Sip Posted February 19, 2004 Report Share Posted February 19, 2004 ... And Sip - think about this - most gals could probably get a guy for every hour of the day Some gals yah. Most gals ... I highly doubt it. Well, maybe they can get "a guy" as I am sure there are some quite pathetic and desparate ones out there too ... but I don't think that is a very desirable situation for those girls. But I do hear you on how the fun factor can be different for a guy than a girl. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nairi Posted February 19, 2004 Author Report Share Posted February 19, 2004 I hate being used for sexual gratification when in the end it sounds like the girl did a favor to the guy. But what if she used you to do herself a favor? Would you still hate it or feel used? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted February 24, 2004 Report Share Posted February 24, 2004 But what if she used you to do herself a favor? Would you still hate it or feel used? Depends on the guy once again. A truly nice cat, who's attempted to have a heartfelt relationship would be hurt. But I think this happens less becuase truth be told, many men are looking to 'use' a girl quicker, and more often than vice versa. So I'd have to say the occurence of a woman 'truly' using and dumping a man aren't as numerous. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymouse Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 depends on where you were putting it I imagine...and related factors*....(but I think if we go much further on this topic we may need to post in a more clubby Armenian forum eh?) LOL And Sip - think about this - most gals could probably get a guy for every hour of the day - I mean think about it really...I mean if they wanted to...could you or I do the same? So yeah - it is special perhaps that she "chose" you for her "favors"...you need a little more proper reverence for the goddess...we all do IMO.... * and also if you at all undersrtand female gratification it just doesn't at all work like a guys (wel ussually not...except in some very specail cases!)...and yes it is in fact not only very much possible - but common for this to thbe the situation (guy gets off & gal does not)...for a whole variety of factors (most of which yu could probably take the "blame" for)....lol Speak for yourself sir Some of us can get a woman anytime we please so technically they'd be the ones that should worship us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 im sorry but thats really sick, no one should be worshiping anyone else...that disgusts me-sorry- no offense...thats waht im saying- all men only think about one thing in general--which can be good and bad... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyebruin Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 this thread is pathetic!! no point to it whatsoever!! so shallow to sit there and wonder who's using who!!! sometimes you guys--you MEN!! really disgust me!! REALLY!!! <_< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 (edited) reality check... SEX doesnt equal POWER...so get over it...anyone can do it anytime with anyone anywhere, but some poeple choose to be prmoiscuous and some dont...some have values and some obviously dont--in general terms-not referring to anyone. Edited February 25, 2004 by angel4hope Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 Speak for yourself sir Some of us can get a woman anytime we please so technically they'd be the ones that should worship us. Yes, I've heard about guys like you!!! The once that go to sunset with a 20 doller bill in their pocket!!! But do you really think that counts!!?? Males and females view sex differently. Most females need to care about someone before having sex with them. But unfortunately most males would have sex with anything that is willing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 this thread is pathetic!! no point to it whatsoever!! so shallow to sit there and wonder who's using who!!! sometimes you guys--you MEN!! really disgust me!! REALLY!!! <_< So in other words you think guys are ALWAYS the ones doing the using? ... read as girls always the poor defenseless victim (pray?) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 So in other words you think guys are ALWAYS the ones doing the using? ... read as girls always the poor defenseless victim (pray?) Nobody said anything about the female being the victim. It takes two to tango. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 Nobody said anything about the female being the victim. I thought that's what bruin was saying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 Yes, I've heard about guys like you!!! The once that go to sunset with a 20 doller bill in their pocket!!! But do you really think that counts!!?? Males and females view sex differently. Most females need to care about someone before having sex with them. But unfortunately most males would have sex with anything that is willing. I would just like to make sure we understand and stress the words MOST in extra's post some guys need to care before sex also.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 ... some guys need to care before sex also.. gays? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 gays? negative, not gays. I meant guys, extra said :most females need to care about someone before having sex- And i added that some guys do also.. lol.. where u get "gay" from... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Accelerated Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 Sip, you sound so gay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 ... And i added that some guys do also.. lol.. where u get "gay" from... I was trying to figure out what type of a guy would turn down sex because "he didn't care". The only answer I could think of is maybe gay guys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyebruin Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 So in other words you think guys are ALWAYS the ones doing the using? ... read as girls always the poor defenseless victim (pray?) heck no!! women do a lot of using too but usually this is NOT the case!! more men are opportunistic parasites than women...hmmm ...guess this is the generation of heartless lovers...all about the thrill and the fun...yet people go home empty, cheap, and unfulfilled on another more soul gratifying level... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyebruin Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 I was trying to figure out what type of a guy would turn down sex because "he didn't care". The only answer I could think of is maybe gay guys. are you trying to come off as some kind of a hot casanova?? i've got news for you sip!! that kind of attitude will only attract naive immature girls...really i had such a different opinion about you...waaaaayyyy back...seems like the # of users is growing exponentially like bacteria in a petri dish!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 You seem to misunderstand what I am trying to say. To guys, sex is not as big a deal as it is to girls. It's a fun thing ... not too many guys would turn down no-strings attached sex no matter what kind of a front they put up to attract girls (as you pointed out). Would I prefer to have sex with someone I truelly care about? Of course. Would I turn down sex if a hot chick came knocking on my door right now? Probably not. This is why girls can also use guys. They can use the power of sex to use guys for their own benefit. This is why I don't think this topic is pathetic at all. There is a power struggle ... guys have their own ways to take advantage and girls have their own. In the end, if there was no benefit to one side over the other, then relationships would hardly ever form between the different sexes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SALTnPEPA92 Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 Have I ever felt used? I would have to say friends have used me during the good times, you know never been there for me for bad times, after not being friends with them i realized i was being used, it's funny it's like friendship is blind like love is blind sometimes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 Have I ever felt used? I would have to say friends have used me during the good times, you know never been there for me for bad times, after not being friends with them i realized i was being used, it's funny it's like friendship is blind like love is blind sometimes yes, like i said above, i have felt used in a friendship.. it sucks! but eh.. it also ends it... there loss, not mine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted February 25, 2004 Report Share Posted February 25, 2004 I was trying to figure out what type of a guy would turn down sex because "he didn't care". The only answer I could think of is maybe gay guys. because he didnt care?? no, i dont think that is relevent... caring about sex.. if u r a guy and u truly do not care about sex, then there must be some chemical malfunctinon in your body.. But, my point was that guys actually can and do care for girls, before sex... infact in my case, sex after marriage.. then i must be caring to her.. right?? lol... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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