You know, I think it's not really worth spending so much time and energy talking about this. We only have one life to live, so we should make the most of it, enjoy ourselves, be happy, love one another. I think we should just live and let live. I always find it annoying when people talk about homosexuality. There are more important things to spend time talking about, like the environment, human rights, pauverty, war, oppression, etc.
And you know, the funny thing is that I'm (half) Armenian, I'm gay, I'm married to a man who's not Armenian (I live in Canada so the marriage is legal), I don't look, dress or act gay, I don't go to gay bars, I don't flaunt myself half naked in gay parades (I don't watch them either), and none of the gay people I know do those things. I consider myself a relatively normal person, just a person who happens to love a man instead of a woman. And it's not just the "sex" -- I really "love" him. I know who I am and what I'm worth. I don't care what others think of my being gay. I don't advertise it, I never say "Hi, my name is Alex and I'm gay", but if people ask me if I'm married, I simply say yes, and if they ask me about my wife, I tell them it's actually a husband. No advertisement, but no lies, no shame, no hiding.
Enjoy your lives, for it's short and we only have one to live.
Peace.