ExtraHye Posted November 29, 2003 Report Share Posted November 29, 2003 Would you assist someone in cheating on their boyfriend/girlfriend for pure passion. Even though you know its immoral. (general question) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azat Posted November 29, 2003 Report Share Posted November 29, 2003 No Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azat Posted November 29, 2003 Report Share Posted November 29, 2003 what would be a good excuse? wife had a headache? You know we have needs and such. I am just goofing around you guys. I do not think there is EVER a good reason to cheat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ExtraHye Posted November 29, 2003 Report Share Posted November 29, 2003 I agree with you, theirs no reason for anyone to stray. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheekY Posted November 29, 2003 Report Share Posted November 29, 2003 why do you think i said "which i doubt" lol hmm.....maybe being drunk? lol nah! there's NO excuse!! i don't know damn! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Valantina Posted January 14, 2004 Report Share Posted January 14, 2004 What makes men and women cheat on their other half? Personaly i believe there is No excuse for people who cheat NOT SO EVER! No metter,.. - what the problem is - Unfair the partner is - Not Saticfied - Not HAPPY - MAD/UPSET - NOT MATCHING! - ... MUCH MORE!! Cheating is not the ANSWER or the SULOTION between a couple <_< !!! there are many other ways, .. - Communicating - Understanding - Willing to make sacrifices - KEEN - respectful & Fairth - FullFill their PROMISE! - Many other ways that a TRUE ADULT would think of other than cheating! But i do believe its all in People's MATURITY, and how FAITHFUL & RESPECTFUL they realy are to themselves before other people!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Anka_ Posted March 6, 2004 Report Share Posted March 6, 2004 I know number of Armenian men who cheat(not with me lol) Once an Armenian men told me that it is ok for men to cheat on their wives/gfs because sometimes a man can be drunk and could decide to have one night stand, but it is not ok for you woman to cheat because if a woman cheats that means that she's doing it because of a reason not because she's drunk and fells like having some fun for a night. This is how 90% of all Armenian men think. If I ever found out that my husband/bf was cheating on me for whatever reason (dont' give a damn) there's no way that I'll ever accept him back. I have to be dumb to let it go and just continue living with him like nothing ever happened. I also think that i have much respect for myself to let an a****** (who hurt me alot) back into my life. Why would I want to do that if I can find someone better. I think that if something like that ever happens to me then I would loose all the respect that I had for that person and I would never be able to trust him or care for him again and if my feeling fades away then what's the point in accepting him back or wanting to be with him. If my husband wants to start sleeping around with others then he better get a divorce from me first and then he could do whomever he wants Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheekY Posted March 7, 2004 Report Share Posted March 7, 2004 just like "shame on you if you fool once, shame on me if you fool me twice" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted March 7, 2004 Report Share Posted March 7, 2004 I know number of Armenian men who cheat(not with me lol) Once an Armenian men told me that it is ok for men to cheat on their wives/gfs because sometimes a man can be drunk and could decide to have one night stand, but it is not ok for you woman to cheat because if a woman cheats that means that she's doing it because of a reason not because she's drunk and fells like having some fun for a night. This is how 90% of all Armenian men think. If I ever found out that my husband/bf was cheating on me for whatever reason (dont' give a damn) there's no way that I'll ever accept him back. I have to be dumb to let it go and just continue living with him like nothing ever happened. I also think that i have much respect for myself to let an a****** (who hurt me alot) back into my life. Why would I want to do that if I can find someone better. I think that if something like that ever happens to me then I would loose all the respect that I had for that person and I would never be able to trust him or care for him again and if my feeling fades away then what's the point in accepting him back or wanting to be with him. If my husband wants to start sleeping around with others then he better get a divorce from me first and then he could do whomever he wants hmm sad sad anka jan,, hope its not coming from experiance.. and i would like to knote,, it might be 90% of the armenian men you have met.. i refuse to beleive our race has gotten soo low... it is never ever right to cheat.. thats rediculouse!!!!!! and very stupid mentality.. lol..i cant even think of anything the guy could pssibly say to rationalyze his thinking like that.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gurgen Posted March 7, 2004 Report Share Posted March 7, 2004 This is how 90% of all Armenian men think. Oh god there we go again. Just because the rabiz aghperner you meet in the diaspora who probably came from the shittiest villages in Lori think this way doesn't mean this is 90% of the Armenian men. What is this negativity of Armenian women towards Armenian men anyway? