Please help me understand this man
#1
Posted 07 May 2012 - 05:31 AM
Now, I'm confused of course because no American man would hang around so long unless he is serious. We are talking about over two years here. So please shed some light on this strange relationship coming from your culture so I can better understand.
#2
Posted 07 May 2012 - 10:20 AM
P.S. I'm not a psychologist, but I play one, here on Hyeforum! Good Luck!
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#3
Posted 07 May 2012 - 11:45 AM
#4
Posted 07 May 2012 - 12:19 PM
Dear hyefriend, welcome to Hyeforum! Unfortunately your situation has nothing to do whether he is Armenian or not, but everything to do about a secretive man who is hiding something from you, since there is no honesty in the relationship my advice to you is move on and forget him. You don't need to complicate your life, seven years of waiting didn't get you one inch closer to him, think about that.
P.S. I'm not a psychologist, but I play one, here on Hyeforum! Good Luck!
You know what he does doesn't make since to me. I mean we were just internet friends so why all of a sudden saying he wants to meet me and he doesn't. Just for me to understand. What does he get out of this?
#5
Posted 07 May 2012 - 01:05 PM
I'm afraid only he can answer your questions if he wants to truthfully. I think you are asking the wrong question of him when you should be asking yourself, What am I getting out of this and how far am I willing to wait?You know what he does doesn't make since to me. I mean we were just internet friends so why all of a sudden saying he wants to meet me and he doesn't. Just for me to understand. What does he get out of this?
#6
Posted 07 May 2012 - 01:50 PM
Well when he was just an internet friend I had someone that would listen and who was kind. I got a lot out of it then because he was just someone to talk too and he was good at that. But when he said he wanted more and seeing each other etc. and maybe being boyfriend and girlfriend. that is a whole different thing. Then it became hurtful because then he wasn't even a real friend to me because he never gave me his real phone number. He never gave me his address and I wanted to send him a hand spun and hand crocheted blanket I made for him for being there for me with my husband dying. And I start to not believe in maybe he is even Armenian like he said even. And I feel he is a very mean and cruel man because he is playing with someone who lost all their family. I'm not really waiting its just I don't know how to find anyone any more. I'm 53 years old and I lived so long in Egypt that I don't even feel I fit in America any more even though I was born here. I am lonely and I miss the close family ties I used to have in Egypt. I can not go back there. I was not born there. Arranged marriage. The husband wasn't so good but the extended family were the best people on earth. You will find me crazy but I wish I could have another arranged marriage with a good man.I'm afraid only he can answer your questions if he wants to truthfully. I think you are asking the wrong question of him when you should be asking yourself, What am I getting out of this and how far am I willing to wait?
#7
Posted 07 May 2012 - 02:38 PM
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