Stormy, It's not a matter of being "pleased" with the fact that an Armenian isn't "lost" but another is "gained" ohh, so sentimental. It's a matter of questioning the motive behind a person leaving their own identity and conforming to another. Edward, What's stereotypical? It's a fact, an African American man, has an African American identity, an African American past. ....oh, I'm glad I amaze you. yes, i agree, "disown" might be strong of a word. Yet, If one chooses to name his kids "Sevaq or Armond speaking Arevelkian Hayaren" and change his life around revolving the Armenian culture, then one leaves a part of himself. no one has to agree with me. everyone is entitled to their own opinion.