gmd Posted October 20, 2006 Report Share Posted October 20, 2006 I agree with you, if you go odar you will marry odar... I'm divorcing my wife because she just woke up that she wants to raise our kid armenian; Good thing i drafted a prenup and I'm getting sole custody! Its not only what you feel like but how you were raiased and how others view you.... Sorry Irlandahay, your not armenian... want it as much as you can even try hard the community will never accept you and even if you hook up with an armo girl your lst name isn't armenian... The biggest mistake was your father's who didn't have the couilles to put his foot down and face reality.... you got an irish name, you're irish; Your mother if she wanted to respect the memory of your ancestors should have married armenian; she didn't Like my ex says: I'm full your frind Arpi: she's only half; The Irish will accpet you open arms and they won't even care your armenian or half; You fight so hard for acceptance irlanda, for something that is given effortlessly to full armos... face the facts your Irish.... I named my son Devin. What does that make him in your opinion? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yervant1 Posted October 20, 2006 Report Share Posted October 20, 2006 Mr. Tigranis you are as guilty in this as your wife. You want 100% Greek and nothing for her and she wants 100% armenian nothing for you. From your posts I see that you are a very proud and arrogant Greek who has no time for other cultures. Why did you marry outside of your race if you want 100% Greek? You should have known better that if you marry an outsider you should respect that culture as well not only yours. Remember that you were preaching us Armenians that we are narrow minded that we should open our genepool to others what happened to that theory now, how about you open yours for Armenians. As for your remark to Irlandahay, you are out of line to give him that advice. I think his family is doing a great job of raising him with both cultures and values in a very healthy home. He feels blessed by both cultures and he respects both cultures equally and he is loyal to both cultures. You failed because you wanted all to be your culture, you wanted Armenians to respect you and guess what life is not a one way street. Sorry to see your family dissolve like that, I hope you and your wife will find a common ground for the sake of your child if no other reason. Good luck if it's not too late. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zurderer Posted October 20, 2006 Report Share Posted October 20, 2006 I'm divorcing my wife because she just woke up that she wants to raise our kid armenian; That is realy a stupid reason to divorce, let him become armenian. is it realy to much importan If he is armenian or greek? After all he is your son. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SanVal Posted October 21, 2006 Report Share Posted October 21, 2006 Any major disagreement is a good reason to get a divorce, and this one seems pretty significant. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harut Posted October 21, 2006 Report Share Posted October 21, 2006 Any major disagreement is a good reason to get a divorce, and this one seems pretty significant. a divorce lawyer? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Takoush Posted October 21, 2006 Report Share Posted October 21, 2006 (edited) Tigranis you have the gall to come here on an Armenian Forum and tell us that because your wife wants to raise your child Armenian you want to divorce her. The fault was your wife's who married you in the first place. You are a very arrogant Greek and you always wanted your son to be only Greek. What right do you have to want him to be only Greek when he is half Armenian. How about some respect and kindness towards your wife? Even your son, one day he will wake up and he might say to you, "well I am also Armenian, I want to know my Armenian side too". And I hope he does for your wife's sake. I feel sorry for both your wife and your son. They are surely losing a great deal in this. And you want full custody? She bore your son and she's the mother and loves her son and I'm sure visa versa, how dare you do that to both of them and pretty much break your wife's heart? Shame on you. I really feel very bad for your wife and son. Edited October 21, 2006 by Anahid Takouhi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zurderer Posted October 21, 2006 Report Share Posted October 21, 2006 Any major disagreement is a good reason to get a divorce, and this one seems pretty significant. Infact this is one of most stupid reason I ever saw. Who cares If nationality of child becomes armenian or greek. It is stupid to make politic inside of your family. I feel sorry for both your wife and your son. They are surely losing a great deal in this. They are only losing a stupid, If someone is ready to break their family because of nationality, He(She) is stupid, nothing more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SanVal