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  • 4 weeks later...
:) :) turning 15 oh ya!!!! :rockon: :pepsi: :msn-wink: :jester: :gunsmilie: :cheers: :clap:

What gift would be good for a 15 year old?

  • A gift certificate of BEBE?
  • A gift certificate of Barnes & Noble?
  • A CD from Narek.com?
  • A ... Um... Cash money?
*NOTE*

I am just posting this for humor, but it'd be interesting to know the answer for this :)

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I don't think anyone is really trying to be mean to you. But you must realize that most who are here are adults. And you are only 14...OK going on 15 - still you are (essentially) a child/teenager...and thats OK - and you are certainly welcome here - but you should understand that adults ussually/often communicate differently with one another then they do with children/teenagers...OK. And not everyone is used to communicating with someone your age. And many folks here are hoping/expecting more then just someone saying hello and what not - and I think maybe that they are hoping that you will talk more - about the subjects of threads here - and issues raised etc - perhaps from your perspective - give your opinions and explain why you think a certain way....(good practice for you writing your thouhgts too!).

 

And I think some are hoping that you can use this oppurtunity - of interacting with adults - to learn how to become and think more like an adult yourself. Now this isn't being mean - its just how adults interact. And I think you can see by now - that most everyone here is nice and well meaning. But you need to consider that most of us are at different places in our life then you are now - and again - nothing wrong with that (I wish i were your age again! Believe me I do! LOL) - in fact its very nice and nice to have you here - but some I think are hoping that you might try to interact more as/like an adult might - if that makes sense? And maybe this isn't your thing - or your not able - for whatever reason - and thats OK too - but not everyone is going to react to you like you might expect OK. Does any of that make sense? And I'm not trying to be mean either - but i'm trying to give you the benefit of a doubt - cus I know your not dumb...and I'm hoping that you'll understand what I'm saying and might be able to use it to help you interact better in this forum...all right?

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hyegurl

 

I don't think anyone is really trying to be mean to you. But you must realize that most who are here are adults. And you are only 14...OK going on 15 - still you are (essentially) a child/teenager...and thats OK - and you are certainly welcome here - but you should understand that adults ussually/often communicate differently with one another then they do with children/teenagers...OK. And not everyone is used to communicating with someone your age. And many folks here are hoping/expecting more then just someone saying hello and what not - and I think maybe that they are hoping that you will talk more - about the subjects of threads here - and issues raised etc - perhaps from your perspective - give your opinions and explain why you think a certain way....(good practice for you writing your thouhgts too!).

 

And I think some are hoping that you can use this oppurtunity - of interacting with adults - to learn how to become and think more like an adult yourself. Now this isn't being mean - its just how adults interact. And I think you can see by now - that most everyone here is nice and well meaning. But you need to consider that most of us are at different places in our life then you are now - and again - nothing wrong with that (I wish i were your age again! Believe me I do! LOL) - in fact its very nice and nice to have you here - but some I think are hoping that you might try to interact more as/like an adult might - if that makes sense? And maybe this isn't your thing - or your not able - for whatever reason - and thats OK too - but not everyone is going to react to you like you might expect OK. Does any of that make sense? And I'm not trying to be mean either - but i'm trying to give you the benefit of a doubt - cus I know your not dumb...and I'm hoping that you'll understand what I'm saying and might be able to use it to help you interact better in this forum...all right?

it just hurts u knoe i was posting that my b-day is next month and im turning 15 and everyone was talking meanly :( I need to tell ya something put i have to pm u to say it.

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