I Feel So Lonely Ppl! Is Anybody As Lonely As Iam?

[susangal]

Hey people! Is anybody lonely in here? I wonder what should someone do with this!? Any ideas??

[Sip]

Hey people! Is anybody lonely in here? I wonder what should someone do with this!? Any ideas??

 

You have to transform yourself from being lonely to being alone. Lonely can be a very debilitating thing. One can be lonely even when surrounded by many other people. Lonelyness is more often of a thing in our mind that our surroundings.

 

I think once you learn to become comfortable with being alone and not feel lonely, then you have solved most of the problem! Because not being lonely when you are not alone is much easier than when you are alone

 

So first thing would be not to worry about it too much. Find distractions, things to do, like a hobby, reading, traveling, surfing the web (forums like this can be great to get to talk to a lot of different people), watch TV, work out (this is one of my favorites).

 

But most important of all, I think is to try to be comfortable with yourself.

 

After all, as an old friend of mine once said, "I am the most interesting person I ever met".

[abcdefghij]

Hey people! Is anybody lonely in here? I wonder what should someone do with this!? Any ideas??

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Everyone is lonely in here - if they weren't then they wouldn't be here.

[vava]

Everyone is lonely in here - if they weren't then they wouldn't be here. 

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Disagree - different folks have their own reasons for their membership various on-line forums. Some out of loneliness certainly, but there are so many other possibilities.

[Anoushik]

"The secret of good old age is simply an honorable pact with solitude."

 

Gabriel García Márquez

[ED]

and lots of silance from family members sometimes would do great

[gevo27]

You have to transform yourself from being lonely to being alone. Lonely can be a very debilitating thing. One can be lonely even when surrounded by many other people.  Lonelyness is more often of a thing in our mind that our surroundings.

 

I think once you learn to become comfortable with being alone and not feel lonely, then you have solved most of the problem!  Because not being lonely when you are not alone is much easier than when you are alone 

 

So first thing would be not to worry about it too much. Find distractions, things to do, like a hobby, reading, traveling, surfing the web (forums like this can be great to get to talk to a lot of different people), watch TV, work out (this is one of my favorites).

 

But most important of all, I think is to try to be comfortable with yourself.

 

After all, as an old friend of mine once said, "I am the most interesting person I ever met". 

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AGREED!!!!!

My advice is get a dirt bike (HAHAHA) no im serious.. youll find it your best friend.. it never turns its head when your talking to it, it never talks when your talking.. its the best listener.. and it gives you a rush... also.. when you get to know it reallly intimately, it can also talk to you.. youll wont know what i mean until you get to know the bike really intimately, you have to spend a lot of time with it.. help it when it needs help, be there when it needs emotinal support, change its oil when time comes, rest it when its too hot.. and after months and months of this.. yuo wil notice that you have grown attached to it, and it to you.. you cant spend time away from it.. you will fall in love.and it will be like your wife sooner or later (i dont suggest to try to marry it however) but this bike will be a good wife.. not like the nagging ones (no offense people ) ..

[koko]

AGREED!!!!!

My advice is get a dirt bike (HAHAHA) no im serious.. youll find it your best friend.. it never turns its head when your talking to it, it never talks when your talking.. its the best listener.. and it gives you a rush... also.. when you get to know it reallly intimately, it can also talk to you.. youll wont know what i mean until you get to know the bike really intimately, you have to spend a lot of time with it.. help it when it needs help, be there when it needs emotinal support, change its oil when time comes, rest it when its too hot.. and after months and months of this.. yuo wil notice that you have grown attached to it, and it to you.. you cant spend time away from it.. you will fall in love.and it will be like your wife sooner or later (i dont suggest to try to marry it however) but this bike will be a good wife.. not like the nagging ones (no offense people ) ..

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Sounds relly excisting. Id really jump on youre idea gevo, sounds like fun!AH!!

Though, I'd have to find somewhere i can ride it, perferably in a mountainous evviroment and not at the backyard of my house.

 

Yeah I can feel the most lonely in a crowded enviroment...like for example in the subway, its so depressing sometimes---people looking like zombies...i m not sure if its only like this in the swedish subways that it is like this, but they make me bloody depressed sometimes just beeing surronded by angry and sad faces glanzing at you as if it was my responsibiliy to make them happy or something..:party1:parasites i call them- jelous old women and men who have completly failed with there lifes...and wants to suck out all youre energy you have got in your body.

 

 

Edited December 17, 2004 by koko

[Mica]

hey i'm without girlfriend now... but soon I'll try to get one after I finish my f'in exams in June!!

 

LIRB aghjik em oozoom jarem!