Ara Posted January 30, 2003 Report Share Posted January 30, 2003 I have a question does older have to mean more mature? I seem to like older girls. Does that mean i have problem or something? My friends are always bugging me about my "age" limits because they prefer younger girls. Am I normal some one heeelp Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shiner Posted January 30, 2003 Report Share Posted January 30, 2003 You are normal but maybe in the minority. I too find older women more attractive. Plus an older woman can teach you a thing or two. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted January 30, 2003 Report Share Posted January 30, 2003 Before commenting, I think you gotta be more specific ... you mean older girls like in late twenties? mid thrities? ... or "older" girls like 75+? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vava Posted January 30, 2003 Report Share Posted January 30, 2003 quote:Originally posted by Sip: ... you mean older girls like in late twenties? THAT'S "older" ???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vava Posted January 30, 2003 Report Share Posted January 30, 2003 How old does one have to be before they are called 'old'? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MosJan Posted January 30, 2003 Report Share Posted January 30, 2003 quote:Originally posted by Ara:I have a question does older have to mean more mature? I seem to like older girls. Does that mean i have problem or something? My friends are always bugging me about my "age" limits because they prefer younger girls. Am I normal some one heeelpHaw OLD ?>?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MosJan Posted January 30, 2003 Report Share Posted January 30, 2003 if it's liek 75+ you need help nice to see you Alex / Welcome back /MOvses Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nairi Posted January 30, 2003 Report Share Posted January 30, 2003 I was thinking age difference. How much older? 5 years, 10 years, your mother's age? If the latter, then I think your problem speaks for itself. If not, then enjoy yourself! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted January 30, 2003 Report Share Posted January 30, 2003 quote:Originally posted by vava: quote:Originally posted by Sip: ... you mean older girls like in late twenties? THAT'S "older" ???? Well, vava jan, believe it or not, considering the fact that ara is 19, even 20 is "older" for him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted January 31, 2003 Report Share Posted January 31, 2003 quote:Originally posted by nairi:I was thinking age difference. How much older? 5 years, 10 years, your mother's age? If the latter, then I think your problem speaks for itself. If not, then enjoy yourself!LOL - well said...and I agree... When I was your age Ara I too was attracted to older women. Not sure about the age range (but no spinster types nor was it a "momma" thing as Nairi implies). I just didn't have the patience for the "giggly" stage & such. It was just a maturity factor. I found somewhat older gals to be a bit more strightforward & well (to me) normal. Also what dl says is (very) true. Many of the gals I used to date were quite a bit more experienced then I was and taught me an incredible amount! - set me off on the right path as it were - "lessons" that stick with me to this day. I can't say enough for these types of experiences! LOL I had a very long time g/f who was about 6-7 years older then at various times I and I dated gals 3, 5 and 15! (I was about 25 and she was around 40...) years older then I was - also some who were a few years younger as well. My wife is a few years older then me (but not by much) - though she looks super/very young for her age! (hint - as did/does her mom - an important factor when making these choices - if that matters much to you...) As I get older I am definatly finding I'm attracted (at least visually!, though I supose also in concept) to younger women (not surprising I don't think...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vava Posted January 31, 2003 Report Share Posted January 31, 2003 quote: Originally posted by Sip: quote:Originally posted by vava: THAT'S "older" ???? Well, vava jan, believe it or not, considering the fact that ara is 19, even 20 is "older" for him Hmmmm. yes. I see your point. I'm beginning to think I'm getting a complex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyeflyer Posted January 31, 2003 Report Share Posted January 31, 2003 AraYou shouldn't worry.I'm twice plus your age and my woman is your age what does that make me? I must be a cradle robber or I live a Petter Pan dream and never want to grow up.:)It keeps me young never the less. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ara Posted February 1, 2003 Author Report Share Posted February 1, 2003 Well um Im 19 so i shhot for 20-25 i guess thats not too bad. On a couple of occasions women in thier 30's have found me attractive and i overheard things but thats too much. i figure 5-6 years is feeseble. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyeflyer Posted February 3, 2003 Report Share Posted February 3, 2003 AraWhen it comes to the affaires of the heart there is no age ,except the legal age of the consenting party's.If you neglect this you are in BIG trouble. You are only as old or as young as you think.My advise is to think young.Michelle took a dim viewem on this subject because she is really less than half my age.Michelle here; He is such a show off! I'm not half his age, only 8 years his junior is all but he still thinks he's a cradle robber. Remember, youre only as old as you feel! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loreley Posted February 5, 2003 Report Share Posted February 5, 2003 Ara: Sometimes age has nothing to do with being mature or inmature. A person can be 26 years old and be completely inmature. Don't worry about the age issue. There is no age when it comes to love or to feeling attracted to someone else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fightsport Posted February 6, 2003 Report Share Posted February 6, 2003 I agree with you totaly Loreley,everyone is attracted to certain auros of nature, others, all kinds. ..... So, Ara I think you are what you are, normal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Outdoorgirl Posted February 13, 2003 Report Share Posted February 13, 2003 Highflyer you spoke from my heart. I totally agree that there is no age for love. There can be different reasons why you get to go out with older girls; ex. you look older than your age, the majority of women that surround you are older than you, your actual age is different from your psychological age ( by the way if you speak russian you can see what’s your psychological age here http://test.msk.ru/cgi-bin/steptest.cgi?009&0&0&282 ). Besides that, if you feel fine with older women, you shouldn’t worry what others think. My personal opinion is that age is not that important and I bet age is not the main factor which attracts you in women. Happy Valentine’s Day ! This is for everyone here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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