DreamMaster69

Oh .... Im sorry, my bad. I thought this was a discussionboard, but I guess it more like a message board where you state something to never return. Next time I will post my messages under non-relevant topics instead if that would please you more

I would seem so, wouldent it. well, I actually have had many serious relationships and a very long lasting marriage with a very fun and open minded woman too. I love this woman very much and she loves me, but we do not nesesary confuse love with lust, but it took us 15 years to realise that.

well, you seem to have a pretty "pure" attitude, so my guess is that you are not the first one to be invited those places ... and good for you as you seem content with your way of life. The "guily" part, you learn to live with if you dont make an arrangement with your partner and she is game .... many actually are ! As for "prostitutes are dirty/skanky .... well, some poor souls are. The street corner girls or drug addict. They do it for pure survival alone. BUT .. before you judge, please know that there are many prostitutes that doesent do it for survival alone, but as a way of making extra money alone. Now, im NOT saying they all do it for fun alone and they are all the *happy hookers*, but they are certainly making ALOT more than a highly paid civil-cervant or officejob and they have come to depend on the money. Work 10 hours a day in a crappy officejob or 3-4 hours hooking, getting to meet new people every day and make 3-4 times the money. Please remember too, that some of these girls are not allways the best educated and they may not have had the support or way at their home that you and I had. Know too, that many of the "girls" I have meet in Yerevan, is girls from college / university that are doing this while they study in order to get a degree and maybe have a chance in life later. we all make choices, but others dont need to condem

Sorry about that Dude ;-) however, I havent "spilled" all the excuses I have heard ... so there is plenty left ;-)

No problem ... ill try to remember otherwise im dead ;-)

Nothing wrong with a cold shower. Well, fact is that if you can have cookies all you want, eventually you will get tired of it and either dont eat them or just go for the big cake once in a while. Your right that if there was nothing to it, it would be calléd "cheating" and thats just my point. As for my girl-friendS ... Ill gladly introduce you and if they love me for that, what have I lost ? ;-)

Cheating has usally noting to with "hurting" or "carelesness" toward other people. Its usally a selfish reaction / emotion / need that tricker a respons or attraction to others. Thats why every "cheater" makes great effort to hide from their partner. Sure, that can be neclect and so on involved too, but usally its excitement and temporary phycical/mental attraction that is the deciding factor of cheating.

ha.ha ... I think you right ;-) Im getting ready for a beating ;-)

* Not renewing their relationship, like experimenting in Bed But face it .... we may talk all night that people are monogues, but we are NOT ! Men are drawn to "spreading their seed" and women are drawn to "new Lions". Its actually not that "un-natual" as most people think. I would say its actually un-natural to be with only one all life. I know, its properly a set-back when Im old and gray, but hey, man wasent build to be that old in the first place. Its not that many years ago that man only became about 40 years old ..... Tops ! and at that time, 10-20 years with the same partner was something you could endure when you knew you died after that. So ... go do your thing(s), enjoy life, sex, your partner(s). Forgive if your partner "cheats" ... its really not that bad after all. He/she dident kill anybody or stole from somebody ... its just sex and it was mostly like over after 3 min or an hour. Trust me, by forgiving and forgetting, you will both have a happier life and the "cheating" will not happen that often and the risk the partner is taken will not be that interesting. It can all be fixed by TALKING and AGREEING about new rules.

ha,ha ..... first, Armenian is NOT a race ... its a people. If you all intermarry, you will get funny kids and your people will be even more in danger. Trust me, look in your local villages where cousin has married cousin. Some of their kids can hardly see straight, are very strange looking and when they have a headache, its not the IQ that is pressuring. Its not an Armanian thing alone. It happens in lots of local towns/countries. Even in the USA. Look at the "Hill Billies" in the mountain area. So please, go travel and marry. Bring some fresh blood into the family and your family/people will prevail much, much longer than if you marry a local/cousin.

No worries .... go flirt and if you like, go get laid too. I bet you ...... you man would do it in a second if he had the chance and he has most likely allready done so. So ... spread the "joy" if you like ;-)

NOPE ..... trust me ! You can be 99.9% sure that your man will cheat on you. In my many travels to Armenia, I have NEVER ONCE had a business meeting where I HAVENT been invited, by Armanian men, to a Sauna club with prostitutes, Strip clubs with prostitutes or asked to go to my hotel room where we could order some prostitute. I was actually pretty surprise the first time, but it never fails. When ever we go some place, especially saunaclubs, I can tell that they have all been there several times before and know the rules/game and this is fare from their first visit. Most of the men has regulary girls they meet such place and they bring their girlfriends when the Armenian man has company. All it takes is a phonecall. I have been to fine dinning at many Armenian homes and after dinner they most often "excuse" themself by telling the wife that they want to go to a bar and have a drink with me, show me some local stuff .... and suddenly we are in a cap to "one of those places"..... it never fails. I have seen "inter-office" affairs like in no other country. So trust me ..... you man will have fun on the side, so why shouldent you ? At the same time, the men tells me .... they could never marry a "non-virgin" woman and I have had many fun dicussions about this where the men usally ends up telling me that "I dont understand their culture" and a woman is a slut if she has sex before marrige ...... 10 min after this or before, they are "banging" some woman like they never had their wife. What gets me too, Armenian women, Girlfriends as prostitute, often doesent want to do oral sex on a man, because that is dirty, but she recieves it very well as very natural. When it comes to sex ...... you guys amuses me. Besides that, I think you great people and very very friendly.

Make more than USD 150 a month : + 10000 Can take you out Armenia to a western country : + 10000 Will not be unfaithfull to you the 2nd day of marriage : +10000 Can provide for your family too : +10000