UKGIRL28 Posted December 12, 2003 Report Share Posted December 12, 2003 You've just been dumped by your lover! What's the best approach according to your previous experiences?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan Posted December 12, 2003 Report Share Posted December 12, 2003 (edited) Eat chocolate? Yes!!! Works!!! Play soppy love songs all day and cry? That helps too, lol.. but I prefer the chocolate... Forget about it and move on and believe that it was never meant to be..? Get rid of all cards, pressies, photos of your lover? no, i wouldn't do that. i always keep souvenirs of everything, no matter how good/bad it was.. Remain as friends? nope. on the contrary, I get really pissed off and start being an a** towards him. Dont do anything? no... Call you ex bf/gf? See a psychiatrist/get counselling? been there, done that, hasn't helped at all.. made me feel worse for some odd reason.. shrinks never help me feel any better. Rely on your best friend to cheer you up? alas, i don't have any best friends to rely on. or maybe chocolate is my best friend. Edited December 12, 2003 by Dan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheekY Posted December 12, 2003 Report Share Posted December 12, 2003 i didnt know chocolate worked for guys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted December 12, 2003 Report Share Posted December 12, 2003 Vegas or Atlantic City? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan Posted December 12, 2003 Report Share Posted December 12, 2003 i didnt know chocolate worked for guys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormig Posted December 12, 2003 Report Share Posted December 12, 2003 Dan, from your having mentioned it at least twice that I know of, I get the feeling you want to tell people about "experience with the cops." We're all ears. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan Posted December 12, 2003 Report Share Posted December 12, 2003 (edited) Dan, from your having mentioned it at least twice that I know of, I get the feeling you want to tell people about "experience with the cops." We're all ears. no. but if you dislike reading it so much, there, i've removed it. Edited December 12, 2003 by Dan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SirumemKez20 Posted December 14, 2003 Report Share Posted December 14, 2003 You've just been dumped by your lover! What's the best approach according to your previous experiences?? Wel I never been dumped cuz I never had a b/f, but if I felt so sad i would listien to music love songs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gurgen Posted December 15, 2003 Report Share Posted December 15, 2003 I've only been dumped once so I'm not an expert but here's my 2 cents. Move on with your life is the best thing to do imo. No use getting sad over such a thing, plenty other fish in the sea. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Accelerated Posted December 15, 2003 Report Share Posted December 15, 2003 I dont think you could forget about it immidiatelly after getting dumped. It would depend on how long it has lasted, how close it has been etc. But yeah, I dont think 'forget it' is a viable answer. I would get trashed with my mates Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted December 16, 2003 Report Share Posted December 16, 2003 i say screw realtionships---have fun and go out alot with your friends and enjoy life while it lasts-youre gonna have the rest of your life to find someone--or rather "fall in love" and trust me get over it--if youve been dumped or broken up with your b/f g/f----dont ever get too attached 2 people cuz youre bound to loose them if you are..... paaaaaaaaaaaaaaartay! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyebruin Posted December 16, 2003 Report Share Posted December 16, 2003 i say screw realtionships---have fun and go out alot with your friends and enjoy life while it lasts-youre gonna have the rest of your life to find someone--or rather "fall in love" and trust me get over it--if youve been dumped or broken up with your b/f g/f----dont ever get too attached 2 people cuz youre bound to loose them if you are..... paaaaaaaaaaaaaaartay! totally agreed!!! no one's worth all that heartache!!! life's about so much more than relationships and the issues they bring!!....paaaaaarty!!!!! is the right word!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted December 16, 2003 Report Share Posted December 16, 2003 yes yes yes~ ive learned-maybe not through direct expereinces but through what i see my friends going through and it sucks when theyre depressed and sad it breaks my heart and the other thing is because most of the guys they date are like 18-23 which is not all that bad but (just in general-not all guys) guys arent really mature at that age and dont even know what they want in life so how do you expect them to take care or show love for another person....i say dont get involved with anyone unless you know you both are mature enough to handle the so called "heartache".As for myself i still think i have alot of learning to do in life and am trying to find out who i am as an adult or who i want to be in the future and dont think that i can handle a relationship as well right now then when im older and "wiser" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shahumyan Posted December 16, 2003 Report Share Posted December 16, 2003 wheres the bolshevik option of fighting for him/her and not giving up? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan Posted December 16, 2003 Report Share Posted December 16, 2003 wheres the bolshevik option of fighting for him/her and not giving up? lol YES!!! that's a good one Shahumyan... hmm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted December 16, 2003 Report Share Posted December 16, 2003 i dont understand--the bolshevic option--does it have to do with what i posted? can you please explain id like to be enlightened...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shahumyan Posted December 17, 2003 Report Share Posted December 17, 2003 it was more of a light heartedd comment, Bolsheviks are supposedto have a culture of not giving up something they believe in, usually in the means of ideological. But here i meant if i was with a girl, then split up coz lets say she split with me, id have to keep trying to persuaded her what i believed, ie that we were best together Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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