CheekY Posted February 24, 2004 Report Share Posted February 24, 2004 if you had a friend/s who was nice to you but when she found someone new she kind of ignored you... and when she was "alone" she was "nice" to you again would you dump her or stay "friends"? that's fake friendship but... i thought it was immature to "use" someone like that and when these girls grew up they might stop doing it... and i hate girls who think they're fun and all that who other girls worship... i mean come on! a smile "hides" the real you for only a short period of time! don't know if this happens to guys but it does happen to girls a lot! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted February 24, 2004 Report Share Posted February 24, 2004 my friendship with guys is kewl, we wont ignore eachother,, and if there is a new friend, in one of our lives.. its kewl.. we just all join in.. lol.. and go have breakfast and fight over whos gonna pay for it.. so we started this inside joke of a log book.. lol.. anywho.. i dont think it happens much, if at all in relationships between guy friends.. but i know this happens with my female friends.. but eh.. whatever. as much as it may bug me sometimes, in the end they are tere own person, and usually they will regret it one day when tey try to come back and you say, i have to go now.. lol.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angel4hope Posted February 24, 2004 Report Share Posted February 24, 2004 skittles jan i had the same situation with my best friend..no ones perfect...in my situatio, i was open with her and told her how i felt, we kinda had our down sides but everything worked out...well eveutually she'll figure out that you are a great friend and apologize...i always say...i put my friends and family way before anyone else--esp if i just met the guy-hypothetically speaking-i mean yah hes important, but im not gonna neglect my riensd--ever---id never pick a guy over my friends--ever----if he loves you/you love him,...things should work out and there shouldnt be trouble when friends are concerned... my nickles and dimes--and some lint on the topic hehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted February 24, 2004 Report Share Posted February 24, 2004 I does kind of happen with guys. I had a friend I was cool with in college, then we moved back here. So I've kind of mixed in with some of his old friends from highschool, cousins and what not. I feel that sometimes he just doesn't put in the effort coming my way. I support him, hang out with them, watch his games, do him favors, but coming my way it's not at all even. Cuts our phone calls short, etc.I used to think only girls had issues like this with 'friends' but he's just a self-centered person. Not in a bad way, just in a "if it doesn't have to do with me, I might not really try" kind of way. Hoskanum ek? So I've have just decided to kind of phase him out, stop calling, and just hang out with him after long intervals and when he calls. I just don't have the patience to deal with it anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheekY Posted February 24, 2004 Author Report Share Posted February 24, 2004 well i'm not really talking about me because i've already learned my lesson lol and i don't care much about friendship anymore anyway. this whole world is fake lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sev-mard Posted February 24, 2004 Report Share Posted February 24, 2004 Wow, you don't really feel like that do you? I know i'm very pessimistic. But what keeps me from feeling like that, is the fact that I do have a few die-hard friends, that keeps me from feeling completely alone.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gevo27 Posted February 24, 2004 Report Share Posted February 24, 2004 well i'm not really talking about me because i've already learned my lesson lol and i don't care much about friendship anymore anyway. this whole world is fake lol shes right this world is fake, just go outside and try to imagin nothing exists, and nothing will exist, lol.. or you can numb all your 5 senses and that way.. for sure nothing will exist... to you.. hahah.. lol.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allarmeniangirl Posted February 26, 2004 Report Share Posted February 26, 2004 (edited) if you had a friend/s who was nice to you but when she found someone new she kind of ignored you... and when she was "alone" she was "nice" to you again would you dump her or stay "friends"? that's fake friendship but... i thought it was immature to "use" someone like that and when these girls grew up they might stop doing it... and i hate girls who think they're fun and all that who other girls worship... i mean come on! a smile "hides" the real you for only a short period of time! don't know if this happens to guys but it does happen to girls a lot! Yup....this definitely happened to me. Thankfully only once. This girl used to my best friend. We'd always hang out but I remember her sometimes blowing off our plans because she had other stuff to do. I would not hear from her for like two weeks and all of a sudden she'd call. Later on I had my cirlce of friends and she had hers. She began to hang out with a different croud(bad croud). I'm glad I didn't get sucked into that croud because I hear from people that my X-friend is not doing so well. Kind of dissapointed and all, but I still would want to know what happened to her and how she's doing. She has her life and I got mine. Yup, about four years of friendship ruined. I don't think I would hang out with her right now though because she changed and just not my type of friend anymore. This does happend to girls. Why though? *sigh* Edited February 26, 2004 by allarmeniangirl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SALTnPEPA92 Posted February 27, 2004 Report Share Posted February 27, 2004 if you had a friend/s who was nice to you but when she found someone new she kind of ignored you... and when she was "alone" she was "nice" to you again would you dump her or stay "friends"? that's fake friendship but... i thought it was immature to "use" someone like that and when these girls grew up they might stop doing it... and i hate girls who think they're fun and all that who other girls worship... i mean come on! a smile "hides" the real you for only a short period of time! don't know if this happens to guys but it does happen to girls a lot! i feel you girl been through that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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