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What makes an individual sexy. Would you say just looks ... or a combination of looks and personality. Whom would you consider sexy from below:-

 

a. Someone who's fat but very nice and outgoing

b. Someone who's thin, but very coy and conservative

 

Edit* Or you could come up with your own definition... ;)

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I reckon what makes an individual sexy involves a lot of factors and not neccessary the obvious.. depending on the gender, its how well they present themselves, if theyre feeling confident with their body...regardless of what size they may be..fat or slim, their facial features, but most importantly, I think its all in the attitude at the end of the day and not so much on the appearance..
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The spirit (character) bleeds through ones demeanor, and so alters how they hold themselves.. How they walk and carry themselves,, the tone of their voice, and how they choose their words.. what they choose to express themselves in by dress (i.e., sometimes bein too label conscious to the point of obession belies shallow attitude).a tone -- it definitely shows through the eyes and the corner of one's lip ( my quirk- a thang I notice)

 

If someone's spirit is vapid and toned down.. like so many so-called "Classy" people..I am bored. Bougies bore me. I might find it quaint, or sibling-like- but not sexy. Constraint can be sexy only in certain roles and times.

If someone's spirit is false and vulgar ( frontin .. fake tuff) I just throw salt on that, or use them as an intellectual chew toy if they're offensive. Fake tough- depsite what ppl say- is boring/tired/played out. The world runs on schadenfreud.. and comes too easy to be creative .

 

What is sexy to me is a fiery character and someone with the strength to empathize.. a revolutionary ( innovative) and chameleon in more ways that one :-)

 

that is sexy.

 

oh = and something about the colors of gold against deep brown + the smell of Autumn.

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a. Someone who's fat but very nice and outgoing

b. Someone who's thin, but very coy and conservative

depends on how conservative that person is... if he's too conservative, uhh no, i'd rather that he be fat and outgoing/open-minded than conservative...

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What makes an individual sexy.

:P Any Armenian guy around my age :rolleyes: ...

 

I know it sounds desperate but since I am not around much Armenians where I go to college any man that I see around the ages 20-27 who's Armenian immediately qualifies as sexy for me :lol: ... Unfortunately most of the time he turns out to be "rabiz", and that's a major turnoff for me. :(

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I think that sexuality depends on a combination of different factors, and it's very relative. Everyone has different preferences. Surely, personality probably plays an important role, but you guys shouldn't deny that we often say that someone's sexy judging by a picture. I guess a well shaped body is sexy, eyes with mystical look are sexy, voice, moves and manners in general can be sexy. ;)
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:P Any Armenian guy around my age :rolleyes: ...

 

I know it sounds desperate but since I am not around much Armenians where I go to college any man that I see around the ages 20-27 who's Armenian immediately qualifies as sexy for me :lol: ... Unfortunately most of the time he turns out to be "rabiz", and that's a major turnoff for me. :(

:lol2: :lol2: :lol2:

 

 

 

 

It'd say a good "swagger" as I like to call it. Being confident, semi-serious, aware of herself being sexy but not being cocky. We are talking about 'sexy' here..

 

That's what does it, and it can come in different forms, styles of clothes, voices, attitudes, it just clicks with me. Attractive and sexy can be different, I may not even find a women that attractive but can attest to her being sexy. (make sense?)

 

Obviously a bit of the way she looks, and a lot of how she carries herself makes a woman sexy to me.

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Lots of good answers!

 

And yes - attitude is everything...how someone holds themselves - has confidence, humor etc ...no matter what the body type etc.

 

I've known fat gals who were dour and negative etc - and ones who were upbeat and fun - and there is no doubt that the latter can be/are sexy - but the former...well...you don't even what tobe near them...anyways...

 

And Vayri - way cool response (of course I have come to expect no less..) - i particularly liked the "intellectual chew toy" comment - love it...I've so been there babes! (ussually on the giving end...but perhaps the recieving a time or two as well [though not so bad really...I can ussually hold my own...] - LOL)...

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I normally hesitate to make comments on these threads, and there's not really I can add since the most important answer have already been mentioned - I feel there are two qualities that are *very* sexy (though unfortunately they seem rare amongst armenians)

 

sincerity & spontaneity

 

:)

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I normally hesitate to make comments on these threads, and there's not really I can add since the most important answer have already been mentioned - I feel there are two qualities that are *very* sexy (though unfortunately they seem rare amongst armenians)

 

sincerity & spontaneity

 

:)

so what ya sayin??? you callin me sexy? ;) :naughty: .... i'm so spontaneous you can classify me as combustible!! (and once in a long while... flammable!) :rolleyes:

sincerely yours,

'bruin :P

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How 'bout the sincerity part? :lol: :P Just kidding!

Spontaneity is great - especially when career/family obligations drive your life into an oblivion of routine. You need a partner who can change things up - who'd willing to drop everything just to drive 30 hours to New Orleans for the weekend! A little craziness & spunk can liven things up, and after years & years together, things sometimes need some livening up! 'but I'm sure you know all that 'bruin... :D

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