mx5 Posted April 13, 2004 Report Share Posted April 13, 2004 (edited) Ive been married for 16 years now,my wife is a very beutiful and good looking women,I know she loves me as much as I love her but ,damn ,sometimes I feel that I realy need to restore my self confidance,I want to know if I still got the charm to attract her,so sometimes I put myself into a test,like inducing a female to look at me(the more beutiful the better) or even make her smile!! but never crossing the fine line !! I know it sounds crazy,but than, that's how men are.. Edited April 13, 2004 by mx5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koko Posted April 13, 2004 Report Share Posted April 13, 2004 (edited) well, good for you! Everyone is different, meaning they have different needs, not every men is like that...<_< Edited April 13, 2004 by koko Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted April 13, 2004 Report Share Posted April 13, 2004 I know it sounds crazy,but than, that's how men are.. thats maybe how some men are, or most.. but dont speak for all of us please Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mx5 Posted April 13, 2004 Report Share Posted April 13, 2004 (edited) thats maybe how some men are, or most.. but dont speak for all of us please sorry, sure, why not,you could be an exception ..or may be there are others too..I didnt know your manhood would be hurt..my appologies again. I was answering to the question why married men look at another women..sorry again if i hurt your feeling. I sure know that most (please notice the word "most")men will not just cross the fine line but even a thick barriers for their "needs"... may be I am the exception here..or may be not for a long time who knows!! Edited April 13, 2004 by mx5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted April 13, 2004 Report Share Posted April 13, 2004 sorry, sure, why not,you could be an exception ..or may be there are others too..I didnt know your manhood would be hurt..my appologies again. I was answering to the question why married men look at another women..sorry again if i hurt your feeling. I sure know that most (please notice the word "most")men will not just cross the fine line but even a thick barriers for their "needs"... may be I am the exception here..or may be not for a long time who knows!! oh no aper jan.. havent hurt my feelings.. lol.. jsut a general statement i understand.. whats this talk about "maybe i wont be the exception for too long"" whats on your mind there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mx5 Posted April 13, 2004 Report Share Posted April 13, 2004 oh no aper jan.. havent hurt my feelings.. lol.. jsut a general statement i understand.. whats this talk about "maybe i wont be the exception for too long"" whats on your mind there gevo jan temtations are too strong!! Im afraid I would succumb to it one day. But not before my wife retiers from active duty(my estimation 30 years!!). or, who knows may be I retier before she does !!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koko Posted April 13, 2004 Report Share Posted April 13, 2004 (edited) what are you saying, that you'd cheat on her after 30 years? *confused* Edited April 13, 2004 by koko Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted April 13, 2004 Report Share Posted April 13, 2004 gevo jan temtations are too strong!! Im afraid I would succumb to it one day. But not before my wife retiers from active duty(my estimation 30 years!!). or, who knows may be I retier before she does !!!! Correct me if I'm wrong!! You would give in to "temptation" just because it's too strong???? Forgetting all the precious time you've spent with your wife? All the lovely memories???? All the love you've both shared??? All just because its hard to give in to temptation??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mx5 Posted April 13, 2004 Report Share Posted April 13, 2004 what are you saying, that you'd cheat on her after 30 years? *confused* give me a break will you ?I cant satisfy both koko and gevo at the same time,nor i have the intention to.. read my next post.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mx5 Posted April 13, 2004 Report Share Posted April 13, 2004 (edited) Correct me if I'm wrong!! You would give in to "temptation" just because it's too strong???? Forgetting all the precious time you've spent with your wife? All the lovely memories???? All the love you've both shared??? All just because its hard to give in to temptation??? honestly I will not become the prisoner of what statement i made above there,it was most part a sarcastic joke,a joke not with you guys and girls but a joke with my wife as she was beside me when I was typing the above post. when i asked her when she expects that I might cheat on her so that i type it here,her astimation was 25 years but ive added 5 more from my side!!. in married people language ( at least in ours)it means will never take place such a thing as cheating. hyebruin,yes you are wrong,we are not just another married couple , we are so intimate and candid that the days of hurting each other by mere jokes are long gone.I know how much she cares for me and loves me ,and she also knows how much i love and care for her,yes even a bit more than my Roadster car!!( sorry another jock). we discuss every imaginable subject between two of us , no taboos at all , as much so that we dont feel the need to discuss our personal lives with others. trust is the magic word. conclusion pals ,no I dont expect that I will cheat on her not in 30 years nor as long as i live, at least not without her consent or permission( yet another joke!!) Edited April 13, 2004 by mx5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted April 13, 2004 Report Share Posted April 13, 2004 Very well said mx5, Trust is very important in a relationship. Marriage would never be the same once that trust has been tainted. Love is very difficult to come by this days, you need to treasure it with your life sense it's a very precious. It's not worth to cheat on your significant other, knowing full well that you will get caught one day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gurgen Posted April 14, 2004 Report Share Posted April 14, 2004 People here have a lot of trouble understanding humour mx5, also in a lot of other threads Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted April 14, 2004 Report Share Posted April 14, 2004 People here have a lot of trouble understanding humour mx5, also in a lot of other threads Where you talking about me??? How would I k now, it's not in the humor section. