allarmeniangirl

i used to say that as an excuse but now i don't because when i say that, they look at me like i'm a racist or something. one guy actually got really mad at me 4 saying that, so i don't say that anymore. i'm sorry. now i feel bad

wait. u actually wrote that? good job

i just read this poem online.....its soo good. not my poem The Escape a couple solemnly walks then stopping at a stone a winter day's remembrance of the one who is gone the flutter of an eyelash to send a tear away from the fretful fragile source a reddened cheek to stray it crawls along so slowly the destination near a flit from the frosty lash sends down another tear the second tear to follow but captured by a kiss the first escapes off the chin to freefall in the mist

i definitely agree with u on the fact that guys don't get that they don't have to buy expensive things 4 girls. they don't know that some girls just think of the idea and not the material things. a LOT of girls are not gold diggers. to me, the best proposal is simple and sweet. hmmm, y am i thinking about this. <_< i still have 5-10 yrs. hehe but i do hope that there r romantic guys out there.

ATTENTION GUYS/MEN!!! TAKE NOTES!!! lol

Really? that's kool. I have a couple of my poems at poetry.com also. I got into writing poetry since 8th grade. why don't u post ur poems here?

omg angel. that is the cutest and sweetest thing i have ever read. that really made me go aaawww. what a sweetheart her fiancee was. hehe

hehehe. i know what ur saying angel but isn't it sometimes bad to start out as friends and then get serious. what if the friendship gets ruined?

Excuses/Breakups <_< What's the lamest breakup or worst excuse of dating u all ever heard? Like, if u asked out someone, what excuse did they give to tell u "no" or the lamest breakup lines. I know some girls usually say things like, "I just wanna be friends" and etc. Also what excuses you've given to your ex's. Hope I'm not opening a closed wound cuz I'm just asking. maybe we'll learn something from them

ok, u must be thinking of perfect parents. lol. and i definitely know that my parents aren't perfect. Yes, I've heard them say, "Quiet, i dont wanna hear anything, just listen to me," but my parents say that to stop me from interrupting them. After they're done saying whatever they want to say, I say what I wanna say. Honestly, I don't get into big arguments with my parents. I am so SERIOUS about that. I tell my mom almost everything and she understands me completely. To my dad....well, he just sees me as his little girl but there are times when I disagree with him on some levels but he never yells at me. OK, i understand and agree with what u r saying, but u have to make the best of it when u feel that ur parents just don't get it. Of corse they don't. Uhg, haven't ur parents ever told u, "Just wait until u have kids, u'll see how it feels." Maybe we don't understand our parent's point of views sometimes. Omg, am i making sense? lol

alrighty....sorry we can change the subject. well, i must leave u all 4 now. hw to do....ppl to see.....well, actually just hw(AP English).

ur not the talkative type? everything u just told us, that's what u should tell ur mom. besides, how else r u gonna solve ur problem if u don't talk to her? force her to understand. ok, i don't think that its different 4 girls than 4 guys. some of my (girl)friends cannot talk to their parents also because their parents don't understand and etc. but Dan, u need to start talking. next time ur mom gets u angry, just say it. don't disrespect her though...she is ur mom. u hate the way she talks to u.......tell her what u hate about it.

knock knock Dan....did u not hear what armine said? u solve the problem by telling ur parent(s) what ur problem with them is. on the matter of u guys not agreeing on a single thing, perhaps a compromise can be made

i agree that talking to parents is the best way, but it sometimes depends on the parent. my opinion: well, if the parent IS the problem then u should definitely tell them. how else will u let them know that something is bothering u. and if the parent starts to yell at u and say that u r wrong, u can always say, "this is why i never come to u 4 anything." i love this thread btw

uh oh, Dan is about to go into the wall

there u have it. another stupid way to relive anger. continuing hurting urself and as for Dan, nah, i'm not angry...anymore. besides, i think the kind of anger angel was reffering to was the sad anger. People(or should i say girls because macho man like Dan definitely doesn't cry) cry when they're sad.

OH NO U DIDN'T!!!! lol that is so mean and u should never think that that's the reason. i hate it when guys think that. another hu. <_<

crying does help...4 girls....sometimes. and... well yea. u guys tend to put urselves in more pain when angry. ex: hitting the wall. lol

hahaha yes Dan? did u have something to say? lol

ur sooo welcome wow, u have a beautiful heart. u said that ur afraid to hurt others, but...... but ........but ur the one who's getting hurt. and of corse, don't reveal everything about urself, just specific things that bother u. If someone made u angry, argue back and try to prove them wrong. u don't have to win teh argument, but just the fact that u argued already says a lot. It's also very important not to let ppl know that they can walk all over u because ppl tend to take advantage of that. If someone makes a slight comment about u doing something 4 them(walking all over u) u can answer back with a somewhat sarcastic reply that lets them know that they have to do something for u. that's the problem. it shouldn't all be kept inside of u. u have to let it out. As i mentioned earlier, our emotions are like a balloon. It gets bigger and bigger and if we don't let some air(anger) out little by little, it will explode.

Angel, i know exactly what u mean, but sometimes u have to get the strenth to just come out and say what u feel, because if u keep it all inside of u like a baloon, it will explode sooner or later and will make things even worse. I hope i'm making sense by using this metaphor. You mentioned that it sometimes comes to ur friends, well ur friends should understand and if u come out and just say it, they will see a different side of u and perhaps it won't make u so sad and they will understand it. they probbaly don't know that u r hurt the way u r because u never let it all out and told them. YES, crying helps so much, and i should know about that, but when it comes to very serious and emotional things, u should not keep it inside of u because all that sadness will build up and.....well, only go 4 worse. of corse it will be solved later, but ur way of avoiding confrontation doesn't seem to help. so u have to let it out sometimes and judt say what u want to say. i hope i'm helping in some way and if what i just said is all bs, then plz tell me.

well i should hope not, cuz it would be kind of scary and funny to come in while ur sleeping and see u attacking a pillow in ur sleep. haha i was kidding btw.

u have no idea how strange and weird that sounded. lol. but ok, i'll take ur word for it that...and i quote...."it makes.." you .."feel all good inside.." now 4 the idea of pillows making u angry? hmmm, but they are so comphy and soft. if u don't like pillows then u must fight when u sleep. jk

i hear that. i talk to my mom.......she understands everything.

u love me already? it's only been one day. hmmmmm may i suggest hitting a pillow? same energy goes into it, but the pain is so different(no pain).