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Anka_ Posted March 8, 2004 Report Share Posted March 8, 2004 Oh god there we go again. Just because the rabiz aghperner you meet in the diaspora who probably came from the shittiest villages in Lori think this way doesn't mean this is 90% of the Armenian men. What is this negativity of Armenian women towards Armenian men anyway? Actually I was talking about guys from Yerevan. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gurgen Posted March 8, 2004 Report Share Posted March 8, 2004 You got assholes everywhere. Most decent people already left Yerevan. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Anka_ Posted March 8, 2004 Report Share Posted March 8, 2004 I meant guys from Yerevan who live in diaspora. I agree that most decent people left Yerevan. I was there this summer didn't like it at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
margogan Posted April 6, 2004 Report Share Posted April 6, 2004 right on!!! i like that attitude! life is too short to put up with that s**t!!!---if you accept that person back into your life, they'll think it wasn't a big deal and if they do it again, they'll assume you'll accept them again with open arms!!! how sadly mistaken they are!!! NO WAY!!! if that happened to me!!! i'll tell you, i just might end up on the 6:00 o' clock news!!! ---i'd set his clothes on fire and leave his naked a$$ on the street!!! (that's only if it's his lucky day!)...no telling what will happen if i reeeeeealllly get upset!! ---be scared! be very very scared!!---like they say! "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!".... axchi jan yes chgidei vor du aitqan furious es hehe yes el erpeq chei neri davajanutyunn e... yes indz hargum em ev bartsr em dasum vor entun em aitpes verabermunq Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bellthecat Posted April 6, 2004 Report Share Posted April 6, 2004 If I ever found out that my husband/bf was cheating on me for whatever reason (dont' give a damn) there's no way that I'll ever accept him back. I have to be dumb to let it go and just continue living with him like nothing ever happened. I also think that i have much respect for myself to let an a****** (who hurt me alot) back into my life. But don't "throw the baby out with the bathwater". Every circumstance is different, so getting yourself into a mindset that cheating must be absolutely unforgivable is a dangerous thing. Perhaps such a relationship could be salvaged. It depends on the people involved, and if they think their relationship worth surviving. Everyone does stupid things sometimes. Absolute perfection in someone is never going to be found - and anyone who thinks they have found such a perfect being are probably in for a rude awakening at some point in their relationship. Being unfaithful to someone is not something I would ever consider doing (I hope), but I could (and have) consider overlooking it when I have been cheated on. But if a partner indulges in repeated cheating, knowing the hurt it causes, then it is time to call it a day and move on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
margogan Posted April 6, 2004 Report Share Posted April 6, 2004 I know number of Armenian men who cheat(not with me lol) Once an Armenian men told me that it is ok for men to cheat on their wives/gfs because sometimes a man can be drunk and could decide to have one night stand, but it is not ok for you woman to cheat because if a woman cheats that means that she's doing it because of a reason not because she's drunk and fells like having some fun for a night. This is how 90% of all Armenian men think. If I ever found out that my husband/bf was cheating on me for whatever reason (dont' give a damn) there's no way that I'll ever accept him back. I have to be dumb to let it go and just continue living with him like nothing ever happened. I also think that i have much respect for myself to let an a****** (who hurt me alot) back into my life. Why would I want to do that if I can find someone better. I think that if something like that ever happens to me then I would loose all the respect that I had for that person and I would never be able to trust him or care for him again and if my feeling fades away then what's the point in accepting him back or wanting to be with him. If my husband wants to start sleeping around with others then he better get a divorce from me first and then he could do whomever he wants Hey Anka you wrote: "once an Armenian man told me"....and then after that you write "this is how 90% of all Armenian men think". Well, this is doubtful. Can 1 person embody the entire nation? And then you say "an Armenian man"...have you ever talked to non-Armenians about cheating? If someone told you the silliest thing, showing his lower middle-class mentality that doesn't mean that all our men are alike. In Armenian communities family values are more solid and spiritual then anywhere else in the world. First of all you should talk to non-Armenian men about their "national" behavior within the wedlock. You'll be really surprised, believe me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
margogan Posted April 6, 2004 Report Share Posted April 6, 2004 I meant guys from Yerevan who live in diaspora. I agree that most decent people left Yerevan. I was there this summer didn't like it at all. Were you looking for someone in Armenia? You say our men cheat, that you don't like them and then you go there to find someone? I guess if you didn't like our men you wouldn't pay attention to those "from Yerevan".... did I get you right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
