both of us...not as easy as it might sound...) ...and she hit on some of my other female friends....the latter did not ussualy go over very well! LOL! But - I had no problem with her "interests" etc at all (quite the contrary) ...though for much of our realtionship (that eventually devolved into basically just a sexual one) we both dated/slept with other people (quite openly...in fact we shared all of our experiences...)...it was a great time all around really - LOL. We would each be dating others (casually...though at one point she was living with this other guy...) but we would still get together when we could (ussualy a few times a week!) - primarily just fior sex...yeah we might go out to dinner or to a club or such...but more often she would just show up at my door with beer and some pornos! LOL (only problems I had were when other dates were already over - because she would just show up...in fact she appreared at my door once as I was awaiting one of my first dates with my now wife! LOL...I was mortified of course (because I alredy knew I liked her quite a bit and wanted it to go well...luckily it did..) and actually ended up breaking it off with her (my bi [sort of/sort of not]...by then...g/f) shortly thereafter...as I started/was starting to get serious etc...with my now wife...) and we actually ended up taking her with us (I was very nervous/not happy with it...[understatrement] and dropping her off at her place (as she had ridden my bike over - that she had borrowed previously - and needed a ride home...of course I was trying to kick her out of my place when my real date showed up...at least we weren't caught in a compimising position or such...I refused [a first eh?]...LOL). And I just remembered one/another (earlier)occasion where she showed up at my door and I already had someone over...and we all ended upgoing out to a club together! LOL - and they both ended up staying the night! LOL Yeah - I had fun (once/way back when...[ah the memory starts to fade as you grow old]...LOL - and I always encourage others to do likewise...within limits of course...times are a bit different now...)...LOL But heh - keep us informed how it all turns out...and my advice is to not abandon guys altogether - unless you are finding that they just totally disgust you or such (and that would be way too bad...you sound like you are a fun gal! LOL)

So very wrong... Everyone coments on the car - that it is totally cool/wicked & such (and why do all the souped up rice burners try to race me...they don't race soccer moms in vans & such so they...?)...I even had one (older) guy (turned out he was a BRit...so knew the car...) actually start bowing down on the pavement towards my car (honestly he did - freaked me out...)...then he ran up and was so excited asking me how I got the car & such...etc etc...Its badged out and such to look like an RS4 (not available in the US)...and in fact I'll be getting some RS4 wheels shortly (next maybe the larger RS4 Turbos & downpipes - eh! LOL)...to complete the look (though I must say a step down from my current wheels - OZ Superleggeras...(19"ers - very wicked...running 235/35 Toyo Proxis comeption tires...) so pleeeeease... And I have to say - I have more folks comming up and commenting on this car then I even do with my 64 1/2 Mustang convertable (thats in top showroom condition - a real beauty...). So I'm very used to people comming up to me and talking to me about/complimenting my car (even being propositioned by females on occasion! really - "hey can I have a ride"...or - "I get off of work at XXXX - can you come by & pick me up" etc...LOL) ...but I get it even more (well no offers from chicks...yet...like with the Stang) with the Audi (and I hadn't expected it...not compared to the Stang)...so - no deffinatly not mistakable as a soccermom vehical...in no way...LOL...and you certainly would not mistake it for a soccor mom car as I blow pass Mustang GTs, Camaros, all manner of Jap import hot rods, BMW M3s and 5s etc etc etc (even some motorbikes! - honestly...not the big boys though....I know my limits...though I run with 'em anyway for fun at times...)...and most of the time I'm not even pushing it all the way (except for the cycles and BMRs & such...can never get beat by a beamer...won't let it happen...LOL)

Aww - your just buttering me up aren't you?

'Bruin - I hear ya loud & clear ...and agree 100%...for one thing - the last thing I want to see is for gals to be just like guys...I mean really now...that is a turn off (from my perspective)...I'm talking more about being judged for attitudes & behavior etc (and for always having to be submissive towards men/in public etc - that sort of thing)- and for what you do here - expressing yourself (its very refreshing to see...). And concerning being promiscuous - I also agree - that too is a turn off (when overdone...and perhaps there is a semantics/definitional issue - I see nothing wrong at all with having mutiple partners in life etc..in fact I think people should to experience variety & such...and for finding who you are compatable with - etc - but just "sleepng around with anyone...being too easy etc - no...not a good thing...not even a safe thing at all anymore... ) - and agree that many guys are way overboard in that regard (probably surprised hearing that from me...but I truly believe it and have never been such myself). I'm all for people (men & women) being wild and having fun with their partners - thats what life (or an aspect of it) is all about...and being "freaky" -- again "you go girl!!!!"...I mean - I think you have the right idea...have fun, be wild ...its great...let your hair down, and get down with it as it were (man does that sound like I'm old? I'm sure I could have said this in a more "hip" way for the times eh? LOL)...and most importantly - people should mind their own business and not judge others (or stare or what have you. ..make judgements etc)...and they need to lighten up a bit (just in general) IMO....

LOL - shame on Armenia...no? What has she come to at this point in time....initial expectations were so jigh...but (as an outsider) understanding more of the culture/legacy from Soviet times, how it has permeated many of the former territories/regeims...and to some degree seeing how (some) Armenains operate...I guess I shouldn't have been/be so surprised... But yeah - reading the first post I was thinking whitewash - they couldn't have done this well (I fully expect/expected the Aliyev dynasty to continue...much as Mubarak is engineering in Egypt)...then the second post - from the Armenian perspective - initially really cracked me up...but on reflection makes me feel quite sad/dejected...