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mx5 Posted April 15, 2004 Report Share Posted April 15, 2004 Very well said mx5, Trust is very important in a relationship. Marriage would never be the same once that trust has been tainted. Love is very difficult to come by this days, you need to treasure it with your life sense it's a very precious. It's not worth to cheat on your significant other, knowing full well that you will get caught one day. this is not the reason why I dont cheat,if I wanted to,believe me I will never get cought!!! you should know couple of things about marriage before you commit yourself to it: that your life will change in a dramatic way,that you cannot act after marriage as if though you are still single,you have to adopt yourself to a new lifestyle. still the real change comes after having kids,while the wife is taking care of children the husband will feel abandoned by her,sometimes will even feel nostalgic to the single old days!!many will make this as an excuse to cheat.. as for me, to get over this feeling I compelled myself to help my wife in feeding our son and changing diapers!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mx5 Posted April 15, 2004 Report Share Posted April 15, 2004 People here have a lot of trouble understanding humour mx5, also in a lot of other threads yes qurquen you are right, I wonder where has that famous Armenian sense of humor gone, may be in the labyrints of Uncle Sam!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gurgen Posted April 15, 2004 Report Share Posted April 15, 2004 Where you talking about me??? How would I k now, it's not in the humor section. Nah, not about you Extra jan don't worry. I was talking about people who miss the most obvious clues of irony and sarcasm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted April 22, 2004 Report Share Posted April 22, 2004 Would you cheat on your other half knowing full well you would never get caught? Or would your conusance get in the way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted April 22, 2004 Report Share Posted April 22, 2004 (edited) Would you cheat on your other half knowing full well you would never get caught? Or would your conusance get in the way. NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Edited April 22, 2004 by gevo27 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gurgen Posted April 22, 2004 Report Share Posted April 22, 2004 I think my conscience would start to nag me after a while. Not worth it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valantina Posted May 10, 2004 Report Share Posted May 10, 2004 the only 'good excuse' would be if he was abducted by aliens and was "ordered to perform!!!" ....or if a gargantuous sized woman jumped him, scared him, sat on him, squeezed the life out of him, and took advantage of him ....until then off to the curb with his naked a$$ and his burning clothes.... hey, girls, don't know about y'all, but i'm having so much fun....aaah, that would be appropriate punishment! just the thought!!! of finding a 700 lb'er and have her sit on him!!! oh the joy and the fun... .... Ummmmmmmmm im already loving the thought LOOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valantina Posted May 10, 2004 Report Share Posted May 10, 2004 What makes men and women cheat on their other half? - loosing interest <_< - not been treated the way they should be - lack of respect - not paying attention to the partner - not fulfilling the needs - .... so many more... those things can push the partner to cheat <_< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DreamMaster69 Posted February 28, 2005 Report Share Posted February 28, 2005 - loosing interest <_< - not been treated the way they should be - lack of respect - not paying attention to the partner - not fulfilling the needs - .... so many more... those things can push the partner to cheat <_< style_images/master/snapback.png * Not renewing their relationship, like experimenting in Bed But face it .... we may talk all night that people are monogues, but we are NOT ! Men are drawn to "spreading their seed" and women are drawn to "new Lions". Its actually not that "un-natual" as most people think. I would say its actually un-natural to be with only one all life. I know, its properly a set-back when Im old and gray, but hey, man wasent build to be that old in the first place. Its not that many years ago that man only became about 40 years old ..... Tops ! and at that time, 10-20 years with the same partner was something you could endure when you knew you died after that. So ... go do your thing(s), enjoy life, sex, your partner(s). Forgive if your partner "cheats" ... its really not that bad after all. He/she dident kill anybody or stole from somebody ... its just sex and it was mostly like over after 3 min or an hour. Trust me, by forgiving and forgetting, you will both have a happier life and the "cheating" will not happen that often and the risk the partner is taken will not be that interesting. It can all be fixed by TALKING and AGREEING about new rules. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kakachik77 Posted February 28, 2005 Report Share Posted February 28, 2005 I hate this issue of cheating when I have a serious boyfriend I start missing some of the men in my past and start wanting them again, when I don't have a boyfriend and have the freedom to do whatever I start feeling lonely and yearning for intimacy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted February 28, 2005 Report Share Posted February 28, 2005 happen that often and the risk the partner is taken will not be that interesting. It can all be fixed by TALKING and AGREEING about new rules. style_images/master/snapback.png You made some interesting points, but I feel that you may be receiving a backlash... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
armjan Posted February 28, 2005 Report Share Posted February 28, 2005 (edited) I hate this issue of cheating when I have a serious boyfriend I start missing some of the men in my past and start wanting them again, when I don't have a boyfriend and have the freedom to do whatever I start feeling lonely and yearning for intimacy. style_images/master/snapback.png that's interesting. when i am with a girl, I don't think about other girls, i think about the one i am with. i mean sure i see other attractive girls, but i think of all the ways i can make things better with the one i am with now. as far as cheating, I would probably be very upset and disappointed, but i would never spend any time with a girl that cheated over me. once it's over, i am over her. luckly i have not had this kind of experience thus far. but u know, if she really thinks the grass is better on the other side, then let her go, why would you wanna spend time with someone who is careless with your feelings! Edited February 28, 2005 by armjan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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