gamavor Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 The Art of Flirting A good flirt can be spotted from a mile away. You know the type, always smiling, laughing, intense eye contact and over-friendly arm touches. Does this describe you? Well congratulations you have been officially labeled a FLIRT! To admit you're a flirt is nothing to be ashamed of! I am the first one to admit that I am a big flirt - I really can't help myself, it is inherent in my nature. But flirting doesn't have to hold sexual connotations. On the contrary, many people, view the act of flirting as a "gentle amusement", an act of friendliness and perfectly harmless unless it is bordering on the line of sleaziness or plain rudeness. But more than that, flirting is not just about being over-friendly, it is about being confident and liking yourself and sharing a bit of that with the rest of the world. According to the dictionary, flirting means: being playfully romantic; something of little value or importance; speak or act in a playful or flirting way. We have been a flirting society for many decades as documented in novels, poems, art, and drama. Remember the tactics in years gone by, where a lady walking past a gentleman who has caught her eye might drop a lace handkerchief as she passes him, with hopes that he will pick it up and run after her. Well I am happy to report that women have since progressed with their style of flirting! Nowadays, an accomplished flirter can walk into a room and strike up a conversation and instant rapport with a stranger at any time and without the reliant need for alcohol or dropping that lace hankie! The first tip in the flirting game is that it be tastefully executed. This means if you are the one doing the flirting, you should have tact and realize that flirting is done in small quantities with consideration and good sense. You should also be aware of the individual preference of the person you are flirting with. Flirting really isn't meant to hold much value or importance and has no room for rudeness. QUICK FACT: Did you know that flirting with people can actually be good for your health and boosting your level of happiness? Well I kid you not! Flirting can add more to your life than you probably realize. Accomplished flirting can ease the way in your friendships, your love life and your career, therefore making life pleasurable. Often the most appealing people are those who radiant confidence and self-respect. GREAT FLIRTS: Here are some tips for picking out the flirt professional: They have empowering beliefs about themselves. Have the ability to form a rapport with almost anyone, can accommodate others while maintaining a sense of their themselves. Are upbeat and positive. Are in touch with and aware of their own sexual energy. Pick up other people's signals and know when to take flirting to the next level and when to stop. Have fun and have a child-like quality about them. If flirting is perceived as just great communication, it can be of benefit anywhere, including in that controversial arena, the workplace. So the next time you contemplate going up and introducing yourself to the person across the room, don't contemplate, just do it! And remember to carry with you a big SMILE! - Annemarie Failla http://www.girl.com.au/artofflirting.htm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anileve Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 I don't know if I am a flirt, I don't know if these characteristics really define a flirt, but here is my analysis of myself: ================================= They have empowering beliefs about themselves. ~ Not me Have the ability to form a rapport with almost anyone, can accommodate others while maintaining a sense of their themselves. ~ Me Are upbeat and positive. ~ Sometimes Me Are in touch with and aware of their own sexual energy. ~Hell yes Pick up other people's signals and know when to take flirting to the next level and when to stop. ~ Me Have fun and have a child-like quality about them. ~I don't think so, although I do look like a child. But it doesn't matter what I think of myself becuase it is others who determine whether I am a flirt or not. I think gamavor, THOTH, Domino and Azat are some of the biggest flirts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DominO123 Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 I think gamavor, THOTH, Domino and Azat are some of the biggest flirts. style_images/master/snapback.png What's to be a flirt? Serously though, believe me I'm not like I am here in real life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azat Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Evelina you are a total flirt. I am not for sure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Evelina you are a total flirt. I am not for sure. style_images/master/snapback.png The biggest flirt is the one that denies it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azat Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 WHATEVER. I know I am not a flirt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azat Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Eve is the biggest flirt on this board... Followed by Nairi and Extra and Anoushik and all the other ladies. http://hyeforum.com/index.php?showtopic=9034 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anileve Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Let's see.... On scale of 1 to 10, 10 being the biggest flirt. Amy - 6 (I know you can do better ) Nairi - 5 (I know you are in real life, don't ask me why but I do, although you don't like to display it often when you are in company of men or a man you blossom into a black widow spider, as you slowly weave a web around your unsuspecting victims) Stormy - same as nairi. You are not public flirts but you crawl under the skin slowly but surely, and before they know it their addiction sets in. As it's evident in some of the members. Anoushik - 4 you are not a flirt, but you are charming because you don't try at all and men are naturally drawn to your innocence and sincerity. Armat - 5 You are a devoted husband, however often you get that spark of flirtatiousness when you see a hot potato, and let yourself get carried away in your virtual fantasies. Ed - 7 You are a careful flirt and a mild perv. Movses - 3 You are too pure to be a flirt. Domino - 10 You are an online flirt. But in reality you are shy, however as soon as you are comfortable you woe a woman with your romantic nature and your knowledge of multiple universes. Azat - 10 you are a sick flirt, who pretends to be so pure, yet you have attended playboy parties and you mind is in "Lustful Inferno" quite often. Seap- 1 You suck at flirting. You just blurt out things which are inappropriate to women. Also you tend to say things like "All you girls are alike" which is a murder for a flirt. THOTH - 2000+ Need I say more? Gam - 10 You are too smooth. Always know the right thing to say. Your attorney skills provide you with exceptional communication skills and an ability to win any woman over on your side. Your well cultured, well mannered, well groomed, well read, you are the ultimate Don Juan, right next to our THOTH! Both of you should have operated together in a quest of conquered hearts. Ok, my fingers are tired plus I am running out of psycho bullcrap. Tell me how right or wrong am I. I'll write about the rest later, plus I actually have to do some work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DominO123 Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Eve is the biggest flirt on this board... Followed by Nairi and Extra and Anoushik and all the other ladies. http://hyeforum.com/index.php?showtopic=9034 style_images/master/snapback.png Sheeesh, I never saw this thread. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DominO123 Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Domino - 10 You are an online flirt. But in reality you are shy, however as soon as you are comfortable you woe a woman with your romantic nature and your knowledge of multiple universes. style_images/master/snapback.png That's an evidences that you knew me in a past life... must have been during the 14nt century or something... I was a Leonardo de Vinci and you were my inspiration. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Amy - 6 (I know you can do better ) I could be a better flirt with some guidance. Would any of the guys volunteer to help me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anileve Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 That's an evidences that you knew me in a past life... must have been during the 14nt century or something... I was a Leonardo de Vinci and you were my inspiration. style_images/master/snapback.png AAAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAH!!!!! OMG that was sooooo classic!!! I've heard some really smooth lines but I swear this is Nobel Prize material. I swear you are something else Dr. Love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vava Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 I don't even register on eve's flirt-o-meter.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anileve Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 I don't even register on eve's flirt-o-meter.... style_images/master/snapback.png I'm working on my second part. Besides, you are getting married, we don't need to fluff up your feathers, Mr. Mao forbid you start having doubts and decide to test out the validity of my diagnosis. But if you wish I will spill the beans about your flirtability. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DominO123 Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 (edited) AAAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAH!!!!! OMG that was sooooo classic!!! I've heard some really smooth lines but I swear this is Nobel Prize material. I swear you are something else Dr. Love. style_images/master/snapback.png If what I said was a Nobel prize, it's your prize. How come it could be else, when it is your existance that produced those words? -Imagine now what I can creat for you in French. Edited September 15, 2004 by Fadix Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormig Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Nairi - 5 (I know you are in real life, don't ask me why but I do, although you don't like to display it often when you are in company of men or a man you blossom into a black widow spider, as you slowly weave a web around your unsuspecting victims) Stormy - same as nairi. You are not public flirts but you crawl under the skin slowly but surely, and before they know it their addiction sets in. As it's evident in some of the members. Anoushik - 4 you are not a flirt, but you are charming because you don't try at all and men are naturally drawn to your innocence and sincerity. style_images/master/snapback.png I behave on Hye. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DominO123 Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 I behave on Hye. style_images/master/snapback.png Yes you do. You my Queen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nairi Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Nairi - 5 (I know you are in real life, don't ask me why but I do, although you don't like to display it often when you are in company of men or a man you blossom into a black widow spider, as you slowly weave a web around your unsuspecting victims) Stormy - same as nairi. You are not public flirts but you crawl under the skin slowly but surely, and before they know it their addiction sets in. As it's evident in some of the members. style_images/master/snapback.png I've only flirted (note the past tense) with one guy on this forum and he knows who he is. But I can tell you exactly who flirted with me at one time or another. Azat is not one of them Maybe that's why I dream about him sometimes I trust him. As for real life: I only flirt with someone I want something from that is deeper than mere sex. It means a lot to me. I'm not a loose flirt, also because I don't want to give the wrong impression. So if I'm ever flirting with you, take it as something very special, because it's not something I do with just about anyone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Well Eve - thanks for the positive and I suppose somewhat accurate assessment (but I would be more then happy and agreeable for you to rank Gamavor ahead of me here...). I do think though that perhaps you have underestimated Extra and Stormy's prowess (when they want to...) Unlike Domino - I think I'm pretty much exactly like I am in person as I am on the forum(s)...with perhaps (in person) a bit more tempering in some areas..but perhaps not in others... And yeah - I do like (and appreciate) women (on all levels) - and thats important - and perhaps not univesally for all guys... And Eve - by all means do not discount your own flirting prowess (and yous a hottie - thats fer sure... ) ...and I feel compelled to add that we miss Bruin in this regard..even if she somewhat temprered her allure with some (perhaps generally accurate - but overplayed) neagativity concerning guys in general... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 I've only flirted (note the past tense) with one guy on this forum and he knows who he is. But I can tell you exactly who flirted with me at one time or another. Azat is not one of them Maybe that's why I dream about him sometimes I trust him. Whoo hoo! Well you just made his day babes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DominO123 Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Unlike Domino - I think I'm pretty much exactly like I am in person as I am on the forum(s)...with perhaps (in person) a bit more tempering in some areas..but perhaps not in others... style_images/master/snapback.png If that is so, then I advice women to run away from you in real life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 If that is so, then I advice women to run away from you in real life. style_images/master/snapback.png Well your certainly no fun... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ED Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 Ed - 7 You are a careful flirt and a mild perv. style_images/master/snapback.png That’s because Azat convinced me somehow to ask for your belly button picture, see how naïve I can be jutik jan? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DominO123 Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 That’s because Azat convinced me somehow to ask for your belly button picture, see how naïve I can be jutik jan? style_images/master/snapback.png Did other guys saw pictures of you(Evelyn) that I havn't saw? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azat Posted September 15, 2004 Report Share Posted September 15, 2004 I've only flirted (note the past tense) with one guy on this forum and he knows who he is. But I can tell you exactly who flirted with me at one time or another. Azat is not one of them Maybe that's why I dream about him sometimes I trust him. WOOOOHOOOOOO... I think I can die happy now... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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