Stop the homophobia and just relax! There are more important issues to worry about.
Besides, aren't we all playing the role of men and women at the same time to a certain degree? Show me a person who is a typical woman or a typical man these days! Men are changing diapers, getting pedicures, following fashion trends, etc... and women, we are career professionals, active sexually as men have been for ages, independent and opinionated. Yes, we have physical differences but we are forming the same experiences and sensations the more and more.
I'd say let's worry more about the environment, finding cure to terminal diseases, poverty and injustice...leave personal choices alone!
Zoolal