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A 3 Year Relationship Which Ended In Heartbreak. Help!


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that is simply a complex armenian men have (ive only seen this complex in usa and canada armenians i must add) . on my many trips to america or canada i discovered very fast that armenian men there have this absolut horror of somehow looking as a looser . i rarely met men who acted natural and were just themselves ... its all a show ... with a sad fassade behind it .

 

Are you saying Armenian men in America are naturally losers? :o What's wrong with not wanting to look like a loser?

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ok ...

 

let me start by the story of my very last date i had with an armenian in the U S and A ! ok , armenian , 39 years old wants a date with DeLaLa ... i must add it was one of these dates which my relatives arranged ... you know these dates where they say "LaLajan ... shat lav hay dxa me gah ... blablabla " ... ok. so i propose this guy to first chat via internet , to get to know him at least a little bit before the horror starts . we chat a bit , and very soon after comes the famous armenian-guy-question "ARE YOU THIN OR ARE YOU FAT?" (complex number one ---> armenian men have a neurotic paranoia about showing themselves in public with a fat armenian axchik) i answer him : i am fat !

his next question was OF COURSE ... "CAN YOU SEND ME A PHOTO?" (in other words: how fat are you ?) lol ... i send him a photo of myself and what follows is ... he wants to see more photos ... i end up sending 23 photos of myself ! anyway... the day "X" comes and he picks me up to go to dinner ect... the first moment he ever sees me in person it seemed as if he swallowed his tongue ... his first words : " you are not fat "

we go to a shat shat nice restaurant and with every new dish which comes onto the dinnertable he confesses me one after one ... he starts telling me he is suffering from icterus since 3 years after he had just finished the story of his broken knee ... by the time the main dish comes he starts xatchvegah telling me in details how awful the med. colonoscopy was which he had made only 3 days ago !!!!!!! to be honest , i was expecting him to (after all he told me about himself ) to still continue and tell me "oh and i am impotent"

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got to go now , but next story is to follow lol ...

 

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we chat a bit , and very soon after comes the famous armenian-guy-question "ARE YOU THIN OR ARE YOU FAT?"

Why would you ever agree to go on a date with him when he asks you this question? When I date guys I make sure that first and foremost they are respectful towards all women, not just the women they are dating. That's when I know that they are gentlemen. Of course, being a gentleman is just the minimum requirement!

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sip sip sip .... where shoull i start and where shoull i end ? so you people really want to know the odysee of all the strange dates i had with armenian men in usa/canada ?

How many dates does it take to learn?

Maybe you have attraction to losers, as some girls have attraction to bad boys. :)

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That's funny stuff delala ...

 

I personally never ask a woman if she is fat. The answer is always yes. So it is a useless question :(

About the pictures, that should be standard practice. As a very cool guy (MJ) around here once said (I might be paraphrasing a bit), a blind date is a bad idea because it's very hard to find someone who is willing to be blind. I think it is a VERY bad sign if a girl is hesitant to send pictures before a meeting in real life, there are only really 2 possibilities:

 

1. Really can't send pictures - i.e. she is a moron.

2. Doesn't want to send pictures - either very ugly or completely paranoid.

 

 

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Why would you ever agree to go on a date with him when he asks you this question? When I date guys I make sure that first and foremost they are respectful towards all women, not just the women they are dating. That's when I know that they are gentlemen. Of course, being a gentleman is just the minimum requirement!

 

anoushik , ayo you are very right but i was also a gentleman to have dated him (; i dont know why i did , but i did ... look ... i also have story from canada for you . this armenian family calls my aunt because they were interested in me for their son ... uremn , after 3 phonecalls with my aunt and his mother back and forth ... his mother asks my aunt if i am fat , because , she says "my son likes thin axchiks" ! so my aunt replies "no LaLa is tumbullik , she is not thin thin" ... so his mom tell my aunt "oh ok , then i have to ask him if he wants to date her or not again " looool ... so his mom calls again and tells my aunt "no , he told me he doesnt want to date LaLa after i told him she is chubby " so anushikjan , i did tell my aunt she can tell his mom he can go to hell and that she can tell this woman i will not go to a date with this dmbo-son of hers ! so , 6 weeks go by and on a sunday i go to this armenian fundraising party , something like 100 armenians there , and this dmbo and his parents are also there (they had never seen me until that day in person) ... vuyyyyyyy ... vrass paggan like glue . his mother begged my aunt for the following 6 weeks for me to go on a dinner with him , her maymun-son was crazy for me . but i never did BUT i had a great laugh and it was a revenge sweeter than paghlava ! grinnnn (:

 

 

How many dates does it take to learn?

