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All my life, I've been waiting for a man, any man, to ask a woman, any woman, that question. And here it is...thank you!

 

I'm so on it!!!

 

Ok, here we go...

 

Gayane's perfect husband:

 

At work he is: ruthless, highly ambitious, highly self confident, a born leader with an excellent ability to delegate authority... must be very well educated

 

At home he is: extremely affectionate, considerate, loving, respectful, patient, man enough to be able to lead while giving me enough room to be myself (very difficult proposition )... must be able to communicate and be comfortable with somewhat of a compromise, must be good with kids

 

Socially he is: honest with a lot of integrity, charming, very well mannered, able to carry a conversation with anyone, a big plus if other women hit on him...lol... must stand out in a crowd

 

In person he is: passionate, attractive, not necessarily gorgeous, masculine looks will do, tall preferred...must be charismatic

 

In bed he is: lol...gotcha, my secret

 

But I bet every girl is looking for those same qualities, some more than others. I think it's the little things that would make him the perfect husband though. He has to be committed to the marriage (ok, so that's a big thing...lol). I have to be able to respect him (he has to be more ambitious and more intelligent than I am ), I have to be able to be proud of him, no matter what surprises life has in store for us or where it takes us... proud of him as a man, as a husband, as a father, proud to have been chosen by him... he's the kind of a man who'll understand if I want to spend long hours at my clinic working out a difficult case or courting a new client, as well as understand if I want to sit at his feet and rest my head on his knee while he strokes my hair. He's the kind of a man who will make me want to rush home to cook dinner just because I'm cooking it for him, the kind of a man who'll hold me and say nothing ...for hours...if that's what it takes to make me feel better...the kind of a man who'll let me cry when I want to and let me dance around the house when I want to , the kind of a man who'll know who I am and will love me and respect me for being exactly who I am, the kind of a man who realizes how much teamwork and committment a marriage takes and the kind of a man who never takes me for granted.

 

That, ladies and gentlemen, is Gayane's long winded tale of the perfect husband...lol

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Gayane jan, I don't know what your major is but you are a born writer. I really enjoyed reading it. I wish you all the luck in the world to get hold of that perfect husband. You are going to need it.

 

[This message has been edited by edg (edited November 13, 2000).]

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Amusnu P@ntrtuq

 

Mi dzi tveq indz, mi dzi,

kaputachya, kaputatench, kaptatrich mi dzi,

voskebash, vosketamb, voskexrxinj mi dzi,

yerkarapoch, yerkaravot, yerkaraboy mi dzi:

Mi dzi tveq indz,

vor tamb u sandzi masin der lsats ch@lini,

mi dzi tveq indz, vor der filmerum

(tekuz glxavor herosi tak) nkarahanvats ch@lini,

mi dzi tveq indz,

vor der krkesum yeluyt unetsats ch@lini,

mi dzi tveq indz,

vor bernameqenayi tapqits poetneri xighj

sharjats ch@lini,

mi dzi tveq indz, vor anverj lsel karoghana,

bayts lezu chunena, ir xorhurdnerov gluxs ch@tani,

mi dzi tveq indz, vor jratsin ch@lini,

bayts jreri vrayov vazel karoghana,

mi dzi tveq indz, vor hreghen ch@lini,

bayts hrtireghenits ch@vaxena, inqnatirnern

arhamarel karoghana...

Inch unem` ktam, batsi...

che, da el ktam,

amen inch ktam mi dziu dimats:

Tveq indz ays dzin,

vor henvem nran ashxar@ shur tam,

tveq indz ays...

Dzezanits mek@ anshusht im dzin e,

yes matnatsuyts chem anum,

togh inqn araj ga

get

mi

dziaqayl:

 

Violet Grigoryan

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:::::::::::))))))))))))

 

Wow.

 

Do perfect Armenian Husbands exist?? I thought they died before dinasaurs :)

However maybe there are numbers of Perfect Armenian husbands, but i guess they are in the Red Book ::)))))

 

 

Artur

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quote:
Originally posted by Gayane:

All my life, I've been waiting for a man, any man, to ask a woman, any woman, that question. And here it is...thank you!



Gayane,

The type Armenian husband you have described is not uncommon. When, I look at my family and relatives most of my uncles and my dad pretty much fit your description.

I think it is a matter of education. You as an intelligent women are looking for someone like you. In my opinion a well educated guy is most likely to fit your description of a perfect husband. Although the incentive to education has decreased among Armenians, there are still many well educated Armenian guys.
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Suro

 

Yes, one of my major qualifiers is educations: I simply refuse to marry anyone without it. However(!!), believe me when I say that there are a lot of inconsiderate, disrespectful, insecure, dishonest, ill mannered, non committal, not to mention lacking a single grain of charisma, albeit EDUCATED men!! Yes, there are those fitting that description in my family as well. Trouble is, they're already married!...lol..

The up side to this is, as you say, they exist...lol...I certainly hope so. Although I have no inclination to be married now, I have to get married sometime!!!

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quote:
Originally posted by Sulamita:
Amusnu P@ntrtuq

Mi dzi tveq indz, mi dzi,



Sulamik,
This is the first time I come across a poem where man is associated with horse. Generally it's woman-horse association. Well, in most Armenian poems it is. Like in this one:

Dzi, dzi, payte dzi,
Mer dran@ kapeci,
Karmir guynov nerkeci...
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quote:
Originally posted by Berj:
Sulamik,
This is the first time I come across a poem where man is associated with horse. Generally it's woman-horse association. Well, in most Armenian poems it is. Like in this one:

Dzi, dzi, payte dzi,
Mer dran@ kapeci,
Karmir guynov nerkeci...




We should blame the WEST They are evil I tell ya !!! He he he ...
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  • 2 weeks later...
People, dont you wish more 17 year olds boys were like Alex? He's clever, Not only can he successfully sting a sentence together but he isn't monosyllabic, like going, "Uuuh" I'm in the pub" "MMM" "yeak ok!"
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Kazza, for the sake of my kid sister, there better be more 17 yr old guys like Alex!!!

 

Alex, you're on my list of potential husbands for my sister...lol...she's got all my good qualities without the bad!!

 

I'm joking, kid, don't take me too seriously...lol

 

Gayancho

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