gamavor Posted November 21, 2003 Report Share Posted November 21, 2003 Been once. Total disaster. She was good looking. We talked on the phone, and she seemed pretty willing...Instead of going to some nice place and loosen up a little, she insisted on introducing me to her ex-boyfriends (I think they were her on and off 'boyfriends' )at her neighborhood bar. Then I had to listen to all her sex stories and when I said that there is a motel near by, she said that she is not like this. We ended up in a good note. I remember saying something not that poetic instead of Good night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Accelerated Posted November 22, 2003 Report Share Posted November 22, 2003 Yes, but if you are goint to run, what is the point of blind dating? It was my first (and last) time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyebruin Posted November 22, 2003 Report Share Posted November 22, 2003 Been once. Total disaster. She was good looking. We talked on the phone, and she seemed pretty willing...Instead of going to some nice place and loosen up a little, she insisted on introducing me to her ex-boyfriends (I think they were her on and off 'boyfriends' )at her neighborhood bar. Then I had to listen to all her sex stories and when I said that there is a motel near by, she said that she is not like this. We ended up in a good note. I remember saying something not that poetic instead of Good night. that sounds funny!! (sorry! )...seems like she needed a shoulder to cry on (or brag about!) instead of a "date" per se!!--that's a turn off when people talk about ex's on a 1st or a 2nd date..if it's going to be a date, make that person feel special and refrain from mentioning your track record!!---i mean come on! do they REALLY want to know about your exact mileage and where you stopped for gas and chips and soda along the way?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THOTH Posted November 22, 2003 Report Share Posted November 22, 2003 Well Gams - I had a somewhat similar episode - but she brought me to this bar - to beat up her ex boyfriend! LOL - Wel i wasn't quite so commited for that - but I did run him off...and they date ended up going well...we went back to my place...(wasn't quite a blind date either...we had been friends before...)... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anahid Takouhi Posted November 22, 2003 Report Share Posted November 22, 2003 he-he-he Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamavor Posted November 22, 2003 Report Share Posted November 22, 2003 (edited) that sounds funny!! (sorry! )...seems like she needed a shoulder to cry on (or brag about!) instead of a "date" per se!!--that's a turn off when people talk about ex's on a 1st or a 2nd date..if it's going to be a date, make that person feel special and refrain from mentioning your track record!!---i mean come on! do they REALLY want to know about your exact mileage and where you stopped for gas and chips and soda along the way?! Well, you see I do not follow American Dating Standards. I choose to talk (or not to talk) about sex on the first date depending on the situation. What I first do is creating a psychological portrait of the "victim" (pardon, my date), and then I decide which way to go. Well Gams - I had a somewhat similar episode - but she brought me to this bar - to beat up her ex boyfriend! LOL - Wel i wasn't quite so commited for that - but I did run him off...and they date ended up going well...we went back to my place...(wasn't quite a blind date either...we had been friends before...)... I guess she wanted to make them jealous, but I'm too old for silly games. If I had to beat them in order to have sex whit her, ....hell I would rather pay 50 bucks! Edited November 22, 2003 by gamavor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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