I'm rather new to this forum, so, I don't quite know if my comments on this thread are welcome or not. Nevertheless, the following may shed some Light on the apparent dispute. In Esoteric Christian terminology, the word "judgment" in and of itself is value free. It depends on the state of mind of the person doing the "judging". If the state of mind is that of being informed by the Holy Spirit, often, it is called the "Judgment of the Holy Spirit" and it is a constructive, healing mental act; however, if the state of mind is being informed by the ego, it is called the equivalent of a "projection" and is the "negative" judgment that is spoken of by JC in the New Testament, which is quite blind. The bottom line with any exchange is that it is to have a healing result. What are the results you're looking for? Personal disputes are a fact of everyday life; they should not be white-washed. However, nor should they be empowered to persist, if one can resolve them, or if one can attempt to resolve them. I don’t mean to sound like Rodney King now, but, it seems to me that as Armenians, we can use all the unity we can muster now, if we are to further thrive in this world - the potential reflector of Heaven. Use your personal disputes as a mechanism to further unify us. AM