Loreley Posted December 28, 2002 Report Share Posted December 28, 2002 I feel bad that September 11 had to happened for the world to remember and acknowledge the experience of women of Afghanistan. At the same time, I feel that the U.S. is using the cliche of "let's help the women of Afghanistan" to serve its own political and socioeconomic interests, and it is not really about the women. People are using their "own cultural lenses" to analyze these women's culture,lifestyle, and beliefs without much knowledge and understanding about these women's beliefs. My heart goes to them for the oppression in which they have been living. I have heard once a woman from Afghanistan saying that women in America are oppressed too because women in America have to show their bodies to be liked and seen. She asked:" isn't that oppression too?" I had never thought about it from that perspective. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stormig Posted December 28, 2002 Report Share Posted December 28, 2002 quote:Originally posted by Loreley:I feel bad that September 11 had to happened for the world to remember and acknowledge the experience of women of Afghanistan. At the same time, I feel that the U.S. is using the cliche of "let's help the women of Afghanistan" to serve its own political and socioeconomic interests, and it is not really about the women. After Afghanistan should come the women of Saudi Arabia. Oops - no, they can't. Saudi Arabia is "nice." quote:People are using their "own cultural lenses" to analyze these women's culture,lifestyle, and beliefs without much knowledge and understanding about these women's beliefs. My heart goes to them for the oppression in which they have been living. I have heard once a woman from Afghanistan saying that women in America are oppressed too because women in America have to show their bodies to be liked and seen. She asked:" isn't that oppression too?" I had never thought about it from that perspective.I've read from that perspective and thought a great deal on it. I believe it all starts and ends in one's head. A person cherishing their individuality will do things mostly for themselves, first.I dress normally, ranging anywhere within a "reasonable" spectrum. However, unlike most "oh-I-wanna-stay-virgin-until-marriage prudes," I don't dress "sl*tty" - spending a whole salary on the clothes, hair-do, make-up, and shoes - and go to night-clubs or discos without knowing why I am there, just because some people happen to go, all the preoccupation with looks bothering my head crazy. My life is mellow because this is the real me.In short, I know where that Afghan lady you mentioned is coming from, but I can't sympathize. It is plain old Islamic fundamentalist BS. IMO, either way is copping out from one's individuality and REAL [women's] independence. There is NO way a woman with brains (and life) will go un-noticed. Back to the original issue. The "liberation of women" in Afghanistan is merely a side-effect, albeit a good one, of the operations. Just the "liberation of Afghanistan" itself was not a primary issue; they were all muttering stuff through clenched teeth when saying that. Do let us not forget that Saudi Arabia, too, oppresses 51% of its population. When is its turn going to be? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Loreley Posted December 28, 2002 Author Report Share Posted December 28, 2002 “I’ll never return”by meena, founder of RAWA (Revolutionary Association of Women of Afghanistan) I’m the woman who has awokenI’ve risen and become a tempest through the ashes of my burnt childrenI’ve arisen from the rivulets of my brother’s bloodMy nation’s wrath has empowered meMy ruined and burnt villages fill me with hatred against the enemyI’m the woman who has awoken,I’ve found my path and will never return.I’ve opened closed doors of ignoranceI’ve said farewell to all golden braceletsOh compatriot, I’m not what I wasI’m the woman who has awokenI’ve found my path and will never return.I’ve seen barefoot, wandering and homeless childrenI’ve seen henna-handed brides with mourning clothesI’ve seen giant walls of the prisons swallow freedom in their ravenous stomachI’ve reborn amidst epics of resistance and courageI’ve learned the song of freedom in the lastbreaths, in the waves of blood and in victorOh compatriot, Oh brother, no longer regard me as weak and incapableWith all my strength I’m with you on the path of my land’s liberation.My voice has mingled with thousands of arisen women.My fists are clenched with the fists of thousands of compatriotsAlong with you I’ve stepped up to the path of my nation,To break all these suffering allThese fetters of slavery,Oh compatriot, Oh brother, I’m not what I wasI’m the woman who has awokenI’ve found my path and will never return. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caucasian Posted September 1, 2003 Report Share Posted September 1, 2003 Unfortunately, people the Islamic countries don't know the worth of the women. Women hold up half the sky - Chinese saying Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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