Posted October 21, 2006 Report Share Posted October 21, 2006 Infact this is one of most stupid reason I ever saw. Who cares If nationality of child becomes armenian or greek. It is stupid to make politic inside of your family. They are only losing a stupid, If someone is ready to break their family because of nationality, He(She) is stupid, nothing more. I personally wouldn't care about that (especially if I decided to have mixed kids), but if someone does and it's important to them, it's going to be a constant conflict with your spouse. It's going to affect your everyday life. One thing that hurts kids is getting conflicting messages from their parents. When that happens, they're likely to side with just one parent or retreat from their family altogether. So, it'll be no better than getting a divorce. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aSoldier Posted October 22, 2006 Report Share Posted October 22, 2006 (edited) There's already a great number of Greeks. There's not enough Armenians. Even it out. note* this arguement works against Armenians marrying all kinds of "odars" Edited October 22, 2006 by aSoldier Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tigranisbasileus Posted October 24, 2006 Report Share Posted October 24, 2006 why? so he can grow big and strong and with a guilt complex like irlandahay: no thanks! the minute you guys get a culture, give me a call.... You guys don't realize this but your whole culture is about the genocide and its recognition: by focusing only on one subject your finishing of the turks job... a culture survives when it evolves... you guys are still stick in 1915; When Irlanda talks about his dead ancestors, he forgets about the irrish potato famine... pontian greeks: 800000 massacred; we commemorate but aren't obcessed about it; the genocide is a teleogical response to everything: going to church, marrying armenian; etc. Give me 10 reasons, honestly why someone would prefer raising his kid armenian rather than greek? ok, 5.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tigranisbasileus Posted October 24, 2006 Report Share Posted October 24, 2006 There's already a great number of Greeks. There's not enough Armenians. Even it out. note* this arguement works against Armenians marrying all kinds of "odars" if your albanian your argument fails because its too simplistic; ain't our fault you guys got massacred and are fewer.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zurderer Posted October 24, 2006 Report Share Posted October 24, 2006 Give me 10 reasons, honestly why someone would prefer raising his kid armenian rather than greek? 1-Because she is your wife, and a stupid politic discussion should not become a reason for divorce. 2-Because she is your wife, and a stupid politic discussion should not become a reason for divorce. 3-Because she is your wife, and a stupid politic discussion should not become a reason for divorce. 4-Because she is your wife, and a stupid politic discussion should not become a reason for divorce. 5-Because she is your wife, and a stupid politic discussion should not become a reason for divorce. do you need 5 more reason? I always think, You greeks have more respect for family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johannes Posted October 24, 2006 Report Share Posted October 24, 2006 Keep your problems to your self. Do not share us your home problems. Second time if you born again do not marry with an armenian girl, even a Smirnean or piontean origin helen girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yervant1 Posted October 24, 2006 Report Share Posted October 24, 2006 why? so he can grow big and strong and with a guilt complex like irlandahay: no thanks! the minute you guys get a culture, give me a call.... You guys don't realize this but your whole culture is about the genocide and its recognition: by focusing only on one subject your finishing of the turks job... a culture survives when it evolves... you guys are still stick in 1915; When Irlanda talks about his dead ancestors, he forgets about the irrish potato famine... pontian greeks: 800000 massacred; we commemorate but aren't obcessed about it; the genocide is a teleogical response to everything: going to church, marrying armenian; etc. Give me 10 reasons, honestly why someone would prefer raising his kid armenian rather than greek? ok, 5.... Mr. Tigranis you are so angry that an Armenian girl got the best of you and put you where you belong the dumpster. Only a MORON and a BRAINDEAD will marry to a race that you consider have no culture, what were you thinking? If you think we're stuck in 1915 and made no advancements in Politics, Arts, Sciences, Music and other areas that only means that you haven't done your homework and found out about it. If you think that we should forget the injustice of 1915 in order to have a culture and evolve as a nation, you are dreaming you can forget your 800,000 souls if you want that's your problem. You have no right to tell us what to do as we don't tell you what to do with your dead. Oh let me guess our Genocide mentality cost your marriage to fail because your wife told you that she's raising your prince Armenian. This is your bloody fault that you failed to discuss it ahead of time. I'm sure Irlandahay can give you a lecture about the potato famine and teach you a thing or two how to be a man at fifteen than you'll ever be at fifty. Be a man and accept your failure and move on stop blaming the Armenians for your stupidity. BTW I will give you only one reason as to why someone should prefer to raise their child Armenian and not Greek so that the child doesn't turn out like you DUMB*SS MORON. