kakachik77 Posted August 12, 2004 Report Share Posted August 12, 2004 Well, one of my favorite topics...can the weaker sex make the first move, be more proactive, ask the guy out....or do we still live in the middle ages where courting or chasing a female is the norm. Do you men lose interest instantly in a female when she asks you out because you think well if she asked me out that means she definately wants to sleep with me hence she is conquered goods hence no interest or desire for me to be with her. Both genders give me very different answers about this topic partly depending on the age group, partly on culture...so I am curious to raise this issue here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted August 12, 2004 Report Share Posted August 12, 2004 Seems like we've discussed this before... Anyway - my take on this is that it was alwas a big turn on when the gal made the first move....and this can be from asking out - to first kiss or intimate contact - to initiating/suggesting sex....my take/experience anyway....so yeah - I'm all for it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armen Posted August 12, 2004 Report Share Posted August 12, 2004 (edited) I like the situation when no one makes the first move. Or later you don't remember who made the first move. And that basically means that the couple were realy attracted to each other. Edited August 12, 2004 by ArmenSarg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted August 12, 2004 Report Share Posted August 12, 2004 When done well, and in a "womanly" fashion the girl making her feelings known is very sexy and alluring. I'm talking eye action, and even approaching a guy but with a hamest nature and a cute confidence is great. But I will agree and say that if you come on to a guy like you want sleep with him, he will turn on his "pimp" mode and that's what you're in for. But I think girls can definately show interest and even approach men if done with class and confidence. I can definately respect that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamavor Posted August 12, 2004 Report Share Posted August 12, 2004 (edited) And that basically means that the couple were real attracted to each other. Experience talks... On the other hand I think psychologicaly men can better handle the "NO" answer. Imagine a situation where not that attractive girl approaches you and you say NO, then she says "Are you gay?" and you say: "NO, I'm just aesthetic!", or "NO, because you are ugly!" I would rather not be in such miserable situation, although it happened once or twice.... Edited August 12, 2004 by gamavor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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