Unfortunately, the answer of your question still is in the ancient centuries...Armenian people has suffered a lot by ''khavaramid hokevor hayrer'', then Ottoman Empire, turkish mentality, which is still founded in armenian blood... This is not armenian character, this is turkich-islamic approach for sex, which has been viewed as a sin and bad thing in all these centuries. I'm not telling that we armenian people must become western minded (i.e. ''live for sex and only for sex''), no, but he has to change his look for the sex, starting from the point, that sex is a must, if you have to live balanced life. About side-effects... we have to move to part 2