Armine3773 Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 (edited) It's his loss. Edited February 13, 2004 by Armine3773 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armine3773 Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 (edited) all i can say is that one needs to approach each situation with an open mind and not have bias from previous expereinces...well that's a hard thing to do, but youll save urself some hurt and anger...just because one guy broke ur heart doesnt mean they all will..yeah everyones capable...but dont be so pessimistic...trust me there are guys out there who are amture enough and who will spend time on the relationship and care for you ....just be happy and dont let stupid people put u down! EXACTLYYYYYYY !!!!! My friend's bf isnt interested in her right now. He doesn't call her, they dont see each other for weeks and she calls me and asks me for advice. I tell her to disregard him for a while and not call him for maybe a week or two. That way both of them will get the "space" they need..Usually when you're with a person a long and you see each other night and day, you get sick of them easily. (even if you're madly in love.) Every person needs their space and by parting away for a while, it brings your relationship closer together. That's just what I think Edited February 13, 2004 by Armine3773 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymouse Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 EXACTLYYYYYYY !!!!! My friend's bf isnt interested in her right now. He doesn't call her, they dont see each other for weeks and she calls me and asks me for advice. I tell her to disregard him for a while and not call him for maybe a week or two. That way both of them will get the "space" they need..Usually when you're with a person a long and you see each other night and day, you get sick of them easily. (even if you're madly in love.) Every person needs their space and by parting away for a while, it brings your relationship closer together. That's just what I think "Guess what! That's not what me thinks!". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armine3773 Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 that's cool. every person has their own opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymouse Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 that's cool. every person has their own opinion. "Methinks you're right on this one." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 Gevo, I don't see why you shouldn't fall in love with a non-armenian girl. If she loves you back why do you both have to suffer (that's by keeping each other apart), just because you are probably scared of the judgement of Armenian comunity? my point exactly... but.. sevmard is also very right... <_< Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gurgen Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 aw mouse..seerteet varvats aa? Reminds me of Pepo "Pazhar Pazhar!!" "Urtie pazhar?" "Esti e pazhar, Esti e pazhar" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EMMA K Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 my point exactly... but.. sevmard is also very right... <_< Ok ok i get that, but look i'm not pure Armenian, yet i'm proud of my Armenian roots. I'm sure if you plan to get serious with that girl and get married to her, than your kids will be proud of that heritage (it's all up to you how you bring them up). I think that all your 2nd and 3rd cousins will not think it's a disaster if you are with a non-armenian. Ok, so there will be gossiping but then they'll just get bored and stop and they'll accept it. But imagine if your girl will really get into Armenian culture (and maybe even start speaking the language), your relatives will be so impressed and even proud! They'll think she is totally cool! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DominO123 Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 Sip man, you're the man. I agree 100% of everything you have writen here. That may be the only time that I may agree with all of what you may say... so it is a reason to celebrate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 my point exactly... but.. sevmard is also very right... <_< I'm just saying that becuase i'm the odar looking in right now. I say go with your heart. I love my girl because of who she is, I'm not chasing armo girls or tying to break into the community. I met her loved her, and then learned about how things are. If you find that love outside the Hye community I say you have to go for it, if it means that much to you. Each person has a different threshold, mine is pretty high for this type of thing obviously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 But imagine if your girl will really get into Armenian culture (and maybe even start speaking the language), your relatives will be so impressed and even proud! They'll think she is totally cool! Well that's what I'm banking on.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 Sip man, you're the man. I agree 100% of everything you have writen here. That may be the only time that I may agree with all of what you may say... so it is a reason to celebrate. Of course..you two are equally clueless about love and relationships (as well as being perhaps a bit to centered into one's own self) ...so yeah - no doubt...and good luck ever finding love you two...though of course you both will say so what? lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 Welcome Emma... Why is it that the (young and otherwise) gals on this forum seem to really understand things...but the guys (a bit divorced from reality in general seems to me....ah well...)...LOL...perhaps reflects the outside world at large eh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 Sev-Marde..I truly feel for you bro...really....your the man - what can I say...wishing you the very best of luck...and what a special gal she must be..and very specially fortunate to have met a guy like you...hope she realizes it (unlike others who seem clueless often times...)....wishing you the very best! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 merci ape, As always between you and I it's nothing but love man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted February 13, 2004 Report Share Posted February 13, 2004 merci ape, As always between you and I it's nothing but love man. koo I mean what I said too..very much so... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EMMA K Posted February 14, 2004 Report Share Posted February 14, 2004 Welcome Emma... Thank you I appreciate your, Armenian, hospitality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted February 14, 2004 Report Share Posted February 14, 2004 Of course..you two are equally clueless about love and relationships (as well as being perhaps a bit to centered into one's own self) ...so yeah - no doubt...and good luck ever finding love you two...though of course you both will say so what? lol I don't think they're "clueless" Thoth jan. It's just they haven't found the right girl yet. I guaranty both Domino and Sip will change thier minds once they find that special individual. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted February 14, 2004 Report Share Posted February 14, 2004 Sip man, you're the man. I agree 100% of everything you have writen here. That may be the only time that I may agree with all of what you may say... so it is a reason to celebrate. I will drink to that!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted February 14, 2004 Report Share Posted February 14, 2004 I guaranty both Domino and Sip will change thier minds once they find that special individual. I don't understand what you mean. How will that change anything I have said here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted February 14, 2004 Report Share Posted February 14, 2004 I don't understand what you mean. How will that change anything I have said here? I am 27 and haven't even really began serious dating or even thinking about serious relationships yet. Age is nothing but a number when it comes to love. You can't just say I'm 27, and don't want any serious relationships just yet. It will happen when you least expect it. When or if you find that right girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted February 14, 2004 Report Share Posted February 14, 2004 I don't agree Extra. A person has to be open and ready for the possibility of a serious relationship and has to go looking for it. This idea that love falls in your lap from somewhere in the sky without any active pursuit, looking, searching, and wanting is just very rediculous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
den_wolf Posted February 14, 2004 Report Share Posted February 14, 2004 you two are equally clueless about love and relationships THOTH, I think we're all wrong, and you're right all the time, brother. Keep it up!! But then again, if we're all wrong, then I might be wrong about this too, after all!!! From thread: A Political Thought Experiment but yeah - your all (basically) wrong MMMM!! Moving along - my take on this is that women sometimes b*tch too much about men dumping them. O.K., there are *sshole guys, but please, what's with the trend of generalisation???! That all men are pigs means that your sons will be pigs too. So think about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted February 14, 2004 Report Share Posted February 14, 2004 my take on this is that women sometimes b*tch too much about men dumping them. O.K., there are *sshole guys, but please, what's with the trend of generalisation???! That all men are pigs means that your sons will be pigs too. So think about it. AMEN brotha! Can I have a halleluya? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted February 14, 2004 Report Share Posted February 14, 2004 I never said anything about love falling on your lap Sip. Best relationships start of as friends. You can't be looking or searching for a serious relationship, as you would for a car. Love is something that can't be controlled, it just happens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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