DeLaLa Posted July 19, 2007 Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 barev barev barev uremen... what would you say or think if one of your friends told you "i am with a much younger man" ??? is it ok to have a much younger boyfriend for armenians ? maybe there are also some armenian mothers/fathers here in the forum who could also give their oppinion how the reaction would be if their son would one day come home and say "im with an older woman" .... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ED Posted July 19, 2007 Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 barev barev barev uremen... what would you say or think if one of your friends told you "i am with a much younger man" ??? is it ok to have a much younger boyfriend for armenians ? maybe there are also some armenian mothers/fathers here in the forum who could also give their oppinion how the reaction would be if their son would one day come home and say "im with an older woman" .... My son did, and so what? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted July 19, 2007 Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 (edited) My son did, and so what? Wait wait wait ... I almost had a heart attack here .. what exactly did your son say/do ? Edited July 19, 2007 by Sip Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeLaLa Posted July 19, 2007 Author Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 (edited) My son did, and so what? how much older was she edwardjan ? did your wife react as cool as you ? ps. Sip ... iyaaa ... pambasox ... ts ts ts ...amot ! Edited July 19, 2007 by DeLaLa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anoushik Posted July 19, 2007 Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 uremen... what would you say or think if one of your friends told you "i am with a much younger man" ??? I think it all depends on how young exactly. If just some number of years then it's fine. But if it's closer to ten and more then it's a subject for gossip ... It also depends on the ages of the people involved. I think the older men and women get then it's more accepted to have an age gap between them, but if the man and the woman are in their twenties and their thirties then it's not exactly accepted. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeLaLa Posted July 19, 2007 Author Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 I think it all depends on how young exactly. If just some number of years then it's fine. But if it's closer to ten and more then it's a subject for gossip ... It also depends on the ages of the people involved. I think the older men and women get then it's more accepted to have an age gap between them, but if the man and the woman are in their twenties and their thirties then it's not exactly accepted. hi anoushik , is this above your personal oppinion or your speculation how armenian society would react in such case ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anoushik Posted July 19, 2007 Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 hi anoushik , is this above your personal oppinion or your speculation how armenian society would react in such case ? The second option. I'm much more liberal and could care less in what kind of relationships people are. As long as it doesn't hurt any future children Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted July 19, 2007 Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 ps. Sip ... iyaaa ... pambasox ... ts ts ts ...amot ! Well not that there's anything "wrong" with that but I read the question about someone saying "i am with a much younger man" and then Edwards reply and I just about ... well .. nothing really "wrong" with that of course. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeLaLa Posted July 19, 2007 Author Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 (edited) sip ? is that swiss panir on your kulux ? http://www.armenien.am/images/smilies/icon_7015_weissnicht.gif As long as it doesn't hurt any future children emmm ... what do you mean exactly ? how could an age difference hurt children ? Edited July 19, 2007 by DeLaLa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted July 19, 2007 Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 sip ? is that swiss panir on your kulux ? It's real Wisconsin cheese The best in the world ... And favre = God in Wisconsin ... I do like Swiss cheese though, but I wouldn't put it on my head. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeLaLa Posted July 19, 2007 Author Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 (edited) Sipjan ... I also want to hear your personal oppinion to this topic .... to make the problems which can occur having a younger boyfriend more visual and understandable to you ... i posted this youtube-example only for you Edited July 19, 2007 by DeLaLa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sip Posted July 19, 2007 Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 Thanks for the video ... that is definitely a shining example of what it really means to be barska-hay As far as my opinion on this topic, I really don't see myself having either a younger or an older boyfriend. With respect being with an older woman, for a short term I can see tremendous advantages in it. But again, in my case, I can't imagine a very long term relationship with someone who is much older than I am (unless that person is still able to keep up with me so it will depend). Now I do not mean this with ANY disrespect to anyone that might be reading this, but it seems "Armenians" (among other cultures) are trained from very early on to work towards "settleing down" in their older days. I am rolling over 30 about to hit 31 and I don't see any sort of slowing down or settling down in my feature ... at least no where in the next 10-15 years. So I think again it really depends ... if there is an "older woman" who is up for traveling extensively, not really having a "permanent home" anywhere, is up for hopping in the boat or jeep and hitting up a remote lake or trail for a week every once in a while, then I can certainly be open to the possiblity. But if an "older" woman means someone who is going to get bitter and paranoid about herself and everyone around her, worried that she is somehow "missing" life by not having children or "settling down", then I much rather be with someone much younger than me (because I am technically still a big kid). