UKGIRL28 Posted November 11, 2003 Report Share Posted November 11, 2003 If someone you are dating says they love you, arranges to meet up but then keeps blowing you out the last minute coz they have something more important to go to, does that mean they have a ridiculously short term memory or is it that they are just messing you about and cant be bothered anymore!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vava Posted November 11, 2003 Report Share Posted November 11, 2003 whatever the case, even if they're truly interested, it indicates someone who his seriously deficient in planning skills, and this will remainto be a pattern of behaviour for a long time. Do you want to deal with that once you're married/kids etc... ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted November 11, 2003 Report Share Posted November 11, 2003 I think it's a sign how "I love you" is so trivialized these days. People fall in "love" after first dates or even before meeting. So I'm thinking his definition of "love" is very different than what you are thinking it is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted November 12, 2003 Report Share Posted November 12, 2003 i agree with seaphan very much on this-- besides- if he loves you as he claims- there shouldnt be anything more important than you in his life- if hes seriously considering spending more time with you in the future- my advice to you is --never trust someone with your heart- who isnt responsible or who is "forgetful" becuause one day hell even forget u exist- just my opinion -and good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UKGIRL28 Posted November 12, 2003 Author Report Share Posted November 12, 2003 whatever the case, even if they're truly interested, it indicates someone who his seriously deficient in planning skills, and this will remainto be a pattern of behaviour for a long time. Do you want to deal with that once you're married/kids etc... ? Well funny you should say that because our first date was cancelled, so I had to wait for the next weekend! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UKGIRL28 Posted November 12, 2003 Author Report Share Posted November 12, 2003 I think it's a sign how "I love you" is so trivialized these days. People fall in "love" after first dates or even before meeting. So I'm thinking his definition of "love" is very different than what you are thinking it is I think many people use the sentence, 'I love you' as a means of getting a girl into bed these days without thinking that whether they actually mean it or not.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KavorKin99 Posted November 12, 2003 Report Share Posted November 12, 2003 uh no hedont luv u lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vava Posted November 13, 2003 Report Share Posted November 13, 2003 uh no hedont luv u lol K99, Could you please re-post what you just said in english, please? I just never understand what you write. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted November 13, 2003 Report Share Posted November 13, 2003 K99, Could you please re-post what you just said in english, please? I just never understand what you write. I think she's trying to say: Oh no he didn't, love you lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vava Posted November 13, 2003 Report Share Posted November 13, 2003 Yeah, maybe - but I think there's something to be said for using punctuation, and at least a few real words once in a while. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted November 13, 2003 Report Share Posted November 13, 2003 I agree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted November 13, 2003 Report Share Posted November 13, 2003 hey keeps us on our toes.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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