sarsher101 Posted August 25, 2004 Report Share Posted August 25, 2004 In most families it is known that parents fight always. but sometimes the fight reaches divorce. Do you think that children of these kind of families can intrude or should they intrude in their parent's relationships? since it is not their choice to live this life, do they have to forget it and go on with their life saying it is ok. Or should they try to resolve the issue between their parents and try to get them back together because they started as a one family and want to continue as one family. I post this because i have come across many victims(children) of divorced parents and most of them have the mentality that it is not their fault the parents fight; therefore, they don't have to intrude and don't have to bother in trying to solve the comflicts between the parents. It is a sad situation because i think children play a huge roll in keeping the family together not by their existance only, yet by the efforts to make their parents' marriage work and continue a one family life without any hateret between the spouses. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ED Posted August 25, 2004 Report Share Posted August 25, 2004 Sometime it is best for the children when parents divorce, sometimes it can be a disaster, it all depends……………… but generally those kids, most, intend to have healthy relationship with there divorced parents after the divorce about arguments, IMO, and I speak from long years of experience, IF there is a core established true out the years there is nothing wrong with an arguments, its a sign of a healthy relationship, we are talking about two individuals, characters, opinions and most often those opinions will very, hence comes arguments, I don’t know any family who doesn’t have arguments. But when there is a fundamental difference becomes obvious, and then those arguments can turn into screaming nonsense and in some cases physical violence and all other options would fail, this is when divorce is "essential" for all parties, first and foremost for the sake of kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maral Posted August 25, 2004 Report Share Posted August 25, 2004 sarsher101,are you a social worker? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarsher101 Posted August 25, 2004 Author Report Share Posted August 25, 2004 Maral I appreciate your responses. You really responded to every postin i had. No i am not a social worker but i like to get people's opinions about life in general and where they stand when it comes to these manners. I like life philosophy. Did you ever meet people who understand your life from the first time they look at you or talk to you or listen to you? if you did then I can tell you i am almost one of those people but too young to be good but i am on my way there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maral Posted August 25, 2004 Report Share Posted August 25, 2004 Interesting...I am like that too...the only thing I have to work on is that I give people too many chances. And I don't mean to say this in a hurtful way at all...just an observation...more then "Did you ever meet people who understand your life from the first time they look at you or talk to you or listen to you" type of person...I find you manipulative...bet ya I'm right too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarsher101 Posted August 26, 2004 Author Report Share Posted August 26, 2004 Everyone has their own opinion Maral, and i respect urs. but if you knew me personally you would actually say that i am very open minded and opposite of what you said. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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