My friends,
I am thankful to be here with the Armenian intelligentsia. Now matter what, intellectuals find a way to get together and discuss issues. And we have many interesting issues to discuss.
I for one am a fond advocate of Armenians marrying Armenians, for a number of reasons. However, the most successful has been my "museum" analogy.
As the curators of the world museum, we must take it unto ourselves to preserve the Armenian section.
I can not single out learning Armenian as being the key to being Armenian; I feel that the Armenian identity is much more than that.
Arguing this on theoretical grounds seems almost pointless to me because it has so much emotion involved in it.
Theoretically, genetic diversity is probably the best way to go. But again, theoretically, we should have X amount of exercise a day, and a balanced diet, etc. - because that is probably best for us as individuals.
But, fortunately or unfortunately, we have emotion weaved into all of this. We for some reason CARE about the preservation of artifacts, and I want to take that and say that we should care about the preservation of Armenians.
I feel that the easiest and most reliable, as well as efficient way of doing this is marrying an Armenian. It has been time-tested.
Now, how can we find good Armenians, compatible Armenians? There are 7-8 million of us, and you are trying to tell me that it's impossible to find an Armenian that is compatible with you? If you care, TRY HARDER, go the extra mile to find him/her, because the payoff is securing our national identity for at least another generation.
I hope that we can leverage the power of the internet to bring Armenians closer together. Social networking programs (myspace, etc.) are doing a better job of this as the years progress. Relax my friends, Web 2.0 will ensure that we have very efficient social networking programs within the next few years - connecting you with people that you would have never been able to meet. I am sure that will help you connect with Armenians who are like you.
Next, I'd like to have you think about "happiness" in marriage. No matter who you marry, you will probably not be happy. Most of you are going to go through a divorce, or will want to break it off, but will not be able to. Your sex life will drop after you have your first-born.
Finally, it is doubtful that humans are monogamous creatures (very few animals are, though I think mammals tend to have a higher chance of being monogamous).
Conclusion: if we were to argue theoretically, I would say go and have offspring with as many people as you can (girls choose the alphas, males don't choose, just let loose your seed) to increase the genetic diversity of the world. Make sure you eat a balanced diet and get your daily exercise to maximize your lifespan. Emotionally, we can say that we attribute value to having interactions with Armenians (why are we not on OneCulture Forum.com?) as well as having an Armenian homeland. To preserve that, I feel that we must continue investing in what has kept us this way - inter-marriage as well as Armenian communities.
I just typed this out - I am very open to discussion, as a matter of fact, I need your help to help me make my argument stronger.
Warmest regards to all.