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armenak Posted October 24, 2006 Report Share Posted October 24, 2006 the genocide is a teleogical response to everything: going to church, marrying armenian; etc. Have you noticed that nearly every worthless post you have made on this forum has been Armenian genocide-related? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yervant1 Posted October 24, 2006 Report Share Posted October 24, 2006 Have you noticed that nearly every worthless post you have made on this forum has been Armenian genocide-related? Because he blames Armenian Genocide mentality for the failure of his marriage. He thinks that otherwise he's wife wouldn't have cared if their child was raised Armenian or Greek and cared even less for the Armenian language. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tigranisbasileus Posted October 24, 2006 Report Share Posted October 24, 2006 Because he blames Armenian Genocide mentality for the failure of his marriage. He thinks that otherwise he's wife wouldn't have cared if their child was raised Armenian or Greek and cared even less for the Armenian language. thank you and you're right.... she wouldn't give two cents if it weren't for the guilt trip you guys lay on everybody; you guys got nothing to show for.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tigranisbasileus Posted October 24, 2006 Report Share Posted October 24, 2006 thank you and you're right.... she wouldn't give two cents if it weren't for the guilt trip you guys lay on everybody; you guys got nothing to show for.... thank you and your right... fortunately I sgned a prenup so I have exclusive right over the education and upbringing o f Stavros... one more down.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armenak Posted October 24, 2006 Report Share Posted October 24, 2006 Looks like we got Tigranis all riled up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yervant1 Posted October 24, 2006 Report Share Posted October 24, 2006 thank you and you're right.... she wouldn't give two cents if it weren't for the guilt trip you guys lay on everybody; you guys got nothing to show for.... It seems to me that we even put that guilt trip on your thick neck, wait till we start twisting it further. I know we have nothing to show for which makes you even worse for marrying one of us, think about that you dumb*ss. Wait until your Stavros grows up and finds out all the garbage you piled up on his mother, you better run for your life. If I were you I wouldn't fight a loosing battle against a child's mother, but than again I wouldn't expect you to understand that, this is a bit above your brain capacity. We have lots of mixed marriages that worked very well regarding both cultures involved. It's your my way or highway attitude that killed your marriage, so stop blaming others and get over it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karakash Posted October 24, 2006 Report Share Posted October 24, 2006 thank you and your right... fortunately I sgned a prenup so I have exclusive right over the education and upbringing o f Stavros... one more down.... That is odd. I do divorce law. The mother usually gets to decide what happens with the kids. Are you sure she signed that document? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yervant1 Posted October 24, 2006 Report Share Posted October 24, 2006 That is odd. I do divorce law. The mother usually gets to decide what happens with the kids. Are you sure she signed that document? I bet he's lying about this as well, that is why he is so angry and doesn't know what to do but attack the Genocide issue knowing that how we feel about it. I don't mind having a dish of Greek souvlaki with a nice drink of Metaxa but not his BS. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boghos Posted October 25, 2006 Report Share Posted October 25, 2006 Souvlaki is fine but Metaxa is poison... