Why do girls like black guys?

[Guest]

lol, Armen, I hadn't realized you follow my postings that closely (I had posted that particular quote ages ago)

 

and yes, as a rule, I consider Armenian men gentlemen...lol...your self doubt is very telling...

 

and of course there are many types of Armenian men...thank god for that...really

 

lol...so you think I should choose one already and stop complaining, ha?...lol... I'll keep that in mind, Armen jan...lol...

(vor amusnanam hatuk kez khravirem...lol)

 

vay, mera xndaluts...

 

arayzhm

[Outdoorgirl]

Hi everybody

 

It`s kinda sad to see ppl reacting the way some of you do to the simple questions " why women like black guys ?". Well let me tell ya, I don't say armenian guys are better or worse, it's just that blacks are pretty unique by nature and they know how to be attractive, though it's not obligatory that all the females like them. They are very cheerful, open minded and able to create a warm atmosphere around them, they're well built up, flexy and are really good at dancing. I do think that some of black guys can look very "sexciting" And there's nothin` abnormal if a woman is attracted to a man who seems charming to her. Somebody here wrote that you should like only the ones who have the same colour of skin, that's a total crap, lots of u like foreign girls that don't have the same eye, skin colour or whatever and I bet when you get a chance to go out with beautiful ladies, you don't look at their skin colour. And about the " aylaservadzutyun e.t.c" I mean I see no logic here, you can be the so called pervert with armenian guys as well, what's the skin colour has to do with it? Anyways just take it easy and have a nice day...

[Sip]

So bascially you are saying there is a big , long list of reasons why some women are attracted to black guys ... hmmmm ... interesting. Yah, I've heard that too.

 

Man, must this have been an entertaining topic back in the old days!!!

[Azat]

Ahh - like me

 

Ahh - me again

 

Me too

 

That is what everyone says about me.

 

wow, I do too

 

Speaking of being built up, I just got back from my 6 hours a day at the gym ritual.

 

My friends call me the Armenian Travolta.

 

I wonder if I was black in the previous life?

 

Sip jan what is this BIG LONG list you are referring too?

[Azat]

Sorry I forgot. Outdoorgirl welcome to our forum. Hope you can contribute alot.

[Sip]

You should know considering the business you are in

 

Gides movsese inch kani yete es thread e desni? aprikot juice ->

 

Movses jan, eli desar es Harute inch baner a asum?

[Sip]

I don't think she meant in the pool ... ah never mind.

[THOTH]

Forgive me if I am ignorant on this issue - but is this phenomenon - The "womb drain" of Armenian girls to (Black? How about Mexican?) guys really a phenemon such that there is any kind of real impact in/on the community? Are there now not enough (nice) Armenian girls to go around or something? What exactly is the problem?

 

Forgive me (for my ignorance) but it seems to me that this supposed critical issue may just be a bit overblown. So we see that some Armenian girls are attracted to black guys (and good for them if they get what they want out of the relationship)....and some potential reasons for this have been surfaced...cultural, physical etc - for whatever its worth) - OK - so what? I don't get it. Is it that those who consider this a problem somehow consider that people of African descent are somehow different (beneath) other folks? This is my guess as to the crux of the matter (whether it is admitted to or not). And if it is such a problem (Armenian gals [in significant numbers] deserting Armenian guys in favor of [seemingly more fun] black guys) how is complaining about it going to do any good? If Armenian guys are feeling overlooked by the gals I suggest that the Armenians guys may just need to try harder (to treat the gals as they deserve - ie be attentive to and aware of their interests and be pleasing to them etc) and not expect to have everything served up to them - just because...And I can't accept that most or any significant numbers of Armenian gals are going to be attracted to black guys soley on the basis of certain physical attributes. While I am sure this has a certain appeal - and may be the driver for some - there is much more to relationships, courting/dating and choosing a partner (even short term) then just this/these factor(s). In my time (long ago now) I have dated some gals who had previously dated black guys (and there was mixed reporting on this size issue - so its certainly not universal - but in some instances was a positive factor for the gals...). However, in each case my partners expressed that I was a better companion (its all about fun and being attentive and doing interesting things!) and a better lover (so there!)...so Armenian guys - you have nothing to feel inadequate about - its more about effort (and perhaps aquired skills! LOL) - though effort and empathy is the key IMO...So stop complaining and get out there!

