Em Posted August 6, 2006 Report Share Posted August 6, 2006 Edward jan i do the same but in Revers order in the morning i tell her story on haw I'm gona #1 walk my dog #2 spend time with my son ( other then taking him fishing hunting + cruising in Old Town + Listings on Ebay, haw to user font page 2003 & Office ) #3 water the lawn, Tomatoes, cucumbers & the rest #4 clean the driveway #5 that i will never cook BBQ #6 keep my office clean #7 not spend meaningless hours front of my computer and she tells me, that i'm telling her the same story every day Fine be that way i'f you don't like my story you will not even like my work so I'm doing nothing till she approves my story it's 3.51pm time to go home / work on a new story I think the problem is that your wife is not on the list at all. Maybe your story of "things to do today" should include her in it too, no? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Takoush Posted August 7, 2006 Report Share Posted August 7, 2006 (edited) Kakach jan, I clean, wash, love to cook, clean the pool, make up the beds, wather the lawn, spend time with my son, walk my dog and tell my wife a story at bedtime........and how come she bitches all the time?? Hade hade, genochet ge sires, an al kez ge sire. Vesdah an al shad ashxadankner ouni yev gene sirov. I vercho kez hed getsere ou darere kez ayskan yergaaar dariner. Pa ter inch es ouzoum. Edited August 7, 2006 by Anahid Takouhi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Takoush Posted August 7, 2006 Report Share Posted August 7, 2006 Edward jan i do the same but in Revers order in the morning i tell her story on haw I'm gona #1 walk my dog #2 spend time with my son ( other then taking him fishing hunting + cruising in Old Town + Listings on Ebay, haw to user font page 2003 & Office ) #3 water the lawn, Tomatoes, cucumbers & the rest #4 clean the driveway #5 that i will never cook BBQ #6 keep my office clean #7 not spend meaningless hours front of my computer and she tells me, that i'm telling her the same story every day Fine be that way i'f you don't like my story you will not even like my work so I'm doing nothing till she approves my story it's 3.51pm time to go home / work on a new story Movses: How about doing the things to do rather than telling her that you will do it. Maybe she is also wishing that you quit the Forum and be able to spend more time with her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hijabbed Posted August 10, 2006 Report Share Posted August 10, 2006 Hey every one! what you guys think about "we armenians should marry an armenian"? Today i met a women she was very upset about her son's girlfriend it's just because she is russian.Is it right or wrong?... Uhhhm....so what if she's Russian?? I dont know about you guys..but Im defo marrying a guy from another race! (unless I choose to marry someone within my race ) Where destiny takes me baby! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gdavidyan Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 Our assimilation is inevitable...marrying odars only quickens the process...marrying Armenians should be a priority...In a relationship,the more you have in common with your partner the better chance that your relationship will thrive. But stuff happens...they say the heart knows no race....well maybe lust knows no race "the more you have in common with your partner the better chance that your relationship will thrive." Does that mean if you marry your cousin, you have a lot more common than just some stranger and it will thrive better? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymouse Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 (edited) "the more you have in common with your partner the better chance that your relationship will thrive." Does that mean if you marry your cousin, you have a lot more common than just some stranger and it will thrive better? That may definitely be the case. I mean, think of it this way, at least you can have more convos along the lines of, "Hey, remember that one time when Uncle Zorab pulled the donkey's tail and it kicked him?" or "Man, I can't believe we used to sing 'Tsapik tsapik tsiranik' under the tree." But on a more serious note, even if you're marrying your cousin, at least she's Armenian. Now, if she were a cousin that was from a mixed blood or something, then I would really tell you to go kill yourself because then you're marrying some foreign elements, since marrying your own cousin in and of itself is not all that bad*. *As long as she/he is Armenian. Edited August 29, 2007 by Anonymouse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maral Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 "the more you have in common with your partner the better chance that your relationship will thrive." Does that mean if you marry your cousin, you have a lot more common than just some stranger and it will thrive better? yes Einstein that's EXACTLY what I meant Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gdavidyan Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 I said it in a joking tone, but I seriously meant it. In fact, Einstein was so smart, he even married his first cousin, yup. So did Darwin! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gdavidyan Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 Anonymouse, She is really like the perfect "Armenian girl" every mother wants their son marrying. She's not a khujhan or lkstvatz, at all. My mom really loves her, well, until she finds out that we are married and we will make a family together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymouse Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 Anonymouse, She is really like the perfect "Armenian girl" every mother wants their son marrying. She's not a khujhan or lkstvatz, at all. My mom really loves her, well, until she finds out that we are married and we will make a family together. Yea but not every mother wants their son marrying their own cousin so better lay off the "shes the one every mother wants their son marrying" cliche, at least in your case, because your poor mother might get an infarct. Tsk tsk tsk, selfish little gdavidyan thinking and lookin out only for his prurient interests! Not caring about his mother and stuff! But...but..."WE'RE IN LOOOOVE!" What can you do? Everyone comes with an asterisk. When someone decides to marry me, my asterisk will be *19th century male, demands a wife who cooks, cleans and provides sexual intercourse at all times. At least your asterisk is not as demanding gdavidyan. I'm running into the tornado with this asterisk, you're not. You're shaving with the grain. I'm shaving against the grain. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maral Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 Anonymouse, She is really like the perfect "Armenian girl" every mother wants their son marrying. She's not a khujhan or lkstvatz, at all. My mom really loves her, well, until she finds out that we are married and we will make a family together. what the heck?you married your cousin and NOONE knows????????????? you're kidding! how old are you?(If you dont' mind me asking) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ALMA Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 Hey every one! what you guys think about "we armenians should marry an armenian"? Today i met a women she was very upset about her son's girlfriend it's just because she is russian.Is it right or wrong?... I personally could never marry a non Armenian as there are many cultural differences and in many cases things end up really bad. We are not many 10 million or so? I think in order to save our nation and to be called Armenian we have to marry our own people. I'd be disgusted if my kids didn't have an Armenian surname. That is holly for me and to me nothing can be more beautiful than being Armenian. Love is an uncontrollable feeling, it would be nicer if our people chose Armenians. Otherwise we are losing our culture, language, etc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gdavidyan Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 I'm 21. Yes, I'm being a little selfish here, because I do know my mother will be very upset. I don't want to say, "I don't care" but I don't want to marry someone else and think about, "She wasn't the girl I wanted to marry." She is my cousin, but I don't look at her as my cousin. My cousins that I did grow up with, I would never, ever think of anything like that. I was in denial for a whole year that I was in love with my own cousin after meeting her for the first time. And I didn't just see her and fall in love. But after a little while I started liking her, and after a year when I found out she had the same feelings toward me, still, I thought this is weird. I can't go on with this, my parents, her parents and family. But after another little while I rethought everything and decided that the right thing for me would be to be with her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ALMA Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 I'm 21. Yes, I'm being a little selfish here, because I do know my mother will be very upset. I don't want to say, "I don't care" but I don't want to marry someone else and think about, "She wasn't the girl I wanted to marry." She is my cousin, but I don't look at her as my cousin. My cousins that I did grow up with, I would never, ever think of anything like that. I was in denial for a whole year that I was in love with my own cousin after meeting her for the first time. And I didn't just see her and fall in love. But after a little while I started liking her, and after a year when I found out she had the same feelings toward me, still, I thought this is weird. I can't go on with this, my parents, her parents and family. But after another little while I rethought everything and decided that the right thing for me would be to be with her. I'd love to know what you will be up to after 10 -15 years. As I have said previously, I seriously don't blame you, you haven't grown up together with the sister brother love and relationship and you could fall in love with anybody including your cousin. However, I wonder what will be things like after 10-15 years. Getting married at 21 is far too early especially for a lad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maral Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 I don't think any of us can give you advice. What you have done is big...very BIG...the families need to know and they need to know NOW...this isn't a game,you married the girl,I have no idea how you go off on your own in Armenia and get married....you have a created a whole heck of trouble for the two of you...no way around it...tell the family right away and fix it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MosJan Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 Anonymouse, She is really like the perfect "Armenian girl" every mother wants their son marrying. She's not a khujhan or lkstvatz, at all. My mom really loves her, well, until she finds out that we are married and we will make a family together. dzo yes bid xenthanam hima dzo qezi mek topic@ chi paver ? hima al as meg@ HiyJack gnes gor ?