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irlandahay Posted October 25, 2006 Report Share Posted October 25, 2006 I agree with you, if you go odar you will marry odar... I'm divorcing my wife because she just woke up that she wants to raise our kid armenian; Good thing i drafted a prenup and I'm getting sole custody! Its not only what you feel like but how you were raiased and how others view you.... Sorry Irlandahay, your not armenian... want it as much as you can even try hard the community will never accept you and even if you hook up with an armo girl your lst name isn't armenian... The biggest mistake was your father's who didn't have the couilles to put his foot down and face reality.... you got an irish name, you're irish; Your mother if she wanted to respect the memory of your ancestors should have married armenian; she didn't Like my ex says: I'm full your frind Arpi: she's only half; The Irish will accpet you open arms and they won't even care your armenian or half; You fight so hard for acceptance irlanda, for something that is given effortlessly to full armos... face the facts your Irish.... HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA omg, this one is good, i could almost say i was starting to miss your smart mouth chauvinistic attitude. clearly from all the PM call me what you wish moron, anything coming from your mouth means nothing to me. u can call me irish, u can call me armenian...in both cases you are 100% right. and for gods sake...i can try but i wont be accepted into an armenian community? im not even going to comment on this. and i will eventually hook up with an armenian girl, of personnal choice. and her parents, being armenian, will love and adore me... theres a thing you dont seem to understand about armenians. a people that has faced extermination for so damn long, you can be 1/4 armenian (miss universe canada...a quarter armenian) your still considered armenian. we refuse to die out. and its not some moron like you who doesnt understand a thing about who we are that is going to change that. now heres what i suggest. grow up. go see your wife. tell her your sorry, explain a little about what you want for your son, be an adult and figure out a compromised, i have a 7 year old cousin who can handle a thing as simple as that so i suggest you get cracking before your wife decides she doesnt want you back. you seem to talk like you have a pair of balls...you comment about my parents when you cant make the right decision for your own kids...let my dad put his foot down? why? what? do you know him? what did he do wrong? am i here denying my irish heritage? im sorry greek but on my wall hangs an armenian flag and an irish one. i can proudly say IHAVE THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS! now piss off before i start hitting you hard. i dont want to see another one of your pathetic comments about me or my family, this does not concern you... PS: my full name is Patrick Armen Elliott. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irlandahay Posted October 25, 2006 Report Share Posted October 25, 2006 I'm sure Irlandahay can give you a lecture about the potato famine and teach you a thing or two how to be a man at fifteen than you'll ever be at fifty. Be a man and accept your failure and move on stop blaming the Armenians for your stupidity. BTW I will give you only one reason as to why someone should prefer to raise their child Armenian and not Greek so that the child doesn't turn out like you DUMB*SS MORON. thank you my king yervant but i can handle it from here... who the hell are you to assume iv forgotten about potato famine? im sorry but do greeks have to stick their nose in everything? i know alot about the famine. i mourne my dead on both sides. you seem to pretend to know alot about everything dont you? especially in the ancient art of keeping a marriage alive. we have no culture? HAHAHA...we havnt evolved? HAHAHAHAHA feel free to ignore and forget your dead. but i wont, in fact, i commemorate them for you, along with our 1 000 000 assyrian brothers who died alongside us, and the syriacs, and caldeans...and yes...even the cypriots. no nation should go through this. you call it a guilt trip, you talk about it as if it is unimportant, some insignificant even that happened too long ago to remember... you seem to have misunderstood, we commemorate...not that we died...but that WERE STILL HERE! that we were on the verge of extinction...and we are still here stronger and more unified then ever. its not some collective anger and hatred towards turks, it creats unity, and strength! i can give you a great example...my friend at school. hes armenian, i met him two years ago, he doesnt care wether im irish or not, we are worlds apart but i know this guy would take a bullet for me, because im armenian...because we are two individuals bound by the same fate. so excuse us if we refuse to roll over and die like so many other nations did, excuse us if we refuse to become another page in history... prenup? haha, you live in montreal right? our courts dont recognise prenups...good luck i hope your wife wins, shes armenian so chances are she wont need a lawyer to beat the woman she married. grow a pair of balls, and face your wife, for the love of god! dont end up like 50% of all marriages. be a man and dont leave your wife alone! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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