BitterSweet Posted September 4, 2003 Author Report Share Posted September 4, 2003 obviously I was/ still am a little confused. why do you think I was seeking for your ideas/thoughts/opinions? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Accelerated Posted September 4, 2003 Report Share Posted September 4, 2003 his self esteem is way in the air. you (women) sure are confused....one minute their talkin about a guy being confident as essential, and then you get this.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted September 4, 2003 Report Share Posted September 4, 2003 hey sip, if you leave out all those "off's" then that's one lucky bastard there!!! (in terms of guy talk/perspective) of course!! LOL - bruin - you said it! What makes you such a expert on the male of the species I wonder? LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted September 4, 2003 Report Share Posted September 4, 2003 BitterSweet - I think you should trust your instincts. And I think you made the right choice. Obviously you had an attraction for hiom - but sometimes people we are attracted to are not good/best for us - and I think you are comming to this realization - that these type of macho/egotistical/whatever attitudes he is exhibiting are not what you really want in a guy (and I think you are on the right path)...so don't go back to him...he would take you for granted and such anyway if you did. If he is really interested -- and interested in you - he will make the move/take the effort and he will have to prove that he cares for you...you shouldn't settle for anything less.. Good Luck! ...and welcome to the forum... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted September 4, 2003 Report Share Posted September 4, 2003 you (women) sure are confused....one minute their talkin about a guy being confident as essential, and then you get this.... Actaully - there should be nothing wrong with either of these things - as long as his love in scincere and he knows how to treat a lady (which for one thing is being able to put her and her needs over his self-esteem and other concerns such as thins) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
America-Hye Posted September 4, 2003 Report Share Posted September 4, 2003 Bittersweet, Thank you for responding to my question. You are TOTALLY justified in your decision. A long term relationship with this guy would not have worked out for you. These arrogant types are not always what they seem to be on the surface.I once shared an apartment with such a person. EVERY female he met fell at his feet, since he was a football star, extemely handsome and a scion of one of America's well-known industrial families. A "Little Black Book of Los Angeles 100 Most Eligible Men" published in the early 1980s and now out of print, stated that when he walked into the interview room of the group of women assembled to interview the potential listees, they all "melted. I was there to experience what transpired behind the scenes. Yes, he was dating and sleeping with beautiful women and models from all over LA. But he was also sleeping with his workout buddies. Although I was dating an odar woman at the time, he made numerous advances at me as well, knowing that I was also ambivalent. Best of luck to you bittersweet and hopefully you will find a true mate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boghos Posted September 4, 2003 Report Share Posted September 4, 2003 Bittersweet, Thank you for responding to my question. You are TOTALLY justified in your decision. A long term relationship with this guy would not have worked out for you. These arrogant types are not always what they seem to be on the surface.I once shared an apartment with such a person. EVERY female he met fell at his feet, since he was a football star, extemely handsome and a scion of one of America's well-known industrial families. A "Little Black Book of Los Angeles 100 Most Eligible Men" published in the early 1980s and now out of print, stated that when he walked into the interview room of the group of women assembled to interview the potential listees, they all "melted. I was there to experience what transpired behind the scenes. Yes, he was dating and sleeping with beautiful women and models from all over LA. But he was also sleeping with his workout buddies. Although I was dating an odar woman at the time, he made numerous advances at me as well, knowing that I was also ambivalent. Best of luck to you bittersweet and hopefully you will find a true mate. So, when is the next chapter going to be published ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted September 4, 2003 Report Share Posted September 4, 2003 Yes Boghos - true Hollywood mini-series material eh? Guess its just like that sometimes...sure glad to not be traveling/living in A-H's circut however...could drive one nuts me thinks... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boghos Posted September 4, 2003 Report Share Posted September 4, 2003 (edited) I am curious to know if there was an offspring from such a relationship between two superpersons...keep tuned...I have a feeling that some earth shattering revelations are about to appear... Edited September 4, 2003 by Boghos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
America-Hye Posted September 4, 2003 Report Share Posted September 4, 2003 Boghos, This individual has been married for a number of years and has produced two children with is wife. I eventually married an Armenian woman from a well-known Armenian Republican family. Unfortunately this Armenian princess aborted not only the two children I impregnated her with but the two pregnancies from her first blond, Anglo odar husband. So I am seeking a younger woman, definitely ODAR in my relatively old age so that I will not leave this earth without progeny. You claim that I am so full of myself, but I am only amirror image of you Boghos, "fils a Papa." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyebruin Posted September 4, 2003 Report Share Posted September 4, 2003 BitterSweet - I think you should trust your instincts. And I think you made the right choice. Obviously you had an attraction for hiom - but sometimes people we are attracted to are not good/best for us - and I think you are comming to this realization - that these type of macho/egotistical/whatever attitudes he is exhibiting are not what you really want in a guy (and I think you are on the right path)...so don't go back to him...he would take you for granted and such anyway if you did. If he is really interested -- and interested in you - he will make the move/take the effort and he will have to prove that he cares for you...you shouldn't settle for anything less.. Good Luck! ...and welcome to the forum... amen to that!!! no crawling back now, girl! promise .... if a guy is not putting in the effort to care for YOU and to give YOU attention and to try to satisfy YOUR needs...then screw him!! (not literally ...unless you're blessed with the "no attachment gene" usually found on the Y chromosome--and been known to exist on the short arm of some mutated X chromosomes ) ....anyways, all humor aside, guys are just walking dicks and some of them can't even walk properly!!! ~~~~if you treat yourself like you were a queen, eventually some of the more smarter guys will follow your lead ~~~~ good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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BitterSweet Posted September 5, 2003 Author Report Share Posted September 5, 2003 BitterSweet - I think you should trust your instincts. And I think you made the right choice. Obviously you had an attraction for hiom - but sometimes people we are attracted to are not good/best for us - and I think you are comming to this realization - that these type of macho/egotistical/whatever attitudes he is exhibiting are not what you really want in a guy (and I think you are on the right path)...so don't go back to him...he would take you for granted and such anyway if you did. If he is really interested -- and interested in you - he will make the move/take the effort and he will have to prove that he cares for you...you shouldn't settle for anything less.. Good Luck! ...and welcome to the forum... I couldn't agree with you more. Thank you, everyone, for the sincere advice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Accelerated Posted September 5, 2003 Report Share Posted September 5, 2003 hagarag, your every second post mentions your ex-wife, boyfriends/girlfriends etc. we've had enough......