[Sip]

I don't know THOTH, it's a very BIG LONG list to try to live up to

 

Ok, that's it. That's the last time I am mentioning the list again.

[THOTH]

Seaphan - I have to think you just much watch too much ****o (and I can't claim innocence myself there - some of its pretty awesome really...)...and I got to admit - some of them boys (dogfart...familiar?)...well they could hit baseballs with that kind of wood...but - you must remember: these guys are professionals! (LOL) - and while we all might wish for such (though I can imagine some practical/everyday problems...bad enough as it is sometimes)...you've just got to understand that these guys are not the norm. (in fact I imagine they are practially Guiness book material). So don't worry yourself. If you know how to satisfy a woman - and take care of her otherwise - there should be no problem...use your charm, wit and personality (etc) the rest will follow (just make it special)...and if you are dedicated enough (and not some uncompromising-difficult to be around type) you shouldn't have to worry about anything...

[Sip]

Unfortunately, they don't sell those online. However, every day, I get at least 3 or 4 junk emails telling me how I could increase the size of my list by at least 2 or 3 inches in less than a month. Damnit ... I said it again.

 

[ September 23, 2002, 11:39 PM: Message edited by: Sip ]

[Harut]

yes, there is a BIG, LONG reason.

[THOTH]

quote:

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Originally posted by Sip:

quote:

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Originally posted by THOTH:

...use your charm, wit and personality (etc) the rest will follow

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Unfortunately, they don't sell those online. However, every day, I get at least 3 or 4 junk emails telling me how I could increase the size of my list by at least 2 or 3 inches in less than a month. Damnit ... I said it again.

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Well I'm not discounting that there might be advanteges to a lengthly list - or one that has some breadth - complete in its coverage as it were...and while this certainly has some appeal to (many of) the ladies (and makes guys feel good as well - just in possesing such a list...etc) I really think it is overblown (or would be, er, if, eh...well you know what I mean...). One of my past girlfriends told me about these two guys she had dated (one black, one white) who apparently had rather impressive lists (to say the least)...well neither wasn't really so expert on how to apply their list to practical applications (outside of the most strightforward/obvious type...and well - that gets boring after the intial excitement wears off)...and these guys both tended to rely just on their list and ignore other areas...and they expected that she would be grateful just to have access to their lists and thus they took no great effort to develop other worthwhile qualities/skills - etc. Still - she did say it was tough to break away - as there were certain advantages to ready access to such a list - from her perspective...but ultimatly it was just a passing thing and not enough in and of itself to keep her interest...etc (and my list proved quite a bit more adaptable...etc - and in case you are wondering it was I who eventually broke off the relationship...[and it was tough for me - she was the best - at making lists very happy etc)

 

Oh and I do realize I mistated my case a bit earlier (where I said I was always better - etc) - there was one (black) guy whom a former girlfriend (the same actually) of mine had been with (though not regularly dated per se) whom she said was the most skilled of all (and believe me she was quite experienced to know)...and his list was of no special dimension per se (at least that wasn't the focus of her very appreciative commentary)...trouble was he about 40-50 and married (with mutiple kids from lots of gals apparently...) and she was perhaps 22-23 at the time...(and I was but young and inexperienced as well...then...but that has changed [both for the better and for the worse - getting old sucks!])

[Outdoorgirl]

Dear Armenian Travolta,

 

Thnx for the welcomes. It feels like home here (-_*). I am happy that you're so cool. But it would be better if some female would say those nice stuff about you, otherwise it's like a self promotion. Anyways, it's not a bad thing for nowdays. I hope you're being given enough attention so you don't need to worry `bout your black competitiors.

Have a nice day !

[Azat]

Dear Outdoorgirl, this is just the problem I have. No woman ever says those things to me. They usually say "Leave me alone or I'll call the cops". Only if they would spend the time to discover my black beauty. Okay I'll stop.

