angel4hope Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 hey guys, i wanted to know, what do you do when youre really pissed off or angry, sad....I know some people deal with it through viloence or what not, but Im just asking for things like hmmm....having a punching bag---punching it till your knuckles are raw...driving your car really fast....listening to real loud crazt rock music...or what else?// Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allarmeniangirl Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 violence is never the answer when i'm mad, i yell, jump, run and throw things so they break, but then i realize how stupid and useless that is i sometimes call a friend if i really just have to get my anger out and just talk to someone or i listen to some nice calm music. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted January 24, 2004 Author Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 thanx... but i never said i solve it through violence....it was just one example from a couple that i pointed out chick... i hate violence2...but sometimes when people are violent towards you, the best you can do is strike back....EXAMPLE--no im not being abused so dont ask..lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 most of the time, i get really violent, especially when my mom pisses me off, but i just slam the door shut so that i wouldn't actually attack her.. sometimes i just start hitting at the wall with my fists (yes, it does hurt), and sometimes i just burn my fingers with cigarettes, until I've calmed down. if the person who has annoyed me is a stranger, i just walk away as quickly as i can, so that i wouldn't actually punch him (i wouldn't use violence against women).. however, recently i've been trying to take a deep breath and calm down and think rationally, so i don't just rush out when i'm pissed off in front of others. i've often used drinking as a way out of anger. sometimes i play music at max volume when i'm at home, just cos when my mom starts b*ing, she doesn't stop and it pisses me off even more to sit there and listen to her talking by herself.. lol.. i guess we're a crazy family haha.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armo77 Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 hey guys, i wanted to know, what do you do when youre really pissed off or angry, sad....I know some people deal with it through viloence or what not, but Im just asking for things like hmmm....having a punching bag---punching it till your knuckles are raw...driving your car really fast....listening to real loud crazt rock music...or what else?// Play Grand Theft Auto Vice city Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allarmeniangirl Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 why do so many people turn on very loud music when they're angry? that makes u even more angry and isn't the whole idea to just be calm and to just chill or relax? another good way is to scream into a pillow. i never did that actually but it is kind of helpful isn't it? so.....yea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 I shut up, wait till i can get to my dirt bike, then ride........ ride fast, through anything thinking i dont give a sh*** if i crash, ride through rocks not eve slowing down ride on the highway **(illegalr for dirt bikes, gotta be atlest 60' away)*** passing other vehicles is the best, cause i get to see anooyed expressions as i pass them.... But if i am away from my bike @ glendale... then i shut the hell up and go away from whos making me mad, usually go to gym, better to waste energy usfully then hitting the wall,, did that few times, dan is right it HURTS!!!! But iv seen the best way to handl it is to shut up.... plain and simple... shut up! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allarmeniangirl Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 hmmmm, men difinitely handle stress and anger differently than women. also, if it hurts to hit ur hand against a wall, why continue to hit it? don't u get more angry from the pain? lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 I love allarmeniagirl... LMAO... yes it does hurt,, and we keep hitting it for no reason,, we just pissed.. LOL.... but i like your clueless attitude... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allarmeniangirl Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 I love allarmeniagirl... LMAO... yes it does hurt,, and we keep hitting it for no reason,, we just pissed.. LOL.... but i like your clueless attitude... u love me already? it's only been one day. hmmmmm may i suggest hitting a pillow? same energy goes into it, but the pain is so different(no pain). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armine3773 Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 When I get angry, I tend to listen to slow music or I just write my feelings on paper. Usually, I just go to my Dad for advice..My dad and I communicate very well and sometimes I'll go to my mom. It depends what/who I'm mad at Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 I sleep. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azat Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 I post at HyeForum Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armat Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 I shut up, wait till i can get to my dirt bike, then ride........ ride fast, through anything thinking i dont give a sh*** if i crash, ride through rocks not eve slowing down ride on the highway **(illegalr for dirt bikes, gotta be atlest 60' away)*** passing other vehicles is the best, cause i get to see anooyed expressions as i pass them.... But if i am away from my bike @ glendale... then i shut the hell up and go away from whos making me mad, usually go to gym, better to waste energy usfully then hitting the wall,, did that few times, dan is right it HURTS!!!! But iv seen the best way to handl it is to shut up.... plain and simple... shut up! Gevo? You GOT a DIRT BIKE! Man I thought I was the only bike nut here.To bad I am not in CA.California has some great wild places to ride and not to mention 70-90 temp in winter.I hate you people! I am stuck here in this freakin cold... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 ... I hate you people! I am stuck here in this freakin cold... So I think angel4hope is asking what you do in this case Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allarmeniangirl Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 When I get angry, I tend to listen to slow music or I just write my feelings on paper. Usually, I just go to my Dad for advice..My dad and I communicate very well and sometimes I'll go to my mom. It depends what/who I'm mad at i hear that. i talk to my mom.......she understands everything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Armat Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 So I think angel4hope is asking what you do in this case I play chess on Yahoo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Accelerated Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 I dont get angry often and when I do, I just bottle it up most of the time - I know apparently its not a good way of dealing with anger. And I dont stay angry for very long, untill I go to bed or go out with friends Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormig Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 Repeat "goose-fraba"... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 I just stay in my room and sleep. Keeping it bottled inside me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anoushik Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 I also tend to keep my anger to myself. Unless, if it's my parents that have really upset me (which doesn't happen that often) I'll really make sure that they'll find out about it. The rest of the times I just practice my piano more passionately and effectively. (I'm a piano major in college.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 hmmmm, men difinitely handle stress and anger differently than women. also, if it hurts to hit ur hand against a wall, why continue to hit it? don't u get more angry from the pain? lol Get angry from the pain? Hell no.. lol.. It makes me feel all good inside. lol.. I'm serious. And that's the whole point -- to hurt yourself so that you can either forget your anger or have pain replace it until the anger goes away by itself. As for using a pillow, ummm, what's the point of using a pillow in that case - it doesn't hurt you... Pillows have never worked for me, and they make me even angrier.. I post at HyeForum loool, if I do that when I'm angry, I can assure you I'd be banned in less than 1 minute. It's pretty bad when I'm angry.. Blood pressure / asthma problems lol.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allarmeniangirl Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 Get angry from the pain? Hell no.. lol.. It makes me feel all good inside. lol.. I'm serious. And that's the whole point -- to hurt yourself so that you can either forget your anger or have pain replace it until the anger goes away by itself. As for using a pillow, ummm, what's the point of using a pillow in that case - it doesn't hurt you... Pillows have never worked for me, and they make me even angrier.. u have no idea how strange and weird that sounded. lol. but ok, i'll take ur word for it that...and i quote...."it makes.." you .."feel all good inside.." now 4 the idea of pillows making u angry? hmmm, but they are so comphy and soft. if u don't like pillows then u must fight when u sleep. jk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 naw, allarmeniangirl, only punching pillows makes me angry, not pillows in general. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hye_Acher Posted January 24, 2004 Report Share Posted January 24, 2004 hey guys, i wanted to know, what do you do when youre really pissed off or angry, sad....I know some people deal with it through viloence or what not, but Im just asking for things like hmmm....having a punching bag---punching it till your knuckles are raw...driving your car really fast....listening to real loud crazt rock music...or what else?// I hardly ever get mad at anything or anyone…it has to be something very big from me to get mad about. In those kinds of situations I do speak my mind very calmly and leave immediately so others don’t even get the chance to talk back..(Don’t yell because others wont listen)…all I have to say speak your mind express how you feel… don’t think too hard on what you should’ve said or why you didn’t act in certain way… more you think about it more angry/sad you get…. Peace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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