CheekY Posted October 18, 2003 Report Share Posted October 18, 2003 Well? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azat Posted October 18, 2003 Report Share Posted October 18, 2003 Martians are the best I hear. The one that satisfies majority of your needs to the fullest is the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormig Posted October 18, 2003 Report Share Posted October 18, 2003 OK, how about Armenian American? Or someone half Armenian and half American? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted October 18, 2003 Report Share Posted October 18, 2003 No - the answer is "me" - I'm the best...LOL...I really think that these questions are much too generalized...best for who? Whisch one - etc...answers are infintiely variable. Perhaps if you tried to categorize - best fathers for children with dyslexia or some such - i don't know...even still not all Armenian males and not all American males are the same - not by a long shot...so - to me - meaningless question...but I will still answer - "me" to it ...LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyebruin Posted October 18, 2003 Report Share Posted October 18, 2003 thoth i applaud you..highly!!! yeahhhh!!!! it is a meaningless question!! ~~since we're on the subject, i think i'd make a great wife someday! i will NOT nag him and if he's tired, i'll leave him alone ~~i will NOT stop being spontaneous or stop taking care of my body---AND be the hottest woman my husband's ever had! ---- so much so that he'd wish he was born married...TO ME!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheekY Posted October 18, 2003 Author Report Share Posted October 18, 2003 well I dont know someone asked the same question about wives so I asked about husbands... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyebruin Posted October 18, 2003 Report Share Posted October 18, 2003 well I dont know someone asked the same question about wives so I asked about husbands... love your screen name!! feel like it's raining skittles!!! ~~is that from their commercial?~~ if i was a candy i'd want to be the 'sour apple'!! that's the one that causes the most salivation!! ouch! ouch!! even thinking about it makes my jaw all funny and tingly!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted October 18, 2003 Report Share Posted October 18, 2003 thoth i applaud you..highly!!! yeahhhh!!!! it is a meaningless question!! ~~since we're on the subject, i think i'd make a great wife someday! i will NOT nag him and if he's tired, i'll leave him alone ~~i will NOT stop being spontaneous or stop taking care of my body---AND be the hottest woman my husband's ever had! ---- so much so that he'd wish he was born married...TO ME!! "Bruin - I agree - if you act as you say - you would make a super wife - super ideal (that guys would dream for...)...heck - I would wish to be married to you! LOL (my wife is actually pretty good on these categories for the most part...though I do get my share of [at least somewhat deserved I guess] naging [but still - it is nagging... ] ...and of course no one and nothing is perfect...('cept maybe you dear! LOL) And skittles - yeah I know...I think/thought the same about that one too... Oh - and yeah - I'm a pretty kick-butt husband (and father) BTW ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyebruin Posted October 18, 2003 Report Share Posted October 18, 2003 there you go again thoth! bringin' out the 'humble bruin'...i am NOTTTTTTTTT perfect!! trust me!! (but come pretttttty darn close!!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted October 18, 2003 Report Share Posted October 18, 2003 there you go again thoth! bringin' out the 'humble bruin'...i am NOTTTTTTTTT perfect!! trust me!! (but come pretttttty darn close!!) LOL - and there you go again girl! You go girl! And keep feeling that way (well to an extent...do i need to warn you of the dangers of thinking too much along those lines?) But really - too many people undervalue themselves and get all kinds of complexes because of such (and I understand societal pressures and such...particualrly for women) - so its great to see/hear someone with such positve attitudes about themselves! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hye_Acher Posted October 20, 2003 Report Share Posted October 20, 2003 Well?NEITHER Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted October 20, 2003 Report Share Posted October 20, 2003 i prefer armenian- american- best of the two- 100% armenian but raised in america-like me- i dont prefer anyone of a higher status than i, or more different than i- someone at the same level-- that way u get the best of both worlds- but the better half of the armenian culture-depending on the person- but they have to be proud of their culture.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted October 20, 2003 Report Share Posted October 20, 2003 by the way i just noticed that this post was geared towards "husbands" hehe im neither a husband nor a wife-lol- but theres my opinion! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted October 20, 2003 Report Share Posted October 20, 2003 i prefer armenian- american- best of the two- 100% armenian but raised in america-like me- i dont prefer anyone of a higher status than i, or more different than i- someone at the same level-- that way u get the best of both worlds- but the better half of the armenian culture-depending on the person- but they have to be proud of their culture.... OK - understand all of that...but you really should consider that one of the beautiful things about a realtionship is learning and growing...and I think you can often do this more with somone who is substansially different then you (in whatever ways...)...just a thought... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BitterSweet Posted October 20, 2003 Report Share Posted October 20, 2003 Armenian is a must in my book Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted October 20, 2003 Report Share Posted October 20, 2003 Black guys... See the extensive post on this subject for all the angles... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted October 21, 2003 Report Share Posted October 21, 2003 Black guys... See the extensive post on this subject for all the angles... LOL - a bit self serving don't you think? I think the "best" guy or gal...for whoever - is a very personal thing and involves a lot of factors...and much is just circumstance (love the one your with [or who you nave sontact with] sort of thing)...and most of us are probably quite clueless in many ways who might be best for us...we think we know...we might know who we are attracted to (or have categorized - they must be this or that, look like this, be like this...etc)...but that doesn't mean we really know...we often make poor choices and or just don't understand (are not open to/or may be unaware)...etc (make sense?) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted October 21, 2003 Report Share Posted October 21, 2003 THOTH you're right, it's about compatibility, ability to love and understand. Whatever your race, or creed I just wish people would be more open to their feelings and prudent in your choices, so divorces wouldn't be so prevelant. I don't mind ppl doing what they want then they're single, I just wish that marriage could have some meaning again. It seems so shallow these days. So many affairs and divorces, it can be disheartening. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted October 21, 2003 Report Share Posted October 21, 2003 THOTH you're right, it's about compatibility, ability to love and understand. Whatever your race, or creed I just wish people would be more open to their feelings and prudent in your choices, so divorces wouldn't be so prevelant. I don't mind ppl doing what they want then they're single, I just wish that marriage could have some meaning again. It seems so shallow these days. So many affairs and divorces, it can be disheartening. Well yeah...but life is just more complicated these days...and people do change, and shcnage in what they want in life...thought it was one thing...then they figured out they had it wrong (or didn't know what was out there - or whatever)...and thats not always a bad thing...people shouldn't stay together if they aren't happy....But I do think marraige has meaning (for a great many)...but its not like it used to be - and never will be - but (your) life is what you make of it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UKGIRL28 Posted October 23, 2003 Report Share Posted October 23, 2003 Well yeah...but life is just more complicated these days...and people do change, and shcnage in what they want in life...thought it was one thing...then they figured out they had it wrong (or didn't know what was out there - or whatever)...and thats not always a bad thing...people shouldn't stay together if they aren't happy....But I do think marraige has meaning (for a great many)...but its not like it used to be - and never will be - but (your) life is what you make of it... I guess some things change, like you said, pple do change and what they want in life but in the bigger picture, I guess the attitudes, good or bad will always be there conflicting all the time. Marriage is a big thing, (even though Im not married myself yet), it is everywhere in life with your family and friends.. in a world these days where everything is more demanding, i think marriage has changed and a lot of pple rush into it all too quickly without thinking about the complications later, (esp if there are children involved) ..its a shame there are so many divorces out there, its not a good thing for the younger generation to look forward to, is it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted October 23, 2003 Report Share Posted October 23, 2003 Good points UKGIRL. Many folks really don't think it out - but make decisions for the moment...and later find that perhaps they made the wrong one (and its really a shame when those folks have kids...that they probably should never have had)...but it ain't all bad...some people do make it work (and all [succesful] relationships require some give and take and sometime subjugation of personal interests/concerns for the good of the union etc) - and not everyone has what it takes for this (and it often isn't easy...though sometimes its the easiest thing in the world..if one's priorites are in order and they aren't just selfish) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormig Posted October 23, 2003 Report Share Posted October 23, 2003 Phooey... I'm selfish and can't possibly put someone or a "union" before myself... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted October 23, 2003 Report Share Posted October 23, 2003 (edited) Phooey... I'm selfish and can't possibly put someone or a "union" before myself...Well thats right then...what you said is correct...and I guess thats OK - its who you are...or who you are now...but that could change...proper guy, proper circumstances, different point in your life etc...(but maybe not...some can never move past this stage...and they probably shouldn't get married...and certainly not have kids)...though I should also add that I think its is important to be selfish too - at least to a degree...and not to totally subjugate oneself to the will (etc0 of others/live just for others - that sort of thing (like many Amenian mother's do...for instance my own...LOL) And I did say to not be "just" selfish...(for a relationship to work....) Edited October 23, 2003 by THOTH Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UKGIRL28 Posted October 24, 2003 Report Share Posted October 24, 2003 Yeah, there should be a degree of being selfish, not in a relationship - but perhaps in looking after No.1 which is yourself.. controlling your debts for example!! LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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