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boghos Posted September 5, 2003 Report Share Posted September 5, 2003 (edited) I have seen the light my friend. Just by learning and repeating haragag´s life story (or maybe something that comes from his imagination, call it hallucination if you will) we become better individuals, better Armenians. Edited September 5, 2003 by Boghos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted September 5, 2003 Report Share Posted September 5, 2003 Your very welcome BitterSweet...now when will you be changing your moniker - perhaps to LovinglyFulfilled or some such...LOL (we will be anxiously awaiting...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted September 5, 2003 Report Share Posted September 5, 2003 ... now when will you be changing your moniker - perhaps to LovinglyFulfilled or some such...LOL (we will be anxiously awaiting...) May I suggest 10101010 ... as in I want him, I want him not, I want him, I want him not and so forth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted September 5, 2003 Report Share Posted September 5, 2003 Referring to our other current topic , I am willing to guess that the guy got laid off his job, but then got rehired at a better job, but now again is laid off.hey sip, if you leave out all those "off's" then that's one lucky bastard there!!! (in terms of guy talk/perspective) of course!! ... anyways, all humor aside, guys are just walking dicks and some of them can't even walk properly!!!Absolutely scary how your mind works! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
America-Hye Posted September 5, 2003 Report Share Posted September 5, 2003 Boghos and Accelerated, We have had to tolerate both of your jackass views in this forum from before I started to post here. How many times have I seen you, Accelerated, being called "Jughead?" Hey, Boghos, no hallucination here. You just live like a bourgeoisie traditional Armenian donkey with your blinders on. Unfortunately, due to people like you I can not give names, yet I have seen his all with my own eyes. Who would have believed me just a few years back that I was violated as a young child by our parish priest? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
America-Hye Posted September 5, 2003 Report Share Posted September 5, 2003 We know that Hyebruin is VERY attractive. VERY attractive Armenian girls have swell heads that are 20 times the size of their bodies. So realize that is where her comments are coming from. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted September 5, 2003 Report Share Posted September 5, 2003 A-H - Chill out a bit (particualarly about 'Bruin - I fail to at all see how her comments warrent yours...) I for one don't mind your input here - though sometimes it gets a bit old/repetative and I can see why others are sayinng "not more of this again" etc...and even you yourself basically admit that you have some issues...still I would caution not to generalize over much and also to be aware that many of your comments may come accross as somewhat bizare to many/most. Other then that i quite enjoy most of your commentary (on a variety of levels...can't say I am always laughing with you per se...LOL)...and no one is perfect and we aren't all going to see eye to eye on all things (no big deal)...granted Still, I would please ask that you apologize to hyebruin. To me her comments (and delivery) are generally a hoot - and while she certainly reflects a certain viewpoint (and I for one am very sorry to see such negativity about romance in general [and seemingly in her case specific] and concerning the male of the species - at least some/much of it is pretty understandable (even you should agree with me on this one...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boghos Posted September 5, 2003 Report Share Posted September 5, 2003 Boghos and Accelerated, We have had to tolerate both of your jackass views in this forum from before I started to post here. How many times have I seen you, Accelerated, being called "Jughead?" Hey, Boghos, no hallucination here. You just live like a bourgeoisie traditional Armenian donkey with your blinders on. Unfortunately, due to people like you I can not give names, yet I have seen his all with my own eyes. Who would have believed me just a few years back that I was violated as a young child by our parish priest? Hagarag, Find help while it is still time. Try to keep your life private however shocking it might be. I doubt most people are interested in hearing your nonsense being forever repeated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boghos Posted September 5, 2003 Report Share Posted September 5, 2003 (edited) Boghos and Accelerated, We have had to tolerate both of your jackass views in this forum from before I started to post here. How many times have I seen you, Accelerated, being called "Jughead?" Hey, Boghos, no hallucination here. You just live like a bourgeoisie traditional Armenian donkey with your blinders on. Unfortunately, due to people like you I can not give names, yet I have seen his all with my own eyes. Who would have believed me just a few years back that I was violated as a young child by our parish priest?Oh, and by the way you seem to continue to be under hallucinations. You say "we" have had to tolerate "your jackass" views even before "I" (I am not sure to which one of your multiple personalities you are refering to) started posting. You are deprived of the most basic logic. Where is the Christian spirit you preach ? tolerance ? You want everybody to feel sorry for you ? Is that it ? Last time I looked this place is called HyeForum, not PsychoForum. Edited September 5, 2003 by Boghos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted September 5, 2003 Report Share Posted September 5, 2003 Ladies and gentlemen, please ... I kinda like this thread so please don't make us remove it out of public view.... and to America-hye's defense, if what he says doesn't personally offend anyone, then I think he has every right to say it. I think we are mostly adults here (I am not counting Accelerated ) and are beyond this type of thing. Granted, up there a few things were said but let's leave it at that! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Accelerated Posted September 6, 2003 Report Share Posted September 6, 2003 I think we are mostly adults here (I am not counting Accelerated ) and are beyond this type of thing. Edited for content by Sip Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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