BitterSweet Posted October 2, 2003 Report Share Posted October 2, 2003 what do you guys think of the female being older than the male in the relationship? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shiner Posted October 2, 2003 Report Share Posted October 2, 2003 I think it's cool!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sasun Posted October 2, 2003 Report Share Posted October 2, 2003 There are some advantages. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted October 2, 2003 Report Share Posted October 2, 2003 I think more girls should give younger guys a chance. I'm locked up now to a great girl younger than me, but I can find younger girls shockingly dim-witted, and appreciate some older and calmer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted October 2, 2003 Report Share Posted October 2, 2003 Bittersweet - I think it can work really well (and is an increasing trend according to a news stroy I just read a few days ago). When i was younger I nearly always dated gals who were older then I (some of this was for reasons that Sev-Mard mentions...). I felt that older women were generally much more together and sure what they wanted etc...(well ussualy this meant that they were in their mid-late 20s when I was in my late teens/early 20s...though once I dated a gal who was 42...when I was 25). It was also good for me learning how to treat a women right and please her etc (yeah - they "trained" me...LOL - true...) ...valuable lessons that have done me well throughout my life... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BitterSweet Posted October 3, 2003 Author Report Share Posted October 3, 2003 Thoth,from your story... it didn't work at all... she was your "teacher" and you were her student... that's not I call a relationship lol so to make things more clear, why do you all think it could work? does age really matter? are females really tooo mature for younger guys? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted October 3, 2003 Report Share Posted October 3, 2003 Thoth,from your story... it didn't work at all... she was your "teacher" and you were her student... that's not I call a relationship lol so to make things more clear, why do you all think it could work? does age really matter? are females really tooo mature for younger guys? No - you are very wrong....and we were together for a long time (on and off for a time...but still) - and I loved her very much and we had a great/fun relationship...the "teaching" was all in the sexual arena...how to please and treat a women (and there i did learn well....). The reasons why it ultimatly didn't work - if thats the word - were many. One is that she was not interested (or perhaps even able) to have children...and I was getting to the stage of being interested in such (and perhaps settling down etc)...secondly - our relationship was long lasting - but on and off again...and while we were still seeing each other - after many years - we also were both seeing others - and I eventually met someone that I wanted to be more exclusive with...so I (again) broke it off were her. But we had a great relationship - and in general - I see no problem at all with younger guys and older gals...and though there are always issues when one dates someone with major age differences - I do not think that they are at all insurmountable - and in fact both parties can gain some perspective thropugh such... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azat Posted October 5, 2003 Report Share Posted October 5, 2003 how to please and treat a women So it was an older woman who had to teach you how to treat and please a woman? I did not need an older woman, I learned early that the best way to treat and please women is by giving them all the money you have so they can go shopping. (just kidding, just kidding) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted November 27, 2003 Report Share Posted November 27, 2003 There are some advantages. What are those advantages? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheekY Posted November 27, 2003 Report Share Posted November 27, 2003 he will worship you and do whatever you want him to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sasun Posted November 28, 2003 Report Share Posted November 28, 2003 What are those advantages? I won't tell you, its a secret Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted November 28, 2003 Report Share Posted November 28, 2003 I won't tell you, its a secret No problem, I'll find out sooner or later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sasun Posted November 28, 2003 Report Share Posted November 28, 2003 No problem, I'll find out sooner or later. I wonder how You seem like an investigative girl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted November 28, 2003 Report Share Posted November 28, 2003 I wonder how You seem like an investigative girl Don't you forget it too!! I have my ways of finding out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sasun Posted November 28, 2003 Report Share Posted November 28, 2003 Don't you forget it too!! I have my ways of finding out. Its good that you told me that, I will take EXTRA measures to protect my information Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted November 28, 2003 Report Share Posted November 28, 2003 Its good that you told me that, I will take EXTRA measures to protect my information But how do you know it's not part of my master plan, for you to think you have everything under control... But BAM, I find out as soon as you least expect it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sasun Posted November 28, 2003 Report Share Posted November 28, 2003 But how do you know it's not part of my master plan, for you to think you have everything under control... But BAM, I find out as soon as you least expect it. OK, you just told me your plan. I will always most expect you to find out therefore there won't be a time when I least expect you to find out, so you won't find out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted November 28, 2003 Report Share Posted November 28, 2003 OK, you just told me your plan. I will always most expect you to find out therefore there won't be a time when I least expect you to find out, so you won't find out How do you know thats my plan. Time will tell.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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