angel4hope Posted March 1, 2004 Report Share Posted March 1, 2004 So guys...what has been your perfect first date? or perfect date for that matter? or maybe the worst? share your expereinces please.... also what suggestions do you have for a nice night- or even day- out for a couple? roller skating on the beach? going to the opera? anything----id love some diversity and new suggestions- just for the fun of it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted March 1, 2004 Author Report Share Posted March 1, 2004 ohh and im not sure if this is considered chit chat- if you find fit- feel free to move it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamavor Posted March 1, 2004 Report Share Posted March 1, 2004 Correct me if I'm wrong but the perfect first date is called one night stand! OK, on a more serious note, there is no such thing as perfect first date. All first dates suck, except for.....the sentance above! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted March 1, 2004 Author Report Share Posted March 1, 2004 ehh lav elli gamz--> u makin me sad now!! is this only in your view or do most guys think so too> ? if so, thats horribbly mortifying!! man o man o man sad! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hasmiek Posted March 1, 2004 Report Share Posted March 1, 2004 one of the nicest first dates i had was when I met this guy, lets call him S. in university, we decided to go to a student protest thing the next day wich was in another city. we would both ask other people to join so we could go with a whole bunch of people and protest really fanatically. So I didn't ask anyone, because i'd rather be with just him; and he had done the same thing, so at the trainstation, the 'group protest' turned into a date. We went to the protest for 2.5 minutes, and then spent the whole afternoon in the park drinking wine and eating liquerish and other candy and ended up really sick and in love. the ending is less happy, but that's for another forum. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamavor Posted March 1, 2004 Report Share Posted March 1, 2004 Angel, don't blame guys. We are usually the victims of bitchy attitude. Well, yes most of the times guys are looking for that, because there is nothing (i mean nothing) else they can find interesting enough in their partner. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted March 1, 2004 Author Report Share Posted March 1, 2004 Angel, don't blame guys. We are usually the victims of bitchy attitude. Well, yes most of the times guys are looking for that, because there is nothing (i mean nothing) else they can find interesting enough in their partner. welll gamz-- id have to say- "depends on the partne" and depends on what else you find interesting... of course ud be bored if it was some bimbo chick who couldnt stop playing with her hair and her longest response was somewhere in the rounds of " yah like maybe like we can so do that" yah i think most guys are only interested in one thing when it comes to such women- but obviously if yu two share common interests and can hold up a nice conversation and even disagree on certain things- guys will be more into you than your bod and its "capabilities" jeesht chem asoom? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamavor Posted March 1, 2004 Report Share Posted March 1, 2004 jeesht as asum! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyebruin Posted March 1, 2004 Report Share Posted March 1, 2004 the perfect first date is knowing the shelf life of the relationship, when 'love' will turn to indifference and when the chemistry will die out and you'd pray that you'd never see or hear from that person ever again! haa!!...knowledge is good! since that way you can gauge your emotions accordingly... numbs down all the emotions so you feel just a little less pain... movies, dinner, picnics...yeah yeah yeah...all part of "the game".... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted March 1, 2004 Report Share Posted March 1, 2004 LOOK AT YOU PEOPLE!!! you guys disgust me!!!! ATLEAST we can say good things, think good things, and have hope for them!! BUT NOOOO all you guys are responding with mainly negative aspects.. hmmm..... this is what i think... I dont care where you go, i dont care how you dress, i dont care how much money you spend, i dont care how long the date is, i dont care what other peop[le say..... but i think the perfect first date would be first of all when both parties.. girle and boy, are there not because they want to try him/her, not because they want sex, not because they think he/shes hot and wanna hang around him/her and show friends, not because parents made you, and the list goes on.. but because both are honest with there emotions, dont try to hide it in fear that they might seem to eager for the relationship, where both are honest, and genuinely themselves, not putting on an act..... then that would be perfect.. and personally i hope the girl i go out with talks allot, cause i hate the silence and starring around.. LMAO... BUT! i think the only reason you guys can say whatyou say is vbecause you jump into a relationship without even ever being friends with that girl or boy... so in essence a 100% complete stranger... i think if you are honest, and genuine, things will follow,,, in other words.. we must put our ego's aside, and pick up the wand of unselfishness... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted March 2, 2004 Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 Perfect first date is something short and easy ... maybe a buffet or something. Because if the conversation isn't going well, you can always get up to go get more food and take your time getting back Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymouse Posted March 2, 2004 Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 The perfect first date would involve a rental from Blockbuster, and myself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SALTnPEPA92 Posted March 2, 2004 Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 The perfect first date would involve a rental from Blockbuster, and myself. okay altought its hard for me to say what a perfect first date would be i would have to say this two people just hanging out together watching a movie, and just being honest with eachother and not playing games i dont ask from a guy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DominO123 Posted March 2, 2004 Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 the perfect first date is knowing the shelf life of the relationship, when 'love' will turn to indifference and when the chemistry will die out and you'd pray that you'd never see or hear from that person ever again! haa!!...knowledge is good! since that way you can gauge your emotions accordingly... numbs down all the emotions so you feel just a little less pain... movies, dinner, picnics...yeah yeah yeah...all part of "the game".... What about a date as a friend... and then later... would that not change your conception, since you won't have to worry about those things. Right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyebruin Posted March 2, 2004 Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 What about a date as a friend... and then later... would that not change your conception, since you won't have to worry about those things. Right? friends don't date...."friends" do date! let's get that straight!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted March 2, 2004 Author Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 (edited) The perfect first date would involve a rental from Blockbuster, and myself. wow really? but youd be the third wheel- are you sure you want to be there? lol j/k thanx for the reply... that would be my first choice...but yet again i dunno lol....... ohhh i get it...or do you mean like a date with yourself- like chillin by yourself and a video--i think i misinterpreted something here <_< Edited March 2, 2004 by angel4hope Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted March 2, 2004 Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 wow really? but youd be the third wheel- are you sure you want to be there? lol j/k thanx for the reply... that would be my first choice...but yet again i dunno lol....... ohhh i get it...or do you mean like a date with yourself- like chillin by yourself and a video--i think i misinterpreted something here <_< dont try to hard.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymouse Posted March 2, 2004 Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 In case you're in the shadow..I said, the perfect first date would involve a blockbuster rental, and myself. No where did I mention anyone else. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DominO123 Posted March 2, 2004 Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 friends don't date...."friends" do date! let's get that straight!! A guy always try, does he not? The last months you sound to have lost any hope in finding anyone... don't forget that we find love only when we search love... BTW angel, you should have asked him what kind of blockbuster rental, that would be enough for you to understand. Some like anon likes the virtual thing, others like myself rather stick with lovly girls like you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted March 2, 2004 Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 (edited) . don't forget that we find love only when we search love... That is the biggest BS i have ever heard.. LMAO.. Domino.. you say that with tooo much certainty, and its not right at all.... infact its quite the contrary When you look to hard, you loos your clear thinking.. Edited March 2, 2004 by gevo27 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DominO123 Posted March 2, 2004 Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 That is the biggest BS i have ever heard.. LMAO.. Domino.. you say that with tooo much certainty, and its not right at all.... infact its quite the contrary When you look to hard, you loos your clear thinking.. Actualy, it is true, you fall in love because of a loss, something you don't have you wish to have that you find... as for losing your clear thinking, what is the point here? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted March 2, 2004 Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 Actualy, it is true, you fall in love because of a loss, something you don't have you wish to have that you find... as for losing your clear thinking, what is the point here? the point is 2+2=5.. common Domino.. your only half right.. and you make it sound like you are all right.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted March 2, 2004 Author Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 The perfect first date would involve a rental from Blockbuster, and myself. hahah apres good one! i thought so- i knew you had a bit of narcissism in yah..u just gotta let it shine my dear... j/k u coo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted March 2, 2004 Author Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 (edited) BTW angel, you should have asked him what kind of blockbuster rental, that would be enough for you to understand. Some like anon likes the virtual thing, others like myself rather stick with lovly girls like you. thank you Domino flattered youre too sweet- and im sure mouse is into the virtual stuff- che mouse lol but once he finds some wild chick that can tame him, hell be good im sure Edited March 2, 2004 by angel4hope Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted March 2, 2004 Report Share Posted March 2, 2004 ... don't forget that we find love only when we search love... I totally agree. And as far as Anonymouse ... I wonder what happens after the movie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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