QUOTE(anoushik @ Mar 14 2006, 12:49 PM)
I think that when we are born into this world and grow up in a society, as adults we have pretty clear views about what good is and what bad is. We know that certain actions that we do might not be good, or that something we have done or are doing are excellent. This has nothing to do with God. We all know how we would like to lead life, and sometimes we contradict our beliefs with something that we should not have done. If you constantly question your actions, determining whether they uphold to your viewpoint in life, and try to live your life by the principles you hold, then I would say you live a happy life.
Yes you make good sense. In my case though, I try to do all that; but I also believe in God. Not only do I believe in God Anoushik jan; I also love Him. I am not frightened of Him as much as I love Him. Though sometimes I am frightened too, that if I go in the opposite direction than it is written in the scriptures; then He'll punish me. Though I have grown to love Him more than being frightened. I didn't feel this way when I was about your age. I went through some hard times in my life and that's when I went to Him more so.
I know, you don't believe in God and I of course cannot force you or push you in that direction, it wouldn't even work; but I do believe in Him, Anoushik. I really do. I try to read from the scripctures every now and then, but I don't like pushing the scriptures on others; because sometimes you can come off being harsh and that can be a turnoff to the ones that are disbelievers or even to the believers too. I think it best to leave it either alone or be more suttle and easy on people, I mean quoting from the scriptures. In my opinion it's better that way so people will not be turned off and they may rebel more, you see?
Coming back to what you just said. Yes it is a very good policy to constantly question your actions, whether they support your mores and your viewpoint in life, so that you'll always live with your principles that you hold. I call that knowing yourself. And one should always know themselves at all times. Yes then you will lead a happy life.
Edited by Anahid Takouhi, 14 March 2006 - 04:38 PM.