hyebruin Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 yeah i hear you sev jan, but what makes me wonder is WHY those girls want just the physical aspect??? hmmmm could it be that that's mostly what they've seen/experienced and are now sooo jaded that they've lost their marbles as well as their self-worth?? kind o' sad! but makes ya think huh??--- i don't know about you all!! but i get the feeling that the word 'attached' is almost becoming taboo!! i.e. if you get attached to someone or care for someone you're considered 'weak' or some crazy thing like that!! i can imagine guys getting together and talking about girls in ways that leaves no room for them to "share their feelings with their buddies"...or even let them know that they care for a girl...i mean after all how un-manly or un-macho is it to get attached to a girl you're having fun with!!!...gotta be 'strong' and not 'feel' anything huh? his friends would probably laugh at the poor guy and call him a sissy!!! <_< Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 yeah i hear you sev jan, but what makes me wonder is WHY those girls want just the physical aspect??? hmmmm could it be that that's mostly what they've seen/experienced and are now sooo jaded that they've lost their marbles as well as their self-worth?? kind o' sad! but makes ya think huh??--- i don't know about you all!! but i get the feeling that the word 'attached' is almost becoming taboo!! i.e. if you get attached to someone or care for someone you're considered 'weak' or some crazy thing like that!! i can imagine guys getting together and talking about girls in ways that leaves no room for them to "share their feelings with their buddies"...or even let them know that they care for a girl...i mean after all how un-manly or un-macho is it to get attached to a girl you're having fun with!!!...gotta be 'strong' and not 'feel' anything huh? his friends would probably laugh at the poor guy and call him a sissy!!! <_< Yeah I think you're right on all counts. I can be depressing out there in the dating world. I have friends who still live by that b.s. that you're weak if you have a girlfriend..blah blah blah...but still sleep around and expect to one day marry a virgin. What we have to today is what you touched on, girls finally giving up and going for the same things as guys because they're aren't that many real nice guys out there and they are used to dealing with jokers. It sucks, and makes you either really bitter or really loose. But it also makes you protective and overjoyed if you can find someone truly worth being with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellthecat Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 You've gotta called Papi....aw jealous. Such a sultry term. A little overplayed in recent years, but always solid...hehe Would not be used by anyone where I come from. Anyone who liked to be called "papi " by their lover would be considered to be decidedly sick and perverted. Steve Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 (edited) Guess we're not from the place then stevie.... Edited January 27, 2004 by sev-mard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellthecat Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 Would not be used by anyone where I come from. Anyone who liked to be called "papi " by their lover would be considered to be decidedly sick and perverted. Steve Though I suppose the phrase "my old man", as used by females in certain social groups in London would be the same. Though it is not said face-to-face to their male partners, but is used to describe their partners to other females. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted January 28, 2004 Report Share Posted January 28, 2004 Yeah i'm family with that term as well. It's all in fun really, might not be the best term, but we were joking about it. I've never had a girl call me that latina or otherwise, I go by a variety of other monikers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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