 

By the way, why the nickname "Outdoorgirl"? Do you enjoy hiking or some out door activity?

 

Azat - AKA "The Armenian Travolta"

 

Sip, Harut, did you see Outdoorgirl thinks that I am SOOOOOOO cool.

 

[ September 24, 2002, 11:52 AM: Message edited by: Azat ]

[Harut]

i told you someone will finally think you're cool.

[Accelerated]

Guys, you sound ashamed of your LIST dimentions....

[THOTH]

quote:

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Originally posted by Accelerated:

Guys, you sound ashamed of your LIST dimentions....

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LOL - while my "list" may be no "War & Peace" in terms of total word count (and not everyone can be a circus freak or such...) - the ladies have never made any complaint...and "ashamed"? really now? ...(of course with you we're likely to only hear self-critiscim...)

 

All joking apart I think you have missed my serious points - this issue: Supposed black "womb drain" of the Armenian community is likely a fabricated (insignificant) issue...and while certain (Armenian?) gals may go for black guys - for whatever/various reasons...well 1) thats OK for those who want that (or for those who don't discriminate or perhaps are tired of the insularness of the Armenian "scene" & guys etc) and 2) You should worry more about how you treat/respect ladies and carry yourself (& maybe a few less twinkies...) and your love life will take care of itself...(mate)

[Accelerated]

only when its deserved

 

It seems to me you like repeating yourself, we got your point ten posts ago....

[Outdoorgirl]

Dearest Azat, that’s kinda bizarre that girls call the cops, hmm maybe you’re way too cool to handle. But I think you’re hiding something out there. Anyways, seems like I am lucky not to know you as I hate to deal with cops Tell you the truth I was sure that someone`s here gonna be curious about my nick name, well to feed the curiosity I’ll just give a simple answer, I just think that there are many things to explore outside the building walls.

Stay cool …

[Accelerated]

Yeah, and Im getting sick of this nick, do u reckon I could have my old one back?

 

Also, in the near future I might send u a photo of me to put up in my profile...

[Outdoorgirl]

Seaphan jan, thnx for informing me about the forum. I had already the chance to explore the sections concerning the politics and economy, I think there are some interesting articles there. But I hope you don't wanna be serious on this particular topic.

 

 

 

 

[ September 25, 2002, 10:44 AM: Message edited by: Outdoorgirl ]

[Outdoorgirl]

[ September 25, 2002, 10:36 AM: Message edited by: Outdoorgirl ]

[TigrannesIII]

most black guys i know:

1)have something wrong with their face and smell bad

2)cheerful? most are grumpy and ready to start soemthing with you (but only if they got their crew with them. the other night some black guy bumped into me and started talkin $h!t and getting in my face. since i didn't back down and yelled right back, he ran away)

3)open-minded? All their friends are blacks! I'm considered very close-minded by todays standards, and most of my good friends are Armenians, but I have Asian, Hispanic, White, Russian, Arabic, and even black friends.

4)Create a warm atmosphere? Maybe from lighting their joints up. )) But a warm atmosphere??? They treat women like $h!t!!!!

5)Well built- well, the athletic ones generally are, but so was I when I was athletic. Now Sip and Azat are my heroes.

6)Good at dancing- don't know, dont care, i dont like the whole clubbing thing anyways.

 

Rikardo

[Sip]

Thoth, your points are well taken. I certainly do not disagree Fortunately, I don't have any lady "problems" as of now, and loving it too ... it's one of the big pluses of being a geek

 

About the "black" hysteria that seems to have been the topic of this thread ... I just don't see a basis for it. It sounds to me like it's something that is typically rooted in the inherent racism that traditional folk have, especially Armenians. And we are, as a group, probably one of the most racist bunches that have ever existed!!!

 

Outdoorgirl: Just wanted to say that I hope you don't think that us joking around like this happens ALL the time on ALL topics. Sometimes we also get serious! It's just that this one happened to be way too funny (at least in my opinion).

 

Azat: So what are you hiding from us?

 

Accelerated: You do realize that space shrinks when you are traveling very fast right? If I were you, I would worry about my own LIST