I haven’t read the book yet, but a few weeks back the author was on Oprah. A lot of the women on the show were just what you described Angel. I love how in ever discussion the author would say; “Well, he’s just not that into you” and the women would have tears in their eyes. I admit I was laughing most of the time.
I am sure most of those women knew the men in their lives weren’t that into them. From what I have learned with situations like these is to give it time. Once we let things be everything seems to falls into place. So what if he isn’t into you. There is always someone else that is willing to love you, start a family or even go on that first date with you.