QUOTE (sev-mard @ Mar 1 2004, 10:03 AM)
Yeah tell me about it!
I must agree overall i think it's tough out there. Because the 'average' person is exactly that, 'average' and is easily affected by trends, tv and their friends. Hence you get a lot of regular guys trying to be 'playas' because that's what is supposedly cool. They just don't know any better. If it was cool to be chivalrous, I think then more guys would try it. You then have girls reacting to guys and becoming , less and less hamest because the guys are shun's to begin with! It's a vicious cycle....
I must agree overall i think it's tough out there. Because the 'average' person is exactly that, 'average' and is easily affected by trends, tv and their friends. Hence you get a lot of regular guys trying to be 'playas' because that's what is supposedly cool. They just don't know any better. If it was cool to be chivalrous, I think then more guys would try it. You then have girls reacting to guys and becoming , less and less hamest because the guys are shun's to begin with! It's a vicious cycle....
agreed indeed. i hate the average zone myself.. very very much so.. i finally grew out of it.. literally.. lol.. i was the average height for a guy my age.. 5'5" - 5'6" Now i have grown above the average zone lol.. well, nothing if i can help it is average about me.. i hate average.. its so not original...!!!!!!!!!!
your right sev jan, its a vicious cycle.. it ruins relationships, it destroys lives...