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeLaLa Posted July 19, 2007 Author Report Share Posted July 19, 2007 Sipjan , if someone young as you can spend time to post 7454 posts , then i am sure you also can find the time to date an older woman ... he he ... no , seriously , why do you suppose an older girlfriend couldnt keep up with you ? you make 40 year old women look like oooold dzazza's with no energy in your post above ... thats not a good argument for me ! iyaaa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeLaLa Posted July 22, 2007 Author Report Share Posted July 22, 2007 Iyaaaaaaaaaa !!! grrrr ... was this it on oppinions ? am i a helpless case ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aratta-Kingdom Posted July 22, 2007 Report Share Posted July 22, 2007 (because I am technically still a big kid). 'dzeranum enq paruyr sevak, dzeranum enq sirelis...' . even the genius admits he has lost the child within himself... sadly only few can comprehend what it truly means... nice to know there are still living souls among us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anonymouse Posted August 8, 2007 Report Share Posted August 8, 2007 I would say it doesn't matter but who knows, some people get real worked up about it, like when the mailman doesn't come on the right day or their children end up doing drugs or god forbid following weird fetishes like necrophilia or fisting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hreshtak Posted November 19, 2007 Report Share Posted November 19, 2007 barev barev barev uremen... what would you say or think if one of your friends told you "i am with a much younger man" ??? is it ok to have a much younger boyfriend for armenians ? maybe there are also some armenian mothers/fathers here in the forum who could also give their oppinion how the reaction would be if their son would one day come home and say "im with an older woman" .... I think it depends on how big the difference is. If the girl is 2 years older than the boy, i wouldn't mind that..but if she's 20 years older LOL than i dont think its a good idea to marry her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SirunTgha Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 barev barev barev uremen... what would you say or think if one of your friends told you "i am with a much younger man" ??? is it ok to have a much younger boyfriend for armenians ? maybe there are also some armenian mothers/fathers here in the forum who could also give their oppinion how the reaction would be if their son would one day come home and say "im with an older woman" .... That's ridiculous, is it okay for Armenians to have a much younger boyfriend? Don't ask how yourself if it's okay for Armenians to do this or that, ask yourself, is it okay or not? I'm 19 and been dating a 27 years old woman for 6 months. Is that okay? Go ask her. I believe not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashot Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 it all depends how young the guy is - I would say... with Nico's choice it's too much!!! but a few years won't make too much of a difference unless the girl likes to have her man be the MAN of the house!!! If she wants to be in control it's always good to date with a same age or younger guys, becuase you are in control!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SirunTgha Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 it all depends how young the guy is - I would say... with Nico's choice it's too much!!! but a few years won't make too much of a difference unless the girl likes to have her man be the MAN of the house!!! If she wants to be in control it's always good to date with a same age or younger guys, becuase you are in control!!! She wasn't dating me so i be the man in the house I've always been sexually harassed by women so it came to be natural for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashot Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 hahaha, lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SirunTgha Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 hahaha, lol Seriously Ashot, it's very wrong to be used, and I feel like I was used, so no matter what, dating a much younger man is not a good thing to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashot Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 well is it good to date a younger girl? What I think is it's sometimes good to date an older girl, to get the needed experiance and then you can date a younger girl, and only then you will be able to treat your "girlfriend" the way you would want to be treated!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SirunTgha Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 well is it good to date a younger girl? What I think is it's sometimes good to date an older girl, to get the needed experiance and then you can date a younger girl, and only then you will be able to treat your "girlfriend" the way you would want to be treated!!! Yes but her question is: When A Woman Is Together With A Much Younger Man ... I personally believe it's wrong, obviously, and I'm well placed to speak on this matter, the only reason an older woman would like to date a much younger man is for sex. Whatever she invents as an excuse, it won't be anything else but an excuse. Trust me. So no again, it is not okay to date a much younger man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashot Posted February 12, 2008 Report Share Posted February 12, 2008 Ya it is, They can date me anytime!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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