Come on, I live in Yerevan and I spend enough time in different parts of Armenia like Sevan and Goris. There will be always someone demanding pure virginity (even without kissing) but the overall situation is not so bad at all
I think the problem not in guys, but in parents. Just remember mothers telling their daughters that to keep virginity is a vital necessity, because without it nobody will marry. And that's how guys have this perception of a clean and good girl. None presumes they have to be "clean", even more they have to see everything So I don't think it is fair to blame the guys. Girls even don't try to explain the situation or fight, they just remember this phrase and that's it!
Fortunately, nowadays the girls understand more the situation and there is no bloody vengeance for being not a virgin anymore. I don't know anyone from my friends who got married being a virgin.
So, I think you exaggerate a little bit.