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Takoush Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 Your point has been dully noted. I get it. But there is one thing you have failed to mention. Marrriage is a difficult relationship to uphold. It requires labor, dedication, sacrifice and respect from BOTH parties involved. One person can bear the weight but for a finite period of time. No one is capable of pulling double duty. After a while the mission becomes gitole and the well being of the child outside of that relationship has to come first. Please go ask the grown children of the innumerable families whose parents stayed together whether they think their mothers were right in staying in intolerable marriages for the sake of the kids. See if they don't pity their mothers and resent their fathers. Ask them if they would opt to live in a peaceful environment even if that meant having to homes and sepetTed parents. My sentiments exactly Em. On the other spectrum if and when the mother for instance stays into an intolerable marriage, then the bad pattern will continue into the child. It has been well noted that a girl for instance marries exactly the same type of a man that her father has been. If he was neglectful of the mother, or abusive or non-loving then that's exactly what the daughter will choose for a husband. A neglectful, an abusive, and a non-loving husband. When a parent stays in a bad marriage he or she is setting up for the poor child's future. Emotional abuse as witnessed by children does just as much harm as a divorce. Happy endings are not guaranteed. And some of us do give up our lives after divorce as well. In the end being a patent means that your identity as an individual is first and foremost that of a provider, nurturer, the one who sacrifices her life so that the child she brought into the world knows that there nothing of importance beyond him/ her. Again exactly!!!!!! A great deal of fighting, emotional or bodily abuse witnessed by children do a great deal of harm to children if not more than a divorce. And after a mother divorces her husband for whatever the right reasons she had to divorce for; she can create a life that is a better example for the child. There is nothing wrong for living a decent good life after a divorce, when you can still be a good example to follow for your child. Working hard, a loving parent, a decent good person and basically good mores and ethics that you will instill to your offspring. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Takoush Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 (edited) About arranged marriages; I will reiterate again that I am not for it in all or most part. I believe IN LOVE; but at the same time I believe in friendship with love. I believe that it's best to be-friend the one that you love before marrying him/her. When you are befriending the one you love; then I think that you will know more about the person and you will be in agreement with most of your important ethical and moral habits and virtues. Not to take each other for granted; but rather greet each other every day as if you just met. With the same courtesy, love, devotion and willingness to please each other. Above all, to bestow each other with unconditional love. This is what I believe in a partnership between the two sexes. Edited March 10, 2008 by Takoush Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ani Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 Divorce rates are growing rapidly (53 %) and there are more dysfunctional families today than happy ones… some people are making money off of it…i take a class “Marriage and Family Relations”, it is such a made up subject, they create phony formulas to “happiness” and successful marriage…the instructor is a divorcee, single mother with negative attitudes toward the institution of marriage, with no intention to get remarried (frequently talking about reality… very different from the book) and she is a marriage counselor… However, it does talk about choices (especially irrevocable ones) and consequences, during adolescence and youth…i think this course should not be an upper division undergrad course… it will be more helpful in college and even high school… There is one thing that i found interesting... that based on statistics and research, marriages successfully survive based on the commonalities between the spouses…before i thought (actually i heard) that opposites attract and make each other complete… Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MosJan Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 Ani jan yerku or araj @enkeroj@s kin@ syurprise Speretion + Ristriction order matutsets @enkeroj@s - heratsnelov iren ir 5 Yerexanerits asel te $$$ problem@ sxal k@Lini - anzi bavakanin lav finanasakan d@rutyan mej eyin, asel te xand@ kam art Amusnakan kaper@ da el e sxal qanzi gitem yerkusn el n@Virvats amusinner yve tsnoghner eyin - yerku or e xelqernis g@Luxners chi galis chenq haskanum te inch yev inchpes patahets es amen inch@ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yervant1 Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 Ani jan yerku or araj @enkeroj@s kin@ syurprise Speretion + Ristriction order matutsets @enkeroj@s - heratsnelov iren ir 5 Yerexanerits asel te $$$ problem@ sxal k@Lini - anzi bavakanin lav finanasakan d@rutyan mej eyin, asel te xand@ kam art Amusnakan kaper@ da el e sxal qanzi gitem yerkusn el n@Virvats amusinner yve tsnoghner eyin - yerku or e xelqernis g@Luxners chi galis chenq haskanum te inch yev inchpes patahets es amen inch@ Havanakan e vor yerort ants m@ ka!