Maybe you have attraction to losers, as some girls have attraction to bad boys. :)

 

yervantjan , tsavigget danem , i never met any armenian weird guys like in europe ever . there are differences like night and day ... not only armenian guys also armenian axchiks . and if you yervant , want to really make me believe that you didnt have at least 3 different dates with any armenian supermaterialistic women there , then you are a big pinokkio ! (; do you know what the very first question of my female cousins and friends was after such armenian date ? "what car does he drive?" so... ?!?

 

That's funny stuff delala ...

 

I personally never ask a woman if she is fat. The answer is always yes. So it is a useless question :(

About the pictures, that should be standard practice. As a very cool guy (MJ) around here once said (I might be paraphrasing a bit), a blind date is a bad idea because it's very hard to find someone who is willing to be blind. I think it is a VERY bad sign if a girl is hesitant to send pictures before a meeting in real life, there are only really 2 possibilities:

 

1. Really can't send pictures - i.e. she is a moron.

2. Doesn't want to send pictures - either very ugly or completely paranoid.

 

hahaha ... sipjan , how can an armenian man be succesful is dating with a swiss-panir on his head ? hm? ts ts ts ... how many ankams i told you to change to a basturma-hat ? ba ! ches lssum ints ...

 

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With a basturma hat, I might attract Movses, Harut, and Yervant ... that's really NOT what I want to do :o

 

Movses, Harut, and Yervant ... and DeLaLa !!! hi hi hi .... vay yes ko kuluxet udem hahaha

 

 

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so , 6 weeks go by and on a sunday i go to this armenian fundraising party , something like 100 armenians there , and this dmbo and his parents are also there (they had never seen me until that day in person) ... vuyyyyyyy ... vrass paggan like glue . his mother begged my aunt for the following 6 weeks for me to go on a dinner with him , her maymun-son was crazy for me . but i never did BUT i had a great laugh and it was a revenge sweeter than paghlava ! grinnnn (:

Good for you! That is a good revenge. :)

 

This just begs the question, why would your relatives ever want to set you up with losers? If I were you, after this one example I'd just tell my relatives to either find new friends or just never bother me again.

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This just begs the question, why would your relatives ever want to set you up with losers?

 

because anoushik ... my relatives are the most apush materialistic money-loving armenians on this ashxar ! he was "shaaat shaaat harust" ...

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yervantjan , tsavigget danem , i never met any armenian weird guys like in europe ever . there are differences like night and day ... not only armenian guys also armenian axchiks . and if you yervant , want to really make me believe that you didnt have at least 3 different dates with any armenian supermaterialistic women there , then you are a big pinokkio ! (; do you know what the very first question of my female cousins and friends was after such armenian date ? "what car does he drive?" so... ?!?

You are in Europe, good Armenian guys are in Europe as well why bother with the losers in US and Canada then?

Being materialistic is a human disease practiced everywhere and Armenians are not immuned from it no matter which part of the world they live in.

 

So far I find all your posts are negative towards this forum and it's members, what seems to be the problem? :)

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You are in Europe, good Armenian guys are in Europe as well why bother with the losers in US and Canada then?

Being materialistic is a human disease practiced everywhere and Armenians are not immuned from it no matter which part of the world they live in.

 

So far I find all your posts are negative towards this forum and it's members, what seems to be the problem? :)

 

not only in this forum ... i have what you would call a love/hate relationship with armenians . but why do you get so offended ? i am armenian and i think i do have the right to critisize my own people in some points ? am i wrong ?

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not only in this forum ... i have what you would call a love/hate relationship with armenians . but why do you get so offended ? i am armenian and i think i do have the right to critisize my own people in some points ? am i wrong ?

I'm not offended at all and I'm not stoping you from doing any criticism actually I personally love the debate but coming here as a new member and tell other members to stop barking is something that I find odd don't you think so?

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