margogan Posted April 6, 2004 Report Share Posted April 6, 2004 Oh god there we go again. Just because the rabiz aghperner you meet in the diaspora who probably came from the shittiest villages in Lori think this way doesn't mean this is 90% of the Armenian men. What is this negativity of Armenian women towards Armenian men anyway? I think our women who consider our men cheaters, boors and loosers are the ones who suffered from their indifference towards them (the ladies). And there is such a notion "what is allowed to others is not permitted to Armenians" that's why when a single man cheats the entire community is being considered as "vulgar". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Anka_ Posted April 6, 2004 Report Share Posted April 6, 2004 Were you looking for someone in Armenia? You say our men cheat, that you don't like them and then you go there to find someone? I guess if you didn't like our men you wouldn't pay attention to those "from Yerevan".... did I get you right? loool no I was not looking for a man in Yerevan hahaha What makes you think that men are the only reason that I go to Yerevan? Trust me I'm not looking for an Armenian man at all. There's plenty of men in my area. The onyl decent Armenian man I know is my father and I'm not just saying that because he's my dad (if he sucked I'd say that he's suks) but he's very different in many aspects. Tipik hay txamardu nman chi if u know what i mean. detailneri mej chem uzum mtnem, baits let's just say vor im mamais engeruhinernelen sax zarmanum te vor ink@ inch dzevi txamarda since most of their husbands suck so they always tell my mom why they didnt' meet someone like him. I know it kind of sounds funny that my mom's girlfriends would actually say stuff like that to my mom but they love my dad and they even say that to his face. Mi xoskov hl@ vor normal u shat lav hay txamard chem handipel kam shjrjapatum chgitem vor koxkits naiumem. Aveli shut iskakan txamardkutun@ shateri mot pakasuma sax irants chgitem inchi texen dnum baits tak@ vonts asats ban chka verjum parzvuma. Nuinel es urish azgeri masinem asum baits de hay txerki mej minusner@ shat shat aveli shaten kants urish azgeri mej. Hamel urish azgeri txamardik shat aveli parzen u tetev andznavorutunneren isk hay txerki mej endhakarakna hech parz chen u tetevel chen irants eutiamb. Huisovem vor batsatretsi aveli parz.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Anka_ Posted April 6, 2004 Report Share Posted April 6, 2004 isk ov vor davachanuma uremn problemner uni glxi mej. indz chi tvum vor et mardu sex driv@ enets ujexa u out of controla vor ink@ piti nuin jamanak multiple sex partnerner unena te che kara merni... guys like that disgust me. They call themselves "Playas" but they're bunch of morons and loosers with no integrity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gurgen Posted April 7, 2004 Report Share Posted April 7, 2004 Don't you think there are more men like your dad? I mean, the evidence is there that this species exists. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Anka_ Posted April 7, 2004 Report Share Posted April 7, 2004 i didn't say that there aren't any men like my dad. I was just saying that they're hard to find. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted April 8, 2004 Report Share Posted April 8, 2004 heres my theory- thats y u dont date or get involved with men younger than the age of at least 24-25 because beginning at 16 to about age 22 they arent men- theyre still considered "guys" "dudes" still alot to learn- cant say completely immature- but some level of immaturity compared to those who are older....i dont think someone could be considered a man (socialy- not genetically or gender-wise)until they are married and are respoonsible and have children... not that its bad to be a "guy" and not a "man" i see certain differences though... i may be wrong- but this is strictly through observation and expereince- nothing statistical but i have a few close guy friends whose behavior contradicts my lil theory- but they are few and they are not the average "men" or "dudes" id like to treat each case individually- because each person is unique and when you get to know someone well enough- you learn alott of things that may contradict your previous beliefs- its the best way to learn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted April 8, 2004 Report Share Posted April 8, 2004 this sounds weird though ^ i just noticed that according to my little theory- one should get with someone who is married and has children -lol not what i intended to say- heres what i meant... men are like grapes- you need to step all over them, smash, and squish them, then leave them to go through the process of fermentation- so that in a few years they can become something worth having dinner with- like fine wine!-- turn a "guy" into a "man" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Accelerated Posted April 8, 2004 Report Share Posted April 8, 2004 baits let's just say vor im mamais engeruhinernelen sax zarmanum te vor ink@ inch dzevi txamarda since most of their husbands suck so they always tell my mom why they didnt' meet someone like him. I know it kind of sounds funny that my mom's girlfriends would actually say stuff like that to my mom but they love my dad hahahah - by any chance, is his name Winston? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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