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MosJan Posted September 18, 2008 Report Share Posted September 18, 2008 Havanakan e vor yerort ants m@ ka!!!!!!! iysor haskatsa vor k@noj yexpoiyr@ yve quyr@ mets ashxatanq en katarel es gortsum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harut Posted September 19, 2008 Report Share Posted September 19, 2008 (edited) Divorce rates are growing rapidly (53 %) and there are more dysfunctional families today than happy ones… some people are making money off of it…i take a class “Marriage and Family Relations”, it is such a made up subject, they create phony formulas to “happiness” and successful marriage…the instructor is a divorcee, single mother with negative attitudes toward the institution of marriage, with no intention to get remarried (frequently talking about reality… very different from the book) and she is a marriage counselor… However, it does talk about choices (especially irrevocable ones) and consequences, during adolescence and youth…i think this course should not be an upper division undergrad course… it will be more helpful in college and even high school… There is one thing that i found interesting... that based on statistics and research, marriages successfully survive based on the commonalities between the spouses…before i thought (actually i heard) that opposites attract and make each other complete… "martin goldberg and associates, llc. divorce attornies f-in' up american families for over 50 years" Edited September 19, 2008 by Harut Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ani Posted September 19, 2008 Report Share Posted September 19, 2008 Ani jan yerku or araj @enkeroj@s kin@ syurprise Speretion + Ristriction order matutsets @enkeroj@s - heratsnelov iren ir 5 Yerexanerits asel te $$$ problem@ sxal k@Lini - anzi bavakanin lav finanasakan d@rutyan mej eyin, asel te xand@ kam art Amusnakan kaper@ da el e sxal qanzi gitem yerkusn el n@Virvats amusinner yve tsnoghner eyin - yerku or e xelqernis g@Luxners chi galis chenq haskanum te inch yev inchpes patahets es amen inch@ bayc restriction order dnel@ edqan el hesht ban chi...dra hamar pat&arrner en petq...ete chhastatven, dataran@ khani order@...inchqan gitem datavorner@ hakvats en 2 tsnoghnerin el pahel erexaneri kyanqum, u chtoghnen v'or koghmer@ erexanerin zenq dardznen, iranc kriiv-davineri mej... but...before, to me divorce was the end of the world...but by the time i understood that dysfunctional families are worse and more destructive...but...with five children it is gonna be hard in many ways... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
garmag Posted September 20, 2008 Report Share Posted September 20, 2008 When, during the late sixties and seventies the western economies were unable to sell more products to consumers... since the consumers were saturated...and production of all goods stagnent... A devilishly clever scheme was concocted on many fronts in creating new consumers... The Brady bunch type TV serials were instigators for couples, who were married for several years, starting to seek new excitments outside the home and dreaming hollywoodian quicky happiness situations ,where in a half hour all the conflicts of the families were perfectly timed for happy endings ! In the Brady bunch situation, a father with three sons joins in a union with a women with three daughters in an ideal house, where all types of sextual connotations were insinuated... All of the entenglements in this newly formed union allways found quicky, satisfactory Hollywood endings. The devilish formula also concurrently endorsed feminism with a fanatical vengence against all that is Male species under the guise of seeking equality in all spheres... You could imagine the havoc this created and still is continuing it's influence today...on marriages... The break up of families via divorces was the aim of this cleverly satanic scheme ! In order to get more consumers, the planners , by splitting families... suddenly created a doubled demand for all neccessities that will make an additional home neccessary for a split family! Imagine the doubling of everything... The divorce rates are the proof of these cabals/ogres... whose aim was and is nothing but more accumulation of moolah at any cost. No wonder today, the Western empires are morally decadent...ironically, developping nations are following this so called social progress by copying the West in all her facets... splitting and divorces of families are gallopping in unprecedented rates all through the world! The latest assault on all societies is called globalization. The natural descendency of the Brady Bunchism, feminism...unlimited greed! Unfortunatly the innocents ( the children of these coitus unlimited) pay a high price... this trend will continue for the future, finally arriving at a suicidal tunnel with no end in sight! I don't envy my grand childrens future lives...Yes, I suffer for this situation, I am doing my damnest to put right what I contributed in creating this state of affairs... Da Astwadz mer boloris imasdutyun! Arpa, with respect, how would you phrase the above ..."imasdutyun" without using... "utyun" that I abhore like you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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