Guest Posted November 20, 2000 Report Share Posted November 20, 2000 This might be a simple sounding/idiotic question, but nevertheless i just wanted to know : how do you find your true love/soul mate? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 20, 2000 Report Share Posted November 20, 2000 Alex, for what purpose: love for love's sake, or marriage? My answer would vary depending on the condition. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 20, 2000 Report Share Posted November 20, 2000 . [This message has been edited by Kazza (edited November 20, 2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 20, 2000 Report Share Posted November 20, 2000 Alex. True love and a soul mate are 2 different things. This is what I think. First, you find your true love. You go crazy about her and think that you can't live without her. Then the reality kicks in and you loose her. After the first stage (if you are smart enough to put everything behind you) you will find your soul mate and live happily ever after...lol..I don't know my friend. I have seen very few people who found their true love and their soul mate in the same person and actually ended up together. It rarely works. Edgar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 20, 2000 Report Share Posted November 20, 2000 Alex, I am sure you think that I am nuts..lol.. [This message has been edited by edg (edited November 20, 2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 20, 2000 Report Share Posted November 20, 2000 Edgar, I agree. I think everyone should fall madly in love before getting married, this time because of compatibility, not love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 21, 2000 Report Share Posted November 21, 2000 quote:Originally posted by Alex Kornev:This might be a simple sounding/idiotic question, but nevertheless i just wanted to know : how do you find your true love/soul mate?Yikes what a tough question! The best way is to just go about your normal day, routines and hobbies. This way when someone crosses your path, you'll clearly have something in common. Alas though, I never met anyone in a record store I met my wife through a friend. In fact, the best people I ever dated were met through friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 21, 2000 Report Share Posted November 21, 2000 Ask your grandmother to find you a nice Armenian girl in Hayastan, she will be your true love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 21, 2000 Report Share Posted November 21, 2000 That's what i mean a soul mate. I never dated anyone so i never had a chance to meet my "soulmate". I would like to find a nice armenian girl , but there are none around here i mean if i lived in boston , glendale , nyc it would be a different story. Im not just sayin i wanna find an armenian girl just because she is armenian, but based on the fact that most of the armenian girls ive met are really nice and have very good personalities (not to mention they are also the most beautiful girls ive seen). So i have to go with an odar. I guess there is nothing wrong with that. [This message has been edited by Alex Kornev (edited November 21, 2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 21, 2000 Report Share Posted November 21, 2000 I bet there are Armenians around you, WE'RE EVERYWHERE! After all, you're there aren't you? Date whomever for now--it helps you understand the type of girl you'd like to marry someday. Along the way, you'll find an Armenian girl. [This message has been edited by Pilafhead (edited November 21, 2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 21, 2000 Report Share Posted November 21, 2000 Nope no armenians around here lol.... its a jewish/italian town, nothing wrong with that but still no armenians. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 21, 2000 Report Share Posted November 21, 2000 quote:Originally posted by edg:First, you find your true love. You go crazy about her and think that you can't live without her. Then the reality kicks in and you loose her. Amen, brother!Alex, just make sure the person you fall head over heels for doesn't later turn out to be a Hye lesbian. It happened to..um..someone I know quite well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 21, 2000 Report Share Posted November 21, 2000 LOL....I'll try Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 22, 2000 Report Share Posted November 22, 2000 quote:Originally posted by Artur:Ask your grandmother to find you a nice Armenian girl in Hayastan, she will be your true love Oh yes and you will ber her "One way ticket ... one way ticket to the STATES !!!" He he he Artur jan? Barev Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 22, 2000 Report Share Posted November 22, 2000 This is what I think. There is that one person out there (soulmate) for every single person. But your chances of meeting that person are like 1 in a 789,349,984. And then there are bunch of people you can get along with and be somewhat compatible). So it's up to you to pick among those "second best" candidates. Alex, why don't you come to LA and I introduce you to some nice Armenian girls? After all, why do you feel so attached to (wherever you live)? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 22, 2000 Report Share Posted November 22, 2000 Sulamita jan,I don't feel attached here what so ever, i would love to move to the west coast, but the fact that i'm low on funds and 17 is sort of an obstacle. I know there are a tonn of armenian girls in cali and armenians in general. I think when i get older i'll move to the west coast there are so many opprotunities out there (not to mention many fine armenian girls he he). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 24, 2000 Report Share Posted November 24, 2000 quote:Originally posted by Alex Kornev: ... but the fact that i'm low on funds and 17 is sort of an obstacle Ooohhhh, you are only 17 !!! Well, in that case, you have plenty of time to find a nice Armenian Girl Good luck Alex jan !!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 26, 2000 Report Share Posted November 26, 2000 Thank you hope i do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 27, 2000 Report Share Posted November 27, 2000 I guess to find your true love IS to find your soulmate or so it seems to me. I would have to be so lucky. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 27, 2000 Report Share Posted November 27, 2000 quote:Originally posted by Sulamita:This is what I think. There is that one person out there (soulmate) for every single person. But your chances of meeting that person are like 1 in a 789,349,984. And then there are bunch of people you can get along with and be somewhat compatible). So it's up to you to pick among those "second best" candidates. Alex, why don't you come to LA and I introduce you to some nice Armenian girls? After all, why do you feel so attached to (wherever you live)? How about introducing those nice Armenian girls to me. ------------------x ~[This message has been edited by Arman (edited November 27, 2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 27, 2000 Report Share Posted November 27, 2000 quote:Originally posted by Gayane:Alex, for what purpose: love for love's sake, or marriage? My answer would vary depending on the condition.How about both? Do enlighten us, your hyeness. ------------------x ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 27, 2000 Report Share Posted November 27, 2000 Your highness?...lol I do enjoy being addressed in this way, I must admit. You must know me as QnShamiram then. Love: everyone should experience this once before getting married. Marriage: a mess not everyone should get into, unless they're able to deal with the bad as well as with the good. Love has nothing to do with marriage and marriage has nothing to do with love. Love comes to you, marriage you seek out. For the detailed version of Gayane's thoughts on the subject, see other threads, I believe "what is love" is one of relevant ones. Lol, sorry to be so succinct, I have a meeting to go to and don't feel particularly romantic at the moment Her highness Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 28, 2000 Report Share Posted November 28, 2000 I think love is a beautiful thing. If you mistreat it though it can turn around and bite ya in the you know what. Same goes for marriage, but then again i haven't experienced neither one(thank god for that) (maybe a crush here and there)but still i can say that love is a pretty neat thing. well thats my two cents on love...lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 28, 2000 Report Share Posted November 28, 2000 Alex, just wait until you are older to get married. I'd say 27-30ish for the both of you. At that point you both are much more stable and know exactly what you want in a spouse. People change too much in their 20's to get married young. It's also good to be out of school and established in your career so the stress of that does not take its toll on your marriage. Same goes for your future spouse. Although, if you wait until your mid-30's or later, you risk being too set in your ways to adapt to life in marriage. Don't worry about it now though. I didn't meet my wife until I was just about 26 and it totally came out of the blue. Ten years later, we're rock solid. [This message has been edited by Pilafhead (edited November 27, 2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 28, 2000 Report Share Posted November 28, 2000 I think that ill wait till im 50 then get married. I might have a career and stuff by then [This message has been edited by Alex Kornev (edited November 29, 2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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