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[angel4hope]

what the flipp are you talikng about? i think you need to step out of your bubble and look around you and see that maybe this is what you see in your circle- i would strongly beg t odiffer- because i AM an woman and i DO NOT prefer only guys with money or good looks- looks and money dont go far-- personality does...im sorry but i think you reeeeeeeeeaaly need to look around you more and stop gerneralizing

[Stormig]

I will have to aggree with nice guys finish last. I was one of them.You know never forget a b-day, open the car door, pay the resturant tab.Need a few bucks,cry on my shoulder. Wife#1 left with my boss,asshole with more$ than me. Wife#2 left me with our 2 kids to raise.Reason I didnt want to go out and party and dance,I wanted to be responsible. I became a asshole and met a woman 8 years yunger then me and weve been together 15 years. She works full time.I work seasonal. She pays the bills I pay for her vacation so I can go on mine without her. What do you expect she doesnt like to go fishing. If she wants something my reply is your friggin legs aint broke get it yourself and while your in the fridge get me a beer. Oh and make me a sammich too. Its been 15 years of bliss since I bacame a asshole and prode of it. I'll never open a car door again or pay for my meal again and while your up get me a FRIGGIN BEER.

I hate this BS with opening car doors and ALWAYS paying. But he IS a nice guy after all, gets me a friggin beer.

[kakachik77]

hey anon,
I'm not a women, but I think it appears that way cause women want a guy who has an edge, presents a challenge, and can control the situation. And guys want this too in girls too a certain extent.

Would you want an EXTREMELY nice girl who does everything you say, never argues, never goes off on a limb, and does everything for you cause she is so "nice"? I wouldn't. What I mean is I would want someone that can add flair to my personality and the above description does not fit that.

Girls want this "edginess" even more in their guy. They want him to be nice, but at the same time they don't want him to bow down to them. Afterall they still want him to be in control.

Or even if they want him to be nice to them, they don't necessarily want him to be extremely nice in general with the rest of the world.

Of course this is general and only my take on it.

Shiner, I'm attracted to assholes, I admit...but most of the time these assholes claim that I am not too "nice" to them. What's up with that? I think nice is boring...

[kakachik77]

I hate this BS with opening car doors and ALWAYS paying. But he IS a nice guy after all, gets me a friggin beer.

Stormig, you hit the nail on the head....my reasoning for the asshole types out there is all of these men were USED TO BE the nice guys who simply have been burned by women in the past, lol.

[ExtraHye]

Well, it has a lot to do with age. Ever sense I remember, I've always been attracted to assholes ... nice guys were, well too nice. But then I got sick of getting hurt by these jerks!!! All they ever wanted was one thing, and the minute it came close for a long term relationship, they ran the opposite way.

But now that I'm older, and wiser... I want a nice guy!!!

[Azat]

Extra you can't have me!!!

Everyone please keep the language a bit cleaner

[ExtraHye]

Extra you can't have me!!!

But, but why?

That's not what you said the other day

Edited by ExtraHye, 11 August 2004 - 03:43 AM.

[allarmeniangirl]

...most women will be attracted to assholes more than nice guys.

I'd say this is a lot like guys preferring blondes than brunettes. Just have fun with blondes (in this case bad guys) but stick with (marry maybe) brunettes (good/nice guys).

I however don't want a bad boy. They piss me off...........most of the time.