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MosJan Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 what the heck?you married your cousin and NOONE knows????????????? you're kidding! how old are you?(If you dont' mind me asking) hello ???? Maral jan are you atill in vacation ?? see >>> http://hyeforum.com/index.php?showtopic=16...0&start=100 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maral Posted August 29, 2007 Report Share Posted August 29, 2007 ah ok so I missed an ENTIRE episode on this gdavidyan,find yourself another hobby. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymouse Posted August 30, 2007 Report Share Posted August 30, 2007 (edited) Poor Maral. She's going to need a lot of ice for that poor head of hers after slamming so much and so hard. All thanks to gdavidyan! Alternatively, instead of anger, you can view this as amusement, which will cause la smirk we hope, instead of bashing your head. Edited August 30, 2007 by Anonymouse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Takoush Posted August 30, 2007 Report Share Posted August 30, 2007 (edited) Poor Maral. She's going to need a lot of ice for that poor head of hers after slamming so much and so hard. All thanks to gdavidyan! Alternatively, instead of anger, you can view this as amusement, which will cause la smirk we hope, instead of bashing your head. Well Anon dear, GDavidyan cannot help himself. He is head over heels IN LOVE. Which means he is blind - he is in seventh heaven - he is seeing plenty of "sawarix" in Arabic, which means fireworks and thunderstorms. They say when a human being is in love he/she feels like the warmth that they feel in a mothers womb. Like the love they feel when being nurtured by a loving mother. That initial warmth returns. It's the very good feelings that humans do feel. Yes sir, that's what love does to us humans. It makes us feel with warmth and fantastic!!! If only these feelings could last us forever!!!! Edited August 30, 2007 by Anahid Takouhi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aSoldier Posted August 30, 2007 Report Share Posted August 30, 2007 I personally could never marry a non Armenian as there are many cultural differences and in many cases things end up really bad. We are not many 10 million or so? I think in order to save our nation and to be called Armenian we have to marry our own people. I'd be disgusted if my kids didn't have an Armenian surname. That is holly for me and to me nothing can be more beautiful than being Armenian. Love is an uncontrollable feeling, it would be nicer if our people chose Armenians. Otherwise we are losing our culture, language, etc. Post of the century!!! :thumbsup::thumbsup: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ALMA Posted August 30, 2007 Report Share Posted August 30, 2007 Post of the century!!! :thumbsup::thumbsup: Is it really? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Takoush Posted August 30, 2007 Report Share Posted August 30, 2007 I personally could never marry a non Armenian as there are many cultural differences and in many cases things end up really bad. We are not many 10 million or so? I think in order to save our nation and to be called Armenian we have to marry our own people. I'd be disgusted if my kids didn't have an Armenian surname. That is holly for me and to me nothing can be more beautiful than being Armenian. Love is an uncontrollable feeling, it would be nicer if our people chose Armenians. Otherwise we are losing our culture, language, etc. Indeed dear Alma!!! I married an Armenian for the same reasons that you have mentioned here. I hope and wish that every Armenian in here and everywhere feels the same way you do!!! It is commendable that you feel this way! By the way, we aren't even as much as 10 million. We are as little as 7.5-8 million. More reason for us to intermarry for survival, wouldn't you say? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harut Posted August 30, 2007 Report Share Posted August 30, 2007 I personally could never marry a non Armenian as there are many cultural differences and in many cases things end up really bad. We are not many 10 million or so? I think in order to save our nation and to be called Armenian we have to marry our own people. I'd be disgusted if my kids didn't have an Armenian surname. That is holly for me and to me nothing can be more beautiful than being Armenian. Love is an uncontrollable feeling, it would be nicer if our people chose Armenians. Otherwise we are losing our culture, language, etc. contradiction? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ALMA Posted August 30, 2007 Report Share Posted August 30, 2007 contradiction? Nop, I have just missed